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STONEHOUSE o@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2008-04-22 published
BRYDGES,
Nelson "
Cowboy"
Garnet
Brydges
Age 87, a long-time resident of Sarnia, Ontario, passed away
on April 20, 2008 at Bluewater Health Palliative Care. Nelson
was born on July 15, 1920 in Plympton Township to Walter and
Sarah (HELPS)
BRYDGES and married his loving wife
Audrey
(SCOTT)
BRYDGES on November 29, 1941, Audrey predeceased him in November 2005 and
he missed her very much. Nelson is survived by his loving daughters
and sons-in-law Geraldine (Donald)
STEWARD/STEWART/STUART, and Bonnie (Ross)
GENNOE and his two grand_sons who he cherished, Rob
GENNOE
(Nicole)
and Dan GENNOE.
Also his extended family Carolyn (Joe)
STONEHOUSE,
their children Tyler and Nathan
MATER,
Beau,
Brett and Ben
STONEHOUSE,
and Brian (Pat)
STEWARD/STEWART/STUART and their children Matthew, Michael,
and Kate. Brother of Doris
GOODALL, and brother-in-law of Irene
BRYDGES and Eileen
BRYDGES, Ken (Evelyn)
SCOTT, Fred
SCOTT, Jean
(Earl) OPPENHAUSER, Yvonne (Keith)
TINNING, Mary (Don)
SWINDALL,
Pat (Ron) PATTERSON and Jim
MILLER.
Also survived by numerous
nieces and nephews. Predeceased by parents Walter and Sarah
(HELPS)
BRYDGES, brothers and sisters-in-law Walter and Margie
BRYDGES,
Lewis BRYDGES,
Clifford and Hazel
BRYDGES, Robert
BRYDGES, and
sisters and brothers-in-law Lucy and Jack
KECK,
John
GOODALL,
Violet and Clifford
KADEY,
Evelyn and Don
McINTYRE, Mary and
Ruel BOYNTON.
Also sister-in-law and brother-in-law Ruth and
John MILLINGTON, sisters-in-law Dorothy
MILLER and Audrey
SCOTT,
and son-in-law Orval
DUFFY.
Nelson fought bravely in the Second
World War and was in the first wave at Normandy. A Brick has
been placed at Juno Beach remembering the service he gave to
his country. Nelson continued to be a faithful member of the
Royal Canadian Legion. He will be fondly remembered by his good
Friends Ian and Sheila
McKILLOP, and also all the many Friends
he made at Tim Horton's on Colborne Road. His nickname was "Cowboy"
because he always wore his western hat, boots and jeans - a throw
back to his younger days around horses. He loved animals all
his life. Nelson had 10 pin bowled for almost 50 years and was
still bowling in early March and made many Friends through his
bowling associations. We will all miss him dearly, but know that
he is now with his beloved Audrey and they are back together
and in God's hands. A funeral service will be held on Thursday,
April 24, 2008, at 11: 00 a.m. at Smith Funeral Home, 1576 London
Line, Sarnia. Interment will follow at Resurrection Cemetery.
Family and Friends will be received at Smith Funeral Home on
Wednesday, April 23, 2008 from 2: 00 to 4:00 p.m. and 7:00 to
9: 00 p.m. Sympathy donations may be made to War Amps or the charity
of your choice. Memories and condolences may be sent online at
www.smithfuneralhome.ca.
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STONEMAN o@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2008-06-18 published
CORNWALL,
Marion
Elizabeth
Passed away, peacefully, at her home, on Sunday, June 15, 2008.
Marion CORNWALL, of Belleville, Ontario, and for many years a
resident of London, Ontario. Daughter of the late Dillon and
Muriel (STONEMAN)
CORNWALL.
Sister of the late Annabelle and
the late Doctor James
LOUDON of Belleville. Arrangements in the
care of Belleville Funeral Home and Chapel Ltd. 68 North Front
Street, Belleville, Ontario. (613-968-5080). Following cremation,
an interment will take place at Woodland Cemetery, London. Memorial
donations to World Vision Canada, or to the charity of choice
would be appreciated. Online condolences can be made at www.quintefuneralcentres.com
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STONER o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2008-02-20 published
STONER, O.G. "Gerry" (1922-2008)
Wartime Soldier, Peacetime Public Servant
Predeceased by his wife Ballen whose incredible courage and generosity
never ceased to amaze him over more than 56 years of marriage,
his sister Marguerite (Torney) and his son Patrick. Survived
by his daughter Robyn, his 4 grandchildren and by his best friend
Carly, last in a long line of canine pals. Educated at University
of Western Ontario, 1938-1941 LLD (Hon), Queens University
1945-1947. Served in World War 2, 1941-1945 with First Hussars
Armoured Regiment, N.W. Europe, D-Day (Juno Beach), M.I.D. Citation
(mentioned in a Despatch for distinguished service), Companion
of the Legion of Honour (France). Federal Public Servant 1947-1987,
serving 8 Prime Ministers, 5 of them as Deputy Minister of Transport
and Industry, Trade and Commerce. For Gerry the key ingredients
of life were comradeship, trust, and luck, preferably good. It
was to these that he attributed any modest success that came
his way including in tennis that he played for over 60 years
until the crippling effects of arthritis and cancer sidelined
him. He believed his generation of Canadians, both men and women,
were a very unique lot. Private Cremation and Burial. A Memorial
Service will be held at St. Bartholomew's Anglican Church, 125 MacKay
Street, Ottawa on Friday, February 22nd at 3: 30 p.m. In lieu
of flowers, donations may be made to the Ottawa Humane Society.
Condolences/Donations at: mcgarryfamily.ca 613-233-1143
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STONER o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2008-05-24 published
TILLER,
Jayne
Almira
Maud (née
STONER)
Passed away peacefully on Tuesday May 20, 2008 in her 83rd year.
Beloved wife of Jim (The Rev. Canon James D. 1924-2007). She
was the loving mother of Douglas (Jacqui), Mark (Dale), Mary
Jane, Sarah, and Amanda (Jody). She was Nana to Tania, Quinn
(Harry), Katie (Gary), Julia (Mark), Harley, Todd, Daniel, Adam,
Hannah, Douglas, Jeremy and Joshua. Great-Grandmother to Ava,
Liam, Gabriel, Eric and Ashlene.
Friends may call on Thursday, May 29, 2008 from 7-9 p.m. at the
R.S. Kane Funeral Home (6150 Yonge Street, at Goulding, south
of Steeles). A Funeral Service will be held on Friday, May 30,
2008 at 11 a.m. at St. Patrick's Anglican Church (1087 Lillian
Street), Willowdale. In lieu of flowers donations may be made
to the Alzheimer's Society of Canada or the St. Patrick's Anglican
Church
Accessibility
Project in memory of Jim and Jayne
TILLER.
Condolences www.rskane.ca R.S. Kane 416-221-1159
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STOPFORD o@ca.on.grey_county.owen_sound.the_sun_times 2008-05-26 published
HUFF,
Olive
B. (née
REINHART)
Went to be with the Lord, on Friday May 23, 2008. Olive
HUFF
(née REINHART) of Southampton in her 92nd year. Wife of the late
Sam HUFF. Dear mother of Lois and her husband Dick
ARMSTRONG
of Venice, Florida and John (Jack) and his wife Colleen of Owen
Sound. Proud grandmother of Krista, Jeff, Penny, Jean, Wendy,
John and of her 9 great-grandchildren. Predeceased by her parents
Jacob and Mary
REINHART and by her 2 brothers, Wilfred and Vern.
Visitation from the Eagleson Funeral Home, Southampton, on Monday
May 26, 2008 from 2-4 and 7-9 p.m. A Funeral Service to Celebrate
the Life of Olive
HUFF will be conducted in the Chapel of the
Funeral
Home on Tuesday at 2 p.m. Pastor Peter
STOPFORD will
officiate. Interment Southampton Cemetery. Expressions of Remembrance
to the Gideons or to the Saugeen Memorial Hospital Foundation.
Condolences may be forwarded to the family through www.eaglesonfuneralhome.com
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STOPPENBRINK o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2008-03-17 published
STOPPENBRINK,
Gerd
H.
(Past President and C.E.O., Chairman of the Board of Kuehne
Nagel Ltd.)
Peacefully at Southlake Regional Health Centre, Newmarket on
Sunday,
March 16, 2008, Gerd H.
STOPPENBRINK,
Schomberg in his
81st year, loving husband of Gloria. Dear father of John and
his wife Marianne
STOPPENBRINK, Paul and his wife Sheryl
STOPPENBRINK.
Cherished grandfather of Ella, Kate and Luke. The family will
receive their Friends at the Egan Funeral Home, 203 Queen Street
S. (Hwy. 50), Bolton (905-857-2213) Monday evening 7-9 o'clock
and Tuesday afternoon 2-4 and evening 7-9 o'clock. Funeral Mass
will be held in St. Patrick's Roman Catholic Church, 91 Church
Street, Schomberg, on Wednesday morning, March 19 at 11 o'clock,
(leaving the funeral home at 10: 15 a.m.). Private family interment
St. Patrick's Cemetery. Parish prayers will be held Tuesday evening
at 8: 45 o'clock. Condolences for the family may be offered at
www.eganfuneralhome.com
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STORER o@ca.on.simcoe_county.nottawasaga.collingwood.the_connection 2008-04-18 published
STORER,
Deborah▼
Raye▼
At her residence in Midland (formerly Wasaga Beach) on April 13th,
2008 in her fiftieth year. Loving wife of Wayne Kenneth
STORER.
Dear Mother of Jessie of Waubaushene. Loving daughter of Virginia
(Jenny) MORRIS of Wasaga Beach. Grandma to Sidney Raye
STORER
and Curtis Owen
STORER.
Visitation▼ at the Watts Funeral Home
and Cremation Centre, 132 River Road East, Wasaga Beach, 705-429-1040
on Thursday 7: 00-9:00 p.m., on Friday 1:00-3:00 p.m. Funeral
service in the chapel on Friday at 3: 00 p.m. Donations may be
made to the Cancer Centre at Royal Victoria Hospital in Barrie.
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STORER o@ca.on.simcoe_county.nottawasaga.collingwood.the_connection 2008-05-16 published
STORER,
Deborah▲▼
Raye▲▼
The▼ family of Deborah
STORER would like to thank all Friends
and relatives who brought so much love, Friendship and joy into
the life of our wife, mother and grandmother. Thank you to all
of Deborah's Care Givers for the top notch high quality professional
care Deborah received. Thank you to all who telephoned, sent
flowers, donated to the Canadian Cancer Society and attended
Deborah's Celebration of Life service. Deborah is smiling on
everyone as her adventure continues.
The STORER
Family▼
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STORER o@ca.on.simcoe_county.nottawasaga.stayner.stayner_sun 2008-04-16 published
STORER,
Deborah▲▼
Raye▲▼
At her residence in Midland (formerly Wasaga Beach) on April 13th,
2008 in her fiftieth year. Loving wife of Wayne Kenneth
STORER.
Dear Mother of Jessie of Waubaushene. Loving daughter of Virginia
(Jenny) MORRIS of Wasaga Beach. Grandma to Sidney Raye
STORER
and Curtis Owen
STORER.
Visitation▲ at the Watts Funeral Home
and Cremation Centre, 132 River Road East, Wasaga Beach, 705-429-1040
on Thursday 7: 00-9:00 p.m. on Friday 1:00-3:00 p.m. Funeral service
in the chapel on Friday at 3: 00 p.m. Donations may he made to
the Cancer Centre at Royal Victoria Hospital in Barrie.
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STORER,
Deborah▲
Raye▲
The▲ family of Deborah
STORER would like to thank all Friends
and relatives who brought so much love, Friendship and joy into
the life of our wife, mother and grandmother. Thank you to all
of Deborah's Care Givers for the top notch high quality professional
care Deborah received. Thankyou to all who telephoned, sent flowers,
donated to the Canadian Cancer Society and attended Deborah's
Celebration of Life service. Deborah is smiling on everyone as
her adventure continues.
The STORER
Family▲
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STOREY o@ca.on.grey_county.artemesia.flesherton.the_flesherton_advance 2008-06-04 published
STOREY,
Victor▼
Peacefully at Headwaters Health Care Centre, Orangeville on Friday
May 30, 2008, in his 79th year. Loving husband of the late Nora
STOREY.
Beloved father of Doris (Doug,) Vicki (Steve,) June (Warren,)
Charlie (Cathy), Susan (Lee) and Cathie (Kevin). Devoted grandfather
of 14 grandchildren and 8 great-grandchildren. He will be missed
by his many nieces and nephews. The family received Friends at
the Doney Funeral Home, 318 Main St. E. Shelburne on Monday June 2,
2008 from 5-9 p.m. Funeral services were held in the funeral
home chapel on Tuesday June 3, 2008 at 1 p.m. Interment in the
Blair-Belfountain Cemetery. Donations to the Diabetes Foundation
or the Canadian Cancer Society would be appreciated.
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STOREY o@ca.on.grey_county.artemesia.flesherton.the_flesherton_advance 2008-06-18 published
STOREY,
Victor▲
The family of Victor
STOREY would like to extend our sincere
thank you to family and Friends for your sympathy and kindness
during our recent loss of our father. A very special thank you
to the staff at Dufferin Oaks, the staff at the Headwater Health
Unit and to the Code 2 ladies and also Marian and the staff at
Doney's Funeral Home for all your kindness and compassion.
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STOREY o@ca.on.grey_county.owen_sound.the_sun_times 2008-02-29 published
VAN
BALKOM, Antonia "Toni" (née
VAN
DOREN)
Peacefully at Summit Place in Owen Sound, on Wednesday, February 27th,
2008. Antonia Frances
VAN
BALKOM (née
VAN
DOREN,) of Owen Sound,
in her 80th year. Dearly beloved wife of Albert
VAN
BALKOM, for
54 years. Loving mother of Anne
PATERSON and her husband, Jay,
of Waterloo, Josie
MOORE and her husband, Brian, of Chatsworth,
Ted VAN
BALKOM and his wife, Cathy, of Hamilton and Rick
VAN
BALKOM and his wife, Heidi, of Wiarton. Proud grandmother of
Josh (Lobat), Ryan and Rachel
PATERSON, Jason (Shelley)
CATTO,
Matthew CATTO (Robin), Anisha
MOORE, Maddison and Dana
VAN
BALKOM
and Jarret (Rebecca)
MAITLAND and Jamine
STOREY.
Great-grandmother
of Luke and Gavin. Survived by siblings, Door, Piet, Sien, Jaan,
Ria, Ann and Tini. Predeceased by her parents, Johannes and Wilhelmina
VAN
DOREN and five brothers and sisters. Friends may call at
the Brian E. Wood Funeral Home, 250 - 14th Street West, Owen
Sound (519-376-7492) on Friday, February 29th, 2008 from 3: 00-5:00 and
7: 00-9:00 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated
in Saint Mary's Church, 554 - 15th St. East, Owen Sound on Saturday,
March 1st, 2008 at 11: 00 a.m. with Father Steve
LACROIX officiating.
Interment in Saint Mary's Cemetery. The Vigil for the Deceased
will be offered at the Funeral Home Chapel on Friday evening
at 8: 30 p.m. If so desired, the family would appreciate donations
to the Owen Sound Day Away program, as your expression of sympathy.
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STOREY o@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2008-03-19 published
MOIR,
Jeanne
Helen
We are celebrating the life of Jeanne Helen
MOIR; who passed
away peacefully Sunday, March 16, 2008 surrounded by her family.
She is predeceased by her parents James and Gladys
MOIR.
Loved
and dearly missed by her brother Gord
MOIR and his family, her
three children and their spouses, Tracy and Dan
PALMATEER,
Marie
and Dave WILKINSON,
Jim and Sheri
STOREY. Beloved grandma of
Brandon, Jason, Jenna, Jordon, Noah, Mykayla, Jeffrey, Mary,
Arone, Cassandra and Michael. Visitation will be held at Forest
Lawn Memorial Chapel, 1997 Dundas St. E. (at Wavell) London,
on Wednesday, March 19, 2008 from 2-4 p.m. and 7-9 p.m. Funeral
service will be held in the chapel on Thursday, March 20, 2008
at 1 p.m. Donation may be made to the Heart and Stroke Foundation
or the Canadian Diabetes Association, in memory of Jeanne.
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STOREY o@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2008-04-30 published
BALSDON,
George
The family of the late George
BALSDON want to sincerely thank
everyone for their support. Your cards, calls, funeral visitation
and donations were all very much appreciated. Special thanks
to Rev. STOREY for your visits and prayers. Your kindness and
thoughtfulness will be remembered. Jackie, Cheryl, Cindy and Families
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STOREY o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2008-03-12 published
HENDERSON,
Norma▼
J.▼ (née
STOREY)
On Tuesday, March 11th, 2008 at the Briton House in her 79th
year. Greatly loved wife and companion of the late T. Gavin
HENDERSON.
Fondly▼ remembered by the families of Morley
BAIN of Zephyr and
Lynn and Walter Gyr of Luzern, Switzerland. Norma retired from
the former Etobicoke Board of Education where she was head of
the Geography Department for 28 years, first at Burnhamthorpe
C.I. then North Albion Collegiate. Cremation has taken place
with burial in Mount Albert Cemetery at a later date. If desired,
donations to the charity of your choice would be appreciated.
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STOREY o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2008-05-24 published
ATKIN,
John
Hamilton "
Jack"
Born August 12, 1928 in Leamington, Ontario; died peacefully
on May 19, 2008 in his 80th year, exactly 10 days after accepting
the news of the extent of his cancer with courage and dignity
- the same realistic way he dealt with every other challenge
he faced throughout his life, particularly during his last few
years with limited mobility and multiple health issues (to quote
him, this was just another 'curve ball'). He was surrounded during
his last days by love, family, Friends, music, and of course,
Flowers. Needless to say, he was telling jokes right up to his
last hours of consciousness. He was much loved and will be missed
by his children Greg and Carolyn
ATKIN,
Jay and
Mary
Maureen
ATKIN, Virginia
ATKIN and Keith
AMBACHTSHEER, and Jacqui
ATKIN
and Laurie
FRASER; his grandchildren Melissa
ATKIN and Mike
RYAN,
Sean and Lori
ATKIN and Peter
AMBACHTSHEER. He was also very
close to and will be missed by his sisters Jane
JOHNSON,
Bette
SHARPE and Ruth
STOREY.
There are also numerous nieces and nephews
who lovingly remember their Uncle Jack, cousins, a multitude
of Friends, and a brother Bill. Predeceased by his parents Edward
and Edith
(JACKSON)
ATKIN, his step-mother Agatha
(WILSON)
ATKIN
his brother Don
ATKIN, his brothers-in-law, far too many Friends,
and his soulmate, Mary
(ROBERTSON)
BLAIR, with whom he is now
reunited. Always a visionary, Jack was a pioneer in the growing,
mass marketing and distribution of flowers throughout his career.
He was one of the first flower producers to introduce the sale
of potted plants and cut flowers to major food chains and department
stores. In carrying on the family business that his father started
(Atkin's Flowers, then Yoder-Atkin), he advanced the year-round
propagation and sale of chrysanthemum cuttings to North American
markets, and was a great believer in plant breeders' rights.
His innovation for packaging and distribution led the way for
the success that exists in today's flower industry. He also started
the direct sales business at Ontario Flower Growers. Known as
'Action Jackson', he was also an avid volunteer in numerous organizations
- he was one of the founders of the Cecil Delworth Foundation
and the Canadian Ornamental Plant Foundation, a strong supporter
of Flowers Canada and The Canadian Horticulture Council, and
served on the Board of the Royal Winter Fair when they introduced
the flower show into the annual program. Jack has always been
recognized by the flower industry of North America and has been
given many awards for his contributions over the years. He was
also involved in building the Leamington District Memorial Hospital
in the 1950s. His interests included having the best garden in
town, curling, Kinsmen, tennis, barbershop singing, playing cards,
scotch, dancing (even in his wheelchair) and more recently being
a Claremont Calendar guy! Jack was always proud of the lifelong
Friendships he made along the way with so many people, including
his colleagues, most of his clients, and his competitors. His
life was about 'caring and sharing'. He will be remembered by
his 'power of positive thinking' approach to life, his loyalty
and Friendship, the flowers he always had for everyone, and his
lifelong ambition to make people smile. Jack's family is very
grateful to Lynn
WEBSTER,
Natalie
COPPOLINO and the entire Staff
of The Claremont Retirement Residence for making the last few
years of his life so happy (and the Residents, too); to Doctor Mary
GOSPODAROWICZ of The Princess Margaret Hospital, and Dianne
WILLIAMS
and all of the very special Palliative Care Nurses at Saint Michael's
Hospital for their care and compassion in easing the pain for
Dad, and helping his family through this last part of his journey
Dr. Gary MAY and the Gastro-Intestinal Team at Saint Michael's
Hospital as well as Doctor Carmen
MUELLER and Doctor Catherine
WONG.
Arrangements handled by The Simple Alternative Funeral Centre,
North York. A Celebration of Life will be held at The Old Mill,
21 Old Mill Road, Toronto on Tuesday, June 17 at 3: 00 p.m. While
there will definitely be flowers, we ask that those interested
in making a donation to remember Jack do so either to The Princess
Margaret Hospital Foundation, 610 University Avenue, Toronto,
Ontario M5G 2M9 (1.866.224.6560 or www.pmhf.ca) or to The Jack
Atkin Memorial Fund at the Ontario Agricultural College, University
of Guelph, Guelph, Ontario N1G 2W1 (payable to the University
of Guelph). We are setting up a 'Jack Atkin Memories' website
- you can email jacqui.atkin@sympatico.ca to send us your stories
and photos, and to be added to get on our website announcement
mailing list. We will all miss Jack's warmth, love of life, and
jokes! It Was A Great Ride!
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STOREY,
Merle
Secord "
Auntie
Teb"
In Ottawa on July 2, 2008 at the age of 97. Survived by her sister
Margaret Storey Callaghan
DOYLE (Patrick), nieces Barbara
CALLAGHAN,
Carol CALLAGHAN (Rick
BREZER), Debby
PHILLIPS (Rod), Margot
HAJDUK
(Michael) all of Edmonton, Pama
HOBBING and Linda
AYOUNG-
CHEE
of Burlington, nephew John
CALLAGHAN of Vancouver, numerous great
nieces and nephews, godson Stephen
COLLINS and goddaughter Peggy
BEATTIE.
Predeceased by parents Milton and Norma and brother
John.
Merle graduated from the University of Toronto with a Master's
degree in languages before embarking on an editorial career with
the Government of Canada in Ottawa. She was an accomplished editor
of many publications which included the Royal Commission on Bilingualism
and Biculturalism, and after retirement, was senior English editor
for the National Museums Corporation of Canada. Merle was an
active member of the Media Club of Canada for over 40 years.
She had a lifelong passion for books, photography, the arts and
traveled most of the world, including several trips to the Middle
East and yearly visits to Italy. She was a prolific writer, documenting
her life and travels in journals, postcards and letters. A lifelong
student, she studied Italian and Russian in her later years.
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HENDERSON,
Norma▲
J.▲ (née
STOREY)
On Tuesday, March 11th, 2008 at the Briton House in her 79th
year. Greatly loved wife and companion of the late T. Gavin
HENDERSON.
Fondly▲ remembered by the families of Morley
BAIN of Zephyr and
Lynn and Walter Gyr of Luzern, Switzerland. Norma retired from
the former Etobicoke Board of Education where she was head of
the Geography Department for 28 years, first at Burnhamthorpe
C.I. then North Albion Collegiate. Cremation has taken place
with burial in Mount Albert Cemetery at a later date. If desired,
donations to the charity of your choice would be appreciated.
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STORK o@ca.on.simcoe_county.nottawasaga.stayner.stayner_sun 2008-06-11 published
ROWLES,
Irene
On June 6th, 2006 at Sunset Manor, Collingwood in her 69th year.
Irene ROWLES beloved wife of the late William Arthur
ROWLES (1969.)
Dear mother of David and his wife
Debbie
ROWLES of Lisle, Ontario.
Nana to Derek and DeAnne
ROWLES.
Visitation was at the Watts
Funeral Home and Cremation Centre, 132 River Road East, Wasaga
(705-429-1040) on Wednesday June 11th, 2006 from 11-12 p.m. Funeral
Service was in the Chapel at 12 p.m. Cremation. Interment Riverside
Cemetery. Sincere thanks to the Staff at Sunset Manor Collingwood.
In addition for support by Jennifer
STORK-
RELSE and Anne
STORK.
As expression of sympathy donations may be made to the Canadian
Cancer Society or Charity of your Choice.
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STORM o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2008-05-10 published
KAGAN,
Kenneth
On Friday, May 9, 2008 at Princess Margaret Hospital. Kenneth
KAGAN, beloved husband of Marsha. Devoted
son of Lillian and
the late Arthur
KAGAN.
Loving father of Jonah, and Alex. Dear
brother and brother-in-law of Karen and Gordon
DONSKY, and brother-in-law
of Harvey and Helen
STORM.
Loving uncle to Jordan, Amie, Elana,
Adam, Sherri, and Abby Esther. At Benjamin's Park Memorial Chapel,
2401 Steeles Avenue West (three lights west of Dufferin), for
service on Sunday, May 11th at 1: 00 p.m. Interment Congregation
Habonim section of Pardes Shalom Cemetery. Shiva 352A Spadina
Road. Memorial donations may be made to Princess Margaret Hospital
Foundation, c/o Dr. Hedley for Pancreatic Cancer Research, 416-946-6560.
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STORMS,
Douglas
Dewar
Passed away peacefully in L-Wing at Sunnybrook Veterans Hospital
on Tuesday, February 5, 2008 in his 91st year. Loving husband
of Mary and loving father of Geoffrey, Graham, and Judith and
brother of Helen
SKINNER.
Family and Friends may visit The Simple
Alternative Funeral Centre (275 Lesmill Rd., Toronto, 416-441-1580)
on Friday, February 8, 2008 from 1 p.m. to 2 p.m. Funeral service
and reception to follow. Private family interment at a later
date. In lieu of flowers donations to Sunnybrook Health Science
Centre (George Hees Veterans Residence, L-Wing East, 416-480-4483)
would be appreciated.
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ALBANESE,
Philip
Carman
Husband, father, grandfather, provider, teacher, knowledge seeker.
Born November 12, 1924, in Port Arthur, Ontario Died December 5,
2007, in Thunder Bay of complications following a stroke, aged
By Monica STOROZUK,
Page L8
Philip was an ordinary man who believed in living responsibly
and simply. His life was dedicated to the enjoyment of family
and Friends and to the pursuit of knowledge.
He was born in Port Arthur, now Thunder Bay, to an Italian immigrant
family. Until the age of 5 he spoke only Italian. He was a reserved
child but enjoyed school and playing outdoors with Friends.
At 18, he joined the army with his twin brother, Rino. Together
they served for three years overseas during the Second World
War. The experience had a positive and lasting effect on Philip.
Sixty years later, he declined to apply for veterans' assistance,
saying, "Why should they pay me? I should pay them for all they
did for me."
When the war was over, Philip attended university and became
a high-school teacher. He met and married Geraldine
MORROW, proposing
to her on Valentine's Day. They soon began a family; within a
dozen years they had seven children.
Philip was sensitive to beauty in its many forms. Although his
sensibilities relaxed over the years, he never surrendered a
deep sense of propriety.
His vast knowledge, acquired through extensive reading, stretched
from history and geography to politics, world affairs, art, architecture
and music. His appetite for learning never diminished. At 80,
when asked about a book he was reading, he replied with great
enthusiasm, "Quantum physics. I always wanted to know about quantum
physics."
His quest for knowledge was aided by his lack of interest in
perfection. In many ways he was an anti-perfectionist. The front
steps need repair? They can wait. The shirt needs pressing? No
big deal. Time was precious and shouldn't be wasted on the mundane.
Philip knew the value of simple pleasures. In the 1960s, he purchased
a piece of property in the country and spent many hours there.
In his retirement, he and Geri built a small cabin out of recycled
wood and used nails. Someone called it the Bothy, a Scottish
word for a simple shelter, and the name stuck. Philip spent a
lot of time at the Bothy, gardening, puttering and reading.
In the hours before his death he stayed engaged in the conversation
around him, as he had done all his life. As family members quietly
talked about a trip to Italy and tried to recall the name of
a town near Verona, he excitedly blurted out the name, surprising
everyone.
In a fitting tribute to his legacy, Philip was buried with simple
tokens of remembrance: the key to the Bothy, a package of tomato
seeds, a copy of Vanity Fair, a few coins representing thrift,
and loving notes from his grandchildren.
Monica STOROZUK is Philip's daughter.
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MacIVER,
Alexander
John "
Jack"
It is with great sadness that the family announce the passing
of Alexander John (Jack)
MacIVER in Winnipeg, on Sunday May 11th,
2008, at the age of 83 years. Jack is survived by his loving
wife of 63 years, Mary; his seven children; Alexander John (Sandy)
of Vancouver, Ian of Toronto, Laura-Leigh
BROOK
(Jim) of Breckenridge,
Colorado, Douglas (Evelyn) of Winnipeg, Tracy
VANDERENDE (Herb)
of Vancouver, Kim
TURNLEY
(Dave) of Winnipeg, Jackie
DRAGOJEVIC
(Mike) of Toronto. Also mourning his loss are his 16 grandchildren,
Meghan, Drewe, John-James, Tyler, Ryan, Shelley, Douglas, Andrew,
Alexandria, Ryan, Susan, Zachery, Danielle, Shauna, Jonmikal
and Seth. The annual fishing trips to northern Manitoba including
Knee Lake and Bolton Lake will long live in their memories. Jack
was predeceased by his sister Margaret and his brother A.B.C.
(Bruce). Also left to remember him are Jack's sisters, Francis
BALLINGALL of Tawassen, British Columbia and Diane
MacDONALD
of Winnipeg. He is remembered with fondness by Terri, Bryan,
Melissa, Nicole and Michael of Los Angeles; his sisters-in-law
Anne LOREQUE of New Mexico, Edna
STORSATER
(Ralph) of Montreal
and Phyllis
MacIVER of Winnipeg, along with his many nieces and
nephews. Jack was born in Winnipeg on November 9th 1924 where
he resided all of his life. Educated at Linwood School in St
James, he joined the R.C.N.V.R. in the spring of 1943. While
on active duty following the 'D' day operations his ship, the
HMCS Trentonian was sunk in February 1945. Upon his return
from the war he married his long time sweetheart Mary
BUTCHART
on November 10, 1945. Over the years, Jack remained in contact
with his few surviving shipmates. He recently visited his friend
and shipmate Vince
HADLEY
(Ivey) at their home in White Rock,
British Columbia. Jack was responsible for publishing the history
of the HMCS Trentonian. Jack found his calling in the automotive
industry. A self made businessman Jack became owner and dealer
principal of Midway Chrysler Plymouth in August 1969. Jack was
recognized as the Time Life Dealer of the year in 1985. He was
best known for the slogan 'where you're the boss' and the Midway
jingle that followed. Jack loved Winnipeg and Winnipeggers. He
was generous in giving back to his community. Often he was the
anonymous benefactor for those in need especially when children
and summer camps were involved. Over the years Jack remained
involved in many organizations; and continued his association
as past president of the Winnipeg Lions Club, the St. Andrews
Society of Winnipeg, and the Manitoba Motor Dealers Association.
For many years Jack served on Chrysler Canada's dealer advisory
council. He was also actively involved in many civic and charitable
organizations; through the Shriners [and Jesters] Ducks Unlimited,
the Fort Whyte Society and as one of the few 60 year pin holders
with the Masonic Temple. He also enjoyed his long time membership
with cohorts in the Passwa Club and with the Winnipeg 'mafia'
brain stormers. Jack was a Board member of MPIC and the Associates
of the Asper School of Business. He was a lifetime member of
the Progressive Conservative Party of Manitoba. Jack was a very
active member of Knox United Church. He spent many years as chairman
of the board of the Duval Foundation. He volunteered his energy
and efforts to many diverse projects throughout the City and
particularly with and through HMS Chippewa. He was gratified
to learn that his last volunteer effort would also be a success
when the City announced that permission had been granted for
a parade honouring cadets from all levels of the armed forces
[air, sea and land] to be celebrated for the first time in June 2008.
Jack enjoyed many activities having been a long time member of
the Winnipeg Winter Club, the Carlton Club, the Manitoba Club
and St. Charles Golf and Country Club. He enjoyed his recognition
as a select member of the 'hole in one' club. His favourite place
of all was sitting with Mary by the fireplace at their second
home at Block 12 Falcon Lake where he surrounded himself with
his many Friends and family. He loved the sound of the loons
in the evening. The grandchildren especially remember the sauna
to warm up in after the thrilling tube rides behind the boat
driven by Uncle Dave. The family would like to extend a sincere
and heartfelt thank you to the Doctors, Nurses and Unit Staff
of the Health Sciences Centre on 4GD for all their support during
Jack's brief stay. A celebration of the life of A.J. 'Jack'
MacIVER
will be held in Winnipeg on Thursday May 15th, at 11: 00 a.m.
at Knox United Church 400 Edmonton Street, Winnipeg, Manitoba.
Interment to follow at Chapel Lawn Memorial Gardens - 4000 Portage
Ave., Winnipeg, Manitoba. If Friends so desire donations may
be made to the Canadian National Institute for the Blind, 1080 Portage
Avenue, R3G 3M3 or the Heart and Stroke Foundation, 200 - 6 Donald
Street, R3L 0K6. Neil Bardal Inc. 204-949-2200 nbardal.mb.ca
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STORUS,
Julia (née
WEISSER)
It is with profound grief that we announce the passing of Julia
STORUS in her 84th year on Friday, June 13th, 2008. Born in Presov,
Slovakia as the youngest to Michael and Mary
WEISSER.
Beloved
wife of 58 years to Edward. Devoted mother to sons Timothy (Luba),
Paul (Kim) and Gregory
STORUS.
Proud grandmother to Matthew,
Mark, Andrew, Meagan and Erin. Visitation will be held at Turner and
Porter Butler Chapel, 4933 Dundas Street West, Etobicoke (between
Kipling and Islington Aves.) from 2-4 and 7-9 p.m. on Monday.
Funeral Mass will be held at Our Lady of Sorrows Church, 3055 Bloor
Street West, Toronto (west of Royal York Rd.) on Tuesday, June 17,
2008 at 11 a.m. Interment at Sanctuary Park Cemetery, 1570 Royal
York Road, Toronto. If desired, donations may be made to the
Canadian Cancer Society or to Saint_Joseph's Health Centre. Online
condolences at www.turnerporter.ca
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STORY o@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2008-04-25 published
VANKERREBROECK,
Albert
Morris
Suddenly at his residence on Tuesday April 22, 2008, Albert Morris
VANKERREBROECK of R.R.#1 Otterville in his 64th year. Beloved
husband of Glenda
(VUYLSTEKE.)
Loving father of Megan
VANKERREBROECK
and Dan CORNWELL of R.R.#3 Norwich, Kathryn and husband Wayne
Samways of R.R.#1 Otterville. Proud grandpa of Kyle
SAMWAYS.
Dear brother of Harriet
DECLEIR and husband Paul of R.R.#1 Delhi,
Gilbert VANKERREBROECK and wife
Anne of R.R.#1 Norwich, Denise
PROVOOST and husband Ronny of R.R.#1 Delhi, sister-in-law Brenda
VANQUAETHEM and husband Steve of R.R.#2 Tillsonburg. Son-in-law
of Roger and Paula
VUYLSTEKE of R.R.#1 Otterville, brother-in-law
of Rick VUYLSTEKE and wife
Lorraine of R.R.#1 Otterville, Susan
VUYLSTEKE and husband Paul
STORY of London. Survived by many
nieces and nephews. Predeceased by his parents Remi and Janet
VANKERREBROECK and a brother Marcel
VANKERREBROECK.
Albert was
a second generation tobacco farmer who loved farming. He was
an active and lifelong member of Our Lady of LaSalette Parish.
Conservation of the environment and local history were important
to him. He enjoyed springtime tree planting days. Please plant
a tree in his memory. Friends will be received at The Arn-Lockie
Funeral Home, 45 Main St. W., Norwich (519) 863-3020, on Friday
2-4 and 7-9 p.m. Prayers will be said on Friday at 7: 30 p.m.
Funeral mass will be celebrated at Our Lady of LaSalette Church
on Saturday April 26, 2008 at 10: 00 a.m. with Rev. Father Alan
DUFRAIMONT officiating. Interment Our Lady of LaSalette Cemetery.
As expressions of sympathy donations may be made to either South
Norwich or Norwich Historical Societies. Online condolences at
www.arn-lockiefuneralhome.com.
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STOTT o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2008-03-04 published
STOTT,
Edna
Jean (née
YATES)
(September 3 1924-March 4 2006)
We miss you Mom. Two years have come and gone and we still have
the same loss in our hearts as the day you died. Family gatherings
are just not the same without you and Dad. The smell of Sunday
dinner and laughs at Glen Edyth cannot be replaced. We all remember
the memories and we will never forget them. Your loving children
and grandchildren.
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STOTT o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2008-07-11 published
STOTT,
Daniel 'Harrison'
On July 8th, 2008 at Sick Kids Hospital at the age of 20. Harrison,
son of Dan and Lisa, brother of Alex, left us peacefully. Lovingly
remembered by his aunts, uncles, cousins, Friends and his loyal
dog Lady. Harrison left us doing what he loved most, riding on
his dirt bike. His days at Bigwin Island, all-terrain vehicling,
and hanging out with his Friends were his favourite pastimes.
Friends may call at the Ward Funeral Home (109 Reynolds Street,
Oakville 905-844-3221) on Sunday July 13th, 2008 from 7-9 p.m.
A celebration of Harrison's life will be held in the Ward Funeral
Home Chapel on Monday at 11: 00 a.m. Interment to follow. As expressions
of sympathy donations in Harrison's memory can be made to the
Canadian Council of Hyperbaric Medicine (89 Chestnut Street -
Suite 100 Concourse Level, Toronto Ontario, M5G 1R1. Condolences
to the family may be sent to harrison.stott@wardfh.com Of all
our worldly possessions our memory of you is the one we will
cherish the most. We love you Harrison
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DESCHAMPS,
Leo
Alexander
At Grey-Bruce Health Services in Southampton, on Saturday, May 17th,
2008, at the age of 76 years, Leo
DESCHAMPS of Port Elgin. Beloved
husband of the former Patricia
MOORE.
Father of Leo and Shelley
of British Columbia, Timothy of Southampton, Dennis of Paisley,
Sandra and Ray of Cambridge, Janice and her husband Dave
COOK
of Paisley, and Heather
SEAHAVER of Port Elgin, Grandpa to Alacea,
Ami, Kristopher, Jessica, Melissa, Caitlyn, Kurtis, Toni, Kyle,
Jaymie, Samantha and Catherine, Great-grandpa of Maya, Luke H.,
Sarah and Luke. Brother of Joan and her husband Chuck
SCHOOLEY
of Crystal Beach, Shirley and her husband Mike
KOWALIK of Guelph,
Thelma and her husband Walter
CROZIER of Fort Erie, Ronnie of
Crystal Beach, Denzil and his wife Sally of Port Colborne, Barb
and her husband Ellis
STOUGHTON of Crystal Beach, Bernie and
his friend Sharon
BAUNTROG of Cambridge, Rene and his wife
Pauline
of Caledonia, Linda
LEGAULT and her partner Roger
BARTHE of Niagara
Falls, and Michael and his partner Joanne
GIBBS of Hamilton.
Surviving also is one sister-in-law Rita
DESCHAMPS of Buffalo,
New York. Predeceased by his parents Leandre and Sarah (Sadie)
DESCHAMPS, and by his brothers Desi and Wilmer. Friends may call
at the W. Kent Milroy Port Elgin Chapel, 510 Mill Street, Port Elgin
(Town of Saugeen Shores) from 2: 00 to 4:00 and 7:00 to 9:00 p.m.
on Wednesday, May 21st, 2008. Funeral mass will be celebrated
in Saint_Joseph's Roman Catholic Church, Port Elgin on Thursday
at 11: 00 a.m. with Father Peter
MEYER officiating. Interment
Sanctuary Park Cemetery. Memorial contributions to the Alzheimer
Society or the Ontario Heart and Stroke Foundation would be appreciated
as expressions of sympathy. Portrait and memorial online at www.milroyfuneralhomes.com
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CHEDA,
Sherrill▼
Suddenly on June 7, 2008 at the Princess Margaret Hospital at
the age of 72 years. Beloved wife of Karl
JAFFARY.
Loving mother
of Marc PERRY and Andrew
PERRY.
Mourned as well by Karl's children
Eric Dennis
JAFFARY
(Aeylya
HUSEIN) and Nora Elizabeth
JAFFARY
(Edward OSOWSKI.)
Grandmother to Kate, Isabella, Desiree and
Michael PERRY as well as Luc
JAFFARY-
OSOWSKI and Adam Stuart
JAFFARY. Dear daughter of Abe
SCHNEIDER and the late Myrtle
STOUT.
She is also survived by her sisters Marcia
WHISMAN and Kathie
JOHNSON
and her brother Ralph
SCHNEIDER.
She will also be remembered
by her very dedicated friend Phyllis
YAFFE.
The family will receive
Friends at the Humphrey Funeral Home - A.W. Miles Chapel, 1403 Bayview
Avenue (south of Eglinton Avenue East) from 7-9 p.m. on Tuesday,
June 10th. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Canadian
Women's Foundation, 133 Richmond St. West, Suite 504, Toronto,
Ontario, M5H 2L3. Condolences and memories may be forwarded through
www.humphreymiles.com.
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STOUT o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2008-06-21 published
Activist librarian made a difference in publishing, literature
and the arts
'Feminist and peacenik' challenged the status quo, launched the
journal Emergency Librarian and helped stabilize Canada's magazine
industry. 'Her principles were so much a part of her life'
By Sandra MARTIN,
Page
S12
'The times they are a-changin,' Bob Dylan sang in 1964 in a song
that captured the upsurge of political and social upheaval as
a generation of mostly privileged boomers came of age, questioning
all manner of establishment authority. Protests against poverty,
racism and the Vietnam War grabbed the headlines, but second-wave
feminism was also in full throttle in the United States. Betty
Friedan's The Feminine Mystique, which argued that housework
and childrearing were not the only ways to be fulfilled as a
woman, had kick-started the movement after its publication in
1963. In Canada, Doris Anderson (obituary March 3, 2007), who
had become editor of Chatelaine in 1956, was offering her readers
thoughtful and provocative articles about all sorts of taboo
topics, such as abortion and contraception, and was urging women
to take off their aprons and run for public office.
Fast forward almost a decade to Winnipeg. Early in 1973, Harry
Easton, the city's chief librarian and president of the Canadian
Library
Association, asked two young librarians, Phyllis
YAFFE
and Barbara
CLUBB, to organize the theme day at the annual Canadian
Library Association conference, which was to be held that June
in Sackville, New Brunswick They took on the unpaid task, but
they gave their own feminist twist to the theme, "Librarians:
beginning, middle and end of career." Specifically, they focused
on female librarians and why it was that men held virtually all
of the executive positions in a profession in which women occupied
the vast majority of jobs.
Needing a speaker, they phoned broadcaster Barbara Frum at the
Canadian Broadcasting Corporation, who declined; then Doris Anderson,
who also demurred, but who recommended Sherrill
CHEDA, an ardent
feminist and the chief librarian at Seneca College in Toronto.
That is how Ms.
CHEDA came to deliver a keynote address entitled
That Special Little Mechanism, referring to the appendage that
men carry between their legs.
Delivered by a tiny powerhouse of a woman slightly over five
feet tall, who was barely visible above a massive podium that
tended to skitter across the stage, the speech was a knock out.
Studded with anecdotes and statistics, it not only articulated
the reality that many female librarians lived, but it acquired
a legitimacy because of the forum in which it was delivered -
the profession's annual conference.
"It was shocking," Ms.
YAFFE, now vice-chairwoman of the board
of Ryerson University and former Chief Executive Officer of Alliance
Atlantis, said in a telephone interview. "Nobody asked questions
like that." Afterwards, the triumvirate of Ms.
CHEDA,
Ms.
YAFFE
and Ms. CLUBB (now the chief librarian of the City of Ottawa)
sat on the lawn and plotted their next move: The launch of the
oddly titled journal Emergency Librarian, a compendium of book
reviews, news, and information infused with feminist voices from
the alternative press and radical librarians.
Ms. CHEDA and Ms.
YAFFE (who moved to Toronto in September, 1973 and
was hired by Ms.
CHEDA as a reference librarian at Seneca College)
organized the editorial in meetings after work at Ms.
CHEDA's
kitchen table while Ms.
CLUBB maintained the subscription lists
in Winnipeg. "Getting information to people was so empowering.
We had a social purpose," said Ms.
YAFFE who became lifelong
Friends with Ms.
CHEDA. "
She▲ was loyal and caring and inspiring
because her principles were so much a part of her life. She was
a feminist and a peacenik and absolutely against prejudice of
any kind."
Sherrill SCHNEIDER was born in the mid-1930s in Osgood, Indiana,
a small town in the American Midwest between Indianapolis and
Cincinnati.
Her father, Abraham (Abe)
SCHNEIDER, was a Russian
Jew from Kiev who had walked across Ukraine to Hamburg with his
mother and two siblings to escape the pogroms following the Russian
revolution. His ultimate destination was Indiana, where his father
had settled. That's where Abe
SCHNEIDER met and married Myrtle
STOUT, the descendant of early Protestant settlers on the eastern
coast of the United States. Sherrill was the eldest of their
four children.
Over the years Abe
SCHNEIDER ran both a shoe and a dry-goods
store before going into the scrap-metal business with his father,
a business that continues to thrive. Sherrill, who was the valedictorian
of her high school, was the first person in her family to go
to university. She went briefly to Hanover College, a small private
Presbyterian College, in 1954, and then entered the University
of Indiana in Bloomington the following September.
Her plan was to become an academic, but the male head of the
English department discouraged her dreams by saying dismissively
that studying for a doctorate would be a waste of time because
she was probably going to get married and have babies. She fulfilled
that prediction by marrying a fellow student named Noël
PERRY
in June, 1958, just after she graduated with a bachelor's degree.
While he completed his undergraduate degree she entered the master's
program in library science - which, along with teaching and nursing,
was then an acceptable occupation for ambitious women. By September,
1959, three months and three courses short of acquiring her library
degree, she had moved to San Francisco where her husband had
found a job with Social Security, and had produced her first
son, Marc (named after the artist Marc Chagall).
The family moved to Baltimore in 1962, where their second son,
Andrew, was born that May. Four months later, Ms.
CHEDA began
working in the history and social-sciences department of the
Enoch Pratt Free Library. She earned $4,000 a year and was advised
that if she wanted to succeed she should wear pearls and white
gloves to work and use Jacqueline Kennedy as a role model. A year
later the library gave her a leave of absence to complete her
MLS at Indiana University. Thereafter, she and her family
moved back to San Francisco where she worked as a librarian at
San Francisco State College. Along with her husband, she became
involved with the growing resistance to the Vietnam War.
The Perrys' marriage fell apart in 1966 in San Francisco during
the era of love and peace. She subsequently moved across the
border to Vancouver with her children and her new partner, Michael
CHEDA, a draft dodger. She worked in the libraries of the University
of British Columbia and Simon Fraser University. They married
in 1969, about the time he moved to Toronto to take a job with
CFTO television in Markham. She followed with her children
several months later and began working at the library of the
Indian and Eskimo Association, and then as chief librarian at
Seneca
College.
Her marriage to Mr.
CHEDA broke up in about 1975.
Having grown totally frustrated by the lack of professional opportunities
and the inequitable share of household responsibilities that
she shouldered, Ms.
CHEDA became a member of the New Feminists,
a group that had split from the Toronto Women's Liberation Movement
in April, 1969, over ideological differences. Although she had
enthusiastically embraced feminism and the concept of women supporting
and loving other women, she did draw some lines. Arriving at
a feminist consciousness-raising session in a church basement,
Ms. CHEDA was given a mirror and invited to get better acquainted
with her vagina. "Give me a break," Ms.
CHEDA whispered to her
friend Shelagh Wilkinson, who had also declined the mirror on
the grounds that, as a trained nurse and midwife, she had seen
more then enough vaginas.
Nobody seems to remember exactly how Ms.
CHEDA met Ms. Anderson
at Chatelaine, but they probably connected in 1972 when Ms.
CHEDA
began trying to express her feminist ideas in print. They had
many common interests, not least of which was the challenge of
trying to raise independent sons in a patriarchal society.
Nine months after her Sackville speech, Ms.
CHEDA dropped her
second feminist shoe when she published the article How to Raise
Liberated Children in Chatelaine in March, 1974. Described as
a practical parent's guide, the article itemized how her sons
were expected to make their own lunches, get themselves around
town, make dinner once a week and do laundry and other household
tasks. There was an outraged response from many readers, but
Ms. CHEDA and Ms. Anderson were not deterred. Another article,
On The Way to Liberation: One housewife-mother-librarian's personal
and painful journey from martyr mom to liberated person, appeared
six months later. About this time, Ms.
CHEDA became the expert
fielding questions from readers in a monthly advice column, Ask
A Feminist.
As for her own kids, they grew up in a household that embraced
peace activists, feminists and gay couples. Her son Marc, now
a research administrator in the faculty of medicine at the University
of Toronto, says that he didn't really have much choice about
doing his share of the housework (unlike his Friends, whose mothers
made their beds and prepared their lunches), but he had a lot
of freedom. His mother was always willing to talk to him "about
major things going on in her life, like the life-changing thing
that happened after my stepfather moved out. We had a real heart-to-heart,
so it wasn't like I never had input," he said. "We were consulted,
and we were consulted at a very early age."
Contributing to a magazine such as Chatelaine is a lot easier
than running one, especially a start-up operation like Emergency
Librarian.
Because
Ms.
CHEDA knew nothing about the mechanics
of publishing magazines, she joined an organization called the
Canadian Periodical Publishers Association in the mid-1970s and
was soon elected to its board of directors. Eventually, probably
in 1979 or 1980, she was asked to take on the job of executive
director of the floundering, nearly bankrupt group. Even though
it meant working for a lower salary and giving up the pension
and other benefits she had at Seneca, Ms.
CHEDA accepted the
challenge.
As an arts administrator she applied the organizational, research
and management skills she had learned as a librarian. She travelled
across the country by train and bus, sleeping on sofas in the
homes of Canadian Periodical Publishers Association members to
rally enthusiasm for the floundering organization. Within a year
she had turned it around; then she began developing a distribution
system that actually helped Canadian magazines reach their subscribers
and improve their business prospects.
In the mid-1970s, Ms.
CHEDA met lawyer Karl
JAFFARY, a former
alderman for the old city of Toronto. Also interested in the
arts and involved with the Canadian Periodical Publishers Association,
Mr. JAFFARY acted for her when she sued the now defunct Weekend
magazine on December 17, 1977, for "outing" her as a lesbian
in an article called Gay in the Seventies. She won a libel settlement
of $5,000 which Mr.
JAFFARY advised her to use as a down payment
on a rental house in the east end of the city. Over the years
they became close Friends. He was drawn to her for "the things
that everybody liked about her - she would not take shit from
anybody." He admired her independent spirit and her intellect
and shared her passions for books, the arts - especially little
theatre companies - and organizations dedicated to promoting
social justice. They married on May 30, 1987, a union that by
all accounts was extremely happy.
By then Ms.
CHEDA had left the Canadian Periodical Publishers
Association, worked for four years as registrar at the Ontario
Arts Council and had shifted, in 1986, to the Culture and Communications
Branch of the Ontario government. "With her dynamism, drive and
creativity, she put together the Ontario Publishing Centre in
the fall of 1991 to help the book and magazine publishing industry
in a very bad economic time," said cultural bureaucrat Jim Polk,
who was hired to work under Ms.
CHEDA on the book side. "Sherrill
was very wily and inventive in working with the structure and
very demanding of her staff, but in a good way," he said. Before
a change of government and the dismantling of the centre in 1995,
it gave out nearly $15-million in support money to help book
and magazine publishers computerize and modernize their supply
and marketing systems. "She intended to make a difference in
literature and the arts, and she did," said Mr. Polk.
After a few miserable years in the mid- to late 1990s, dismantling
many of the programs she had helped create, Ms.
CHEDA took early
retirement from the Ontario government. For the last several
years she and Mr.
JAFFARY travelled, went to the theatre, read
books and relished Ms.
CHEDA's talents as a gourmet cook. In
November, 2004, Ms.
CHEDA suffered a stroke which immobilized
her left side. She responded well to treatment, although she
was left with a slight limp. Besides being an informal reference
source for Friends and families about essential books, restaurants,
plays and trips, she was one of four guest editors, along with
Sally Armstrong, Michele Landsberg and Shelagh Wilkinson, of
a special volume of Canadian Woman Studies entitled Celebrating
Doris Anderson, which was published in December 2007.
Late last month, Ms.
CHEDA developed persistent flu-like symptoms.
A blood test led to a diagnosis of acute adult leukemia. The
next day she suffered a terminal stroke, which gave her family
its second terrible shock in as many days.
Sherrill CHEDA was born in Osgood, Indiana, on February 15, 1936.
She died at Princess Margaret Hospital in Toronto of complications
from acute leukemia early on the morning of June 7, 2008. She
was 72. Ms.
CHEDA leaves her husband, Karl
JAFFARY, and her sons
Marc and Andrew. She also leaves her grandchildren Kate, Isabella,
Desiree and Michael, her father Abe
SCHNEIDER, her three siblings
and her extended family.
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