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BARRETT o@ca.on.grey_county.owen_sound.the_sun_times 2007-05-29 published
BARRETT,
Robert
Thomas "
Bob"
Peacefully at his home surrounded by the love of his family,
on Sunday afternoon, May 27th, 2007. Robert Thomas
BARRETT, of
Owen Sound, passed away in his 71st year after a courageous battle
with cancer. Dearly beloved husband of June
BARRETT (née
BELL.)
Loving father of Deborah
LATHAM and her husband, Paul and Doctor Jeffrey
BARRETT and his wife, Janice, both of Owen Sound. Loving Papa
of William and Julia
LATHAM and Liam and Sam
BARRETT. Dear brother
of Alf BARRETT and his wife, Marion, of Owen Sound and Gloria
CHITTICK and her husband, Dave, of Hanover. Dear uncle of Kevin,
Heather, Brian, Steven and their families. Predeceased by his
parents, George and Daisy
BARRETT.
Bob retired from the Air Force
in 1979 and from P.P.G. in 2002. Bob will always be remembered
for his devotion towards his family and for his courage in the
face of illness. He had a wonderful sense of humour and enjoyed
being with others. His laugh will be dearly missed. Special thanks
to Doctor Fred
VEENSTRA and the many health care workers who provided
exemplary care. Friends may call at the Brian E. Wood Funeral
Home, 250 - 14th Street West, Owen Sound (519-376-7492) on Tuesday
from 2: 00-4:00 and 7:00-9:00 p.m. A Funeral Service for Bob
BARRETT
will be held in the Funeral Home Chapel on Wednesday, May 30th,
2007 at 11: 00 a.m. with Rev. Scott
SINCLAIR officiating. Interment
in Greenwood Cemetery. If so desired, the family would appreciate
donations to the Canadian Cancer Society or the Children's Wish
Foundation as your expression of sympathy. Members of the Royal
Canadian Legion Branch #6, Owen Sound will hold a Memorial Service
at the Funeral Home on Tuesday evening at 6: 45 p.m.
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BARRETT o@ca.on.grey_county.owen_sound.the_sun_times 2007-06-30 published
CREEPER,
Leila▼
Lorraine▼ (née
McCONACHIE)
85, of Halifax. It is with sadness that we announce the death
of our mom, Leila Lorraine
CREEPER
(McCONACHIE) on Thursday,
June 21, 2007 at the Halifax Infirmary, QEII. She was the
loving wife of the late Group Captain John
CREEPER and mom to
Cathy GILLIS and Cynthia (Mike)
RIGUSE.
Born▼ and raised in Owen
Sound, Ontario, she was the daughter of the late James and Stella
(BARRETT)
McCONACHIE.
She▼ attended Owen Sound Collegiate and
Vocational Institute and was active in sports, in particular
track and field holding many championship titles. She was a memeber
of the Halifax Curling Club and along with her team represented
Nova Scotia at the Senior Women's Canadian Championships in 1975.
She was a golfer and member of the Ashburn Golf Club. She was
a member of Bethany United Church and active with the Rackham
Unit of U.C.W.. She was an avid bridge player, reader and hostess.
She was a dedicated wife, mother, grandmother and sister and
to her family always came first. She was very proud of the accomplishments
of her grandchildren. She was survived by her daughters Cathy
GILLIS and Cynthia (Mike)
RIGUSE and grandchildren, Heather,
Ian, Stephen and Christopher; brother and sister-in-law, Doctor Don
and Phyllis
McCONACHIE,
Owen▼
Sound,▼
Ontario;▼ sister and brother-in-law
Florence and Harvey
BAILEY,
Guelph,▼
Ontario;▼ several nieces and
nephews. She was predeceased by her parents and beloved husband.
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BARRETT o@ca.on.grey_county.owen_sound.the_sun_times 2007-07-05 published
BARRETT,
Reginald
Alfred
At Central Park Lodge on Monday July 2nd, 2007 in his 89th year.
Veteran of the Second World War, The Royal Canadian Army Medical
Corps. Beloved husband of the late Gladys. Cherished father of
Gloria HABART and her late husband Ron, Stephen (Joy) and Sheila
TREMBLAY
(Ron.) He will be sadly missed by his grandchildren
Richard (Amber), Andrew and Laurie
TREMBLAY and Cindy
BARRETT
and Stacey Jean-Louis (Shawn) and great-grand_son Vincent. Also
survived by his sisters Gertrude
JONES
(Murray) and Joan
SMITH
(the late George). Fondly remembered by many nieces and nephews.
Friends may call at the Wesboro Chapel of Tubman Funeral Homes,
403 Richmond Road (at Roosevelt) on Thursday July 5th, 2007 from
7 p.m. to 9 p.m. and Friday July 6th, 2007 from 2 p.m. to 4 p.m.
and 7 p.m. to 9 p.m. with a Legion Branch #480 Service at 7 p.m.
Service in the Chapel on Saturday July 7th, 2007 at 11 a.m. followed
by Cremation. In lieu of flowers the family has requested donations
to Prostate Cancer Research or a charity of your choice. Condolences,
donations or tributes may be made at www.tubmanfuneralhomes.com.
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BARRETT o@ca.on.grey_county.owen_sound.the_sun_times 2007-09-24 published
ROBINSON,
Ivan
Calvin
Peacefully at his home in Owen Sound on Friday, September 21,
2007, Ivan
ROBINSON at the age of 72 years. Beloved husband of
June for fifty years. Loved father of David, and Nancy and son-in-law
David TAILOR/TAYLOR.
Loved grandfather of Amanda, Carleigh, Steven,
and Michael. Dear brother of Doreen
PAYNE,
June
RASBERRY, and
brother-in-law Jack
RASBERRY.
Predeceased by his parents, Frank
and Elsie ROBINSON and brother-in-law Elmer. Son-in-law of Patricia
WILLIS.
Brother-in-law of Carolyn and George
JANKO, and Jackie
and Paul VINCENT. Survived by several nieces and nephews. Visitation
will be held at the Kitching, Steepe and Ludwig Funeral Home, 146 Mill
Street North, Waterdown on Tuesday evening from 7-9 p.m. Funeral
Service will be held at Grace Anglican Church, 157 Mill Street
North, Waterdown on Wednesday, September 26, 2007 at 11 a.m.
Interment to follow in the Churchyard cemetery. Thank you to
Dr. Jill RICE and Doctor Jeff
BARRETT for their wonderful care.
Also thank you to the Oncology Clinic of Owen Sound Hospital,
the staff of the Wiarton Hospital, the Victorian Order of Nurses,
and to all the personal caregivers of the Community Care Access
Centre If so desired, donations to the G.B.R.H.C. or the Victorian
Order of Nurses Grey-Bruce would be appreciated as expressions
of sympathy. Please sign the Book of Condolence at www.kitchingsteepeandludwig.com
“God has called for you and we know you are resting peacefully.
You will live in our hearts forever.&rdquo
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BARRETT o@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2007-11-03 published
Convicted wife-killer
BUXBAUM dies in jail
By Joe BELANGER, Sun Media, Sat., November 3, 2007
Helmuth BUXBAUM, a church-going, millionaire nursing home operator
whose double life of sex and drugs imploded with the contract
killing of his wife, has died.
Focus of one of Canada's most sensational murder trials in the
mid-1980s, he died in prison at age 67.
An official at Warkworth Institution near Peterborough said
BUXBAUM
died Thursday after being transferred to Kingston Penitentiary
Regional hospital because of unspecified health concerns.
Free
Press reporter Chip
MARTIN, who covered
BUXBAUM's trial
that ended with a life sentence for the murder of his wife, Hanna,
said he was struck by
BUXBAUM's double life. "On the one hand,
he was a very good family man, a very good businessman and, on
the surface, a very religious man and a leader in his faith community,"
said MARTIN.
"That he had a dark side to his personality -- that he could
hang around a bunch of low-lifes and let them exploit him for
money in exchange for drugs and sex -- was a real revelation,"
said MARTIN, author of Buxbaum: A Murderous Affair.
During the trial,
BUXBAUM, who had built a Komoka-based nursing
home empire from scratch, was described as a cocaine addict who
preferred the company of young prostitutes and was desperate
to do away with his wife, whom he found dull and unattractive.
MARTIN offered another description of Hanna.
"His wife was a wonderful woman and mother who stood up to him
and paid the price with her life."
BUXBAUM reportedly sold the business before his conviction for
$23 million.
The Crown's case centred on money, saying nearly $2 million had
disappeared from
BUXBAUM's bank account and that he had recently
taken out a $1-million life insurance policy on his wife.
Hanna BUXBAUM, 48, was shot in the head by a gunman at the side
of a highway in July 1984 while a nephew, Roy
BUXBAUM, sat in
the car.
They had stopped, supposedly to help people having car troubles.
It was later learned
BUXBAUM planned the killing earlier in the
day, but it was foiled when a police cruiser pulled up after
the cars had stopped on Highway 402.
They left and drove to Pearson International Airport to pick
up a nephew. The shooting was staged when they returned later
that day.
BUXBAUM denied he hired a drug dealer as the hit man.
But at trial, drug dealer Rob
BARRETT testified
BUXBAUM offered
$25,000 plus expenses and a house for someone to kill his wife.
BARRETT said he offered the contract to Pat
ALLEN, another London-area
drug dealer.
ALLEN, sentenced to eight years, testified he agreed
to perform the killing, but backed out and let Gary
FOSHAY take
over.
FOSHAY was convicted of second-degree murder and sentenced to
life in prison with no chance of parole for 25 years.
In a later appeal, rejected by the Ontario Court of Appeal, the
defence argued
BUXBAUM was insane at the time of the killing
because of a stroke suffered two years earlier.
The▼ nephew, Roy, who later sued
BUXBAUM, could not be reached
for comment.
Despite being behind prison walls,
BUXBAUM never quite faded
from the limelight, his name regularly resurfacing in the media
as recently as January 2005 in a documentary about his lawyer,
Eddie GREENSPAN, and
in June 2000, when a reporter wrote about
BUXBAUM advocating for the rights of seniors in prison.
In that story,
BUXBAUM said he still dreamt about reconciliation
with his six children and his grandchildren, but knew it wouldn't
be easy.
"After so many years, it's like I don't exist," he said. "I'm
an inconvenience. They've built their own lives and their own
careers. They don't need me."
In the article,
BUXBAUM complained about life in prison, especially
for seniors.
"There▼ is no mercy in Canada,"
BUXBAUM said.
"We've lost our mercy, and these old people must die a lonely
death in prison."
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BARRETT o@ca.on.simcoe_county.nottawasaga.stayner.stayner_sun 2007-06-13 published
BARRETT,
Elizabeth
Teresa (née
McCULLOUGH)
Passed away peacefully, at General and Marine Hospital, Collingwood,
on June 7th, 2007 in her 77th year. Betty (née
McCULLOUGH,) beloved
wife of the late Frank. Loving mother of Fiona and her husband
Tom REOCK of New Jersey and Loretta. Dear grandma of Lucas
BUSBY,
Frank (Carla)
BUSBY,
Thomas
BARRETT and great-grandma of Gianna.
Dear sister of Nancy
DRAKE of Lisle, Patrick
McCULLOUGH of Brampton
Seamus (Madge)
McCULLOUGH,
Greta
(Kevin)
BELL, all of Northern
Ireland, and the late Jean. Sadly missed by many nieces, nephews
and extended family. Following Betty's wishes, cremation has
taken place. A Memorial Service was held on Saturday June 9th,
2007, at 1: 00 p.m. at Chatterson Funeral Home, Collingwood. Donations
to the Canadian Cancer Society would be appreciated by the family.
www.chattersonfuneralhome.com
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BARRETT o@ca.on.simcoe_county.nottawasaga.stayner.stayner_sun 2007-10-17 published
NOORDEGRAAF,
Leendert
Passed away peacefully at the Roberta Place Nursing Home on Tuesday,
October 9th, 2007. Leendert
NOORDEGRAAF in his 86th year. Beloved
husband of Margje (née
WINTERS) of Roberta Place and formerly
of Minesing. Dear father of Maria
CORNELISSE
(Cory,)
Lena
KLOOSTERMAN
(Wayne,) Wilhelmina
HARRIS
(George,)
Klaas
NOORDEGRAAF (Margje,)
Mary VEENSTRA
(Casey,)
Leonard
NOORDEGRAAF (Gerry,) Elizabeth
McNABB (Robert), Harry
NOORDEGRAAF (Marlene), Lucille
BARRETT
(Michael) and Robert
NOORDEGRAAF
(Louise.)
Loving grandfather
of 40 grandchildren, one pre-deceased and 48 great-grandchildren.
Survived by his brother Hank of Holland and by his numerous nieces
and nephews. Pre-deceased by his brothers Adrian and Pete of
Holland and Jan of Brazil and by his sisters Mog and Riek of
Holland and Annie of Kincardine. Friends called at the Jennett
Chapel of the McClelland and Slessor Funeral Home, 152 Bradford
Street in Barrie on Thursday from 7-9 p.m. Services were held
at the First Christian Reformed Church, 33 Shirley Avenue in
Barrie on Friday, October 12th at 11: 00 a.m. with visitation
in the church one hour prior. Interment Minesing Union Cemetery.
Memorial donations may be made to the Alzheimer Society or to
Timothy Christian School as your expression of sympathy. Words
of comfort may be forwarded to the family at leendertnoordegraaf@
funeralhome.on.ca
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BARRETT o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2007-06-16 published
FROST,
John
James
Born August 10, 1947. Passed away while playing squash on Thursday,
June 14th at the age of 59. Much loved by his wife
Robin
KINGSMILL,
and family: Brenna
FROST,
Kim
AGAR, Jim and Wendy
FROST, Max
and Frances
FROST,
Karen and David
BARRETT, Patti and Mike
EAST,
Carol KINGSMILL and Dave
POLE, and kindred sporting spirit Ruth
KINGSMILL.
Friends may call at Neweduk Funeral Home, (1981 Dundas
St. W. Mississauga) Monday, June 18th 7-9 p.m. A memorial service
will be held in the chapel on Tuesday, June 19th at 10: 30 a.m.
If desired, memorial donations can be made to World Wildlife
Fund, 245 Eglinton Ave. E. Suite 410, Toronto, Ontario M4P 3J1.
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BARRETT o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2007-06-23 published
CREEPER,
Leila▲
Lorraine▲ (née
McCONACHIE)
85, of Halifax. It is with sadness that we announce the death
of our mom, Leila Lorraine
CREEPER
(McCONACHIE) on Thursday,
June 21, 2007 at the Halifax Infirmary, QEII. She was the
loving wife of the late Group Captain John
CREEPER and mom to
Cathy GILLIS and Cynthia (Mike)
RIGUSE.
Born▲ and raised in Owen
Sound, Ontario, she was the daughter of the late James and Stella
(BARRETT)
McCONACHIE.
She▲ attended Owen Sound Collegiate and
Vocational Institute and was active in sports, in particular
track and field holding many championship titles. She was a member
of the Halifax Curling Club and along with her team represented
Nova Scotia at the Senior Women's Canadian Championships in 1975.
She was a golfer and member of the Ashburn Golf Club. She was
a member of Bethany United Church and active with the Rackham
Unit of United Church Women She was an avid bridge player, reader
and hostess. She was a dedicated wife, mother, grandmother and
sister and to her family always come first. She was very proud
of the accomplishments of her grandchildren. She was survived
by her daughters Cathy
GILLIS and Cynthia (Mike)
RIGUSE and grandchildren,
Heather, Ian, Stephen and Christopher; brother and sister-in-law,
Dr. Don and Phyllis
McCONACHIE,
Owen▲
Sound,▲
Ontario;▲ sister and
brother-in-law Florence and Harvey
BAILEY,
Guelph,▲
Ontario;▲ several
nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her parents and beloved
husband. Cremation has taken place. The family will receive Friends
on Sunday, June 24, 2007 from 7-9 p.m. in J.A. Snow Funeral Home,
2666 Windsor St. Funeral service will be held on Monday, June 25,
2007 at 1 p.m. in Bethany United Church (Clinton Ave.), Rev. Vincent
Ihasz and Rev. Jane Hallett officiating.
Email condolences: condolences.snow@ca.ns.aliantzinc.ca.
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BARRETT o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2007-07-14 published
MOORE,
William
Vining
(May 14, 1925-July 11, 2007)
William Vining
MOORE
(Bill) passed away peacefully at the age
of 82 on Wednesday July 11, 2007 at the Hill House Hospice in
Richmond Hill. Bill will be dearly missed by his wife Maria
his children Linda
ARMSTRONG,
Diane
WHITE/WHYTE, Kevin
BARRETT and
Caroline GEENEN; his sons-in-law: Michael
PURMORT (and his wife
Pat,) Peter
ARMSTRONG,
Michael
WHITE/WHYTE, Mark
GEENEN; his daughter-in-law
Kimberly BARRETT, as well as his 10 grandchildren: Jessica, Carly
and Michelle
PURMORT;
Thomas,
Amanda and Ryan
ARMSTRONG; Stephen
and Christopher
WHITE/WHYTE;
Lauren and Madeline
GEENEN. He will also
be missed by Jackie and Bill
HOOD and their children Kaitlyn
and Riley; as well as Barb
MARTIN and Fred
SCHWERING and their
sons Carl, Robert and Fredrick. Bill is lovingly remembered by
his sister Nancy
MARINELLI
(Luigi) and his nieces Lucia and Madeline.
He was predeceased by his brother Peter (Phyllis) and his daughter
Sharon PURMORT.
Bill was born in Oshawa, the
son of Albert Lauder
and Jean (MacEWEN)
MOORE. He served his country in the Royal
Canadian Air Force from 1943 to 1946. Upon leaving the service
he enrolled in Queen's University and graduated with a Bachelor's
degree in Commerce in 1951. Bill soon took a sales position with
International Business Machines Corporation Canada and was appointed
President in 1969. After leaving International Business Machines
Corporation in 1972, he pursued other business ventures in information
technology. Larger than life, Bill was a charming, outgoing,
funny, optimistic and encouraging man. Every cloud he saw had
a silver lining and he was quick to support his Friends and family.
Extremely intelligent and a brilliant card player, he attained
the status of Life Master in contract bridge. He was an avid
golfer and downhill skier and continued pursuing both sports
long after most people hang up their gear. Bill kept his sense
of humour, charm and gratitude throughout his illnesses. There
will be a visitation on Saturday July 21st from 4: 00 p.m. until
7: 00 p.m. at Fawcett Funeral Home, 82 Pine Street, Collingwood,
Ontario. A church service will be held at Emmanuel Presbyterian
Church in Clearview Township on Sunday July 22nd at 2: 00 p.m.
and a reception will follow immediately at the Blue Mountain
Golf and Country Club in Collingwood. In his final days, Bill
received compassionate and loving care at the Hill House Hospice
in Richmond Hill. The family requests that contributions be made
in Bill's memory to Hill House Hospice, 36 Wright Street, Richmond
Hill, Ontario, L4C 4A1. For more information contact the Fawcett
Funeral Homes at (705) 445-2651. The family invite Friends and
relatives to sign the online guest by visiting www.fawcettfuneralhomes.com
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BARRETT o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2007-11-05 published
MacDONALD,
Donald
Hugh
Died peacefully, surrounded by his family, at Saint Michael's Hospital,
Toronto, on November 2nd, 2007.
son of the late Hugh
MacKAY and Iernis
(BRADLEY) of Oshawa, and
dear brother of the late John and his wife Delphine. Born June 15,
1922 in Oshawa, Don attended North Simcoe Street Public School
and Oshawa Collegiate and Vocational Institute, and earned degrees
from the University of Toronto School of Engineering (B.A. Sc.),
Cornell University (MRP), Imperial College of Science and
Technology (DIC), University of London (PhD).
As a young engineer, Don worked for the Toronto Transit Commission
on the design and construction of the Yonge Street subway. Upon
his return from studies in London in 1955, he joined H.G. Acres and
Co., Ltd., subsequently Acres International, where he worked
in a number of different positions until 1989. He was the recipient
of The Professional Engineers Gold Medal (Assoc. of Prof. Engineers
of the Province of Ontario) and the R.F. Legget Award (The Cdn.
Geotechnical Soc. of the Engineering Institute of Canada); and
he was a member of the Hall of Distinction of the Engineering
Alumni of the University of Toronto.
Don's personal commitments included meaningful affiliations with
Wycliffe College, Shaw Festival Theatre, Niagara College, The
Arthritis Society, and Saint Mark's Anglican Church in Niagara-on-the-Lake.
Beloved husband of Barbara
(BARRETT,) beloved father of the late
Brian, and
of Katy and her husband Ayad
ALSINAWI, and Neil. Adored
granddad of Junia and Theo. Dear brother-in-law of Jean
FAYLE,
the late Marjorie
BARRETT,
Phyllis
BARRETT and Murray
WHITE/WHYTE,
and Norma NEUDOERFFER.
Dearly loved uncle of David
MacDONALD,
Frances and Brennan, and Paul
MacDONALD;
Benjamin,
Thomas
(Deborah,)
Jeffrey, and Daphne
FAYLE;
Cecelia
(Jan
CIENSKI,) Sarah (Christophe
PEYRUSAUBES), Cynthia (Henry
VENEMA)
NEUDOERFFER; Dean (Gale)
and Martin (Tracey)
WHITE/WHYTE.
There will be cremation followed by a private family service
of interment. There will be no visitation. A memorial service
will be held on Tuesday, November 13th at 2: 00 p.m. at Saint Mark's
Anglican Church in Niagara-on-the-Lake. For those who wish, in
lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Saint Mark's Historic
Building Fund or The Arthritis Society and may be made through
the Niagara-On-The-Lake Chapel of the Morgan Funeral Homes 415 Regent
Street.
Online guest register www.morganfuneral.com
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BARRETT o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2007-11-09 published
BERNSTEIN,
Elsie
On Wednesday, November 7, 2007. Elsie
BERNSTEIN, beloved wife
of the late Teddy
BERNSTEIN.
Loving mother and mother-in-law
of Billy and Daryll, Paul and Stephanie
BARRETT, and Bryna and
Kenny BACK. Dear sister of Pauline
LIPPES and the late Leo
SHERMAN,
Mollye ZELDIN, and Roslyn
COHEN.
Devoted grandmother of David,
Karon, Jason, Elissa, Lyla, Simone, and Lisa. At Benjamin's Park
Memorial Chapel, 2401 Steeles Ave., W., (3 lights west of Dufferin),
for service on Friday, November 9th at 1: 00 p.m. Interment Adath
Israel Section of Pardes Shalom Cemetery. Shiva 47 Shelborne
Avene. Memorial donations may be made to Elsie Bernstein Fund,
c/o The Benjamin Foundation, 3429 Bathurst Street, Toronto, M6A 2C3
at 416-780-0324 or www.benjamins.ca.
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BARRETT o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2007-11-13 published
He was a pillar of society who put a contract on his wife
In 1984, he arranged the attack, delivered his wife to the scene
of the crime and watched her plead for her life before being
shot in the head in front of their 14-year-old nephew
By Noreen RASBACH,
Page S8
His 68-day trial was nothing less than a Canadian sensation,
with newspapers detailing the unlikely ways he used cocaine and
the lurid testimony about his unseemly trysts with prostitutes.
In the end, the verdict was quick and damning: The jury took
only 12½ hours to find Helmuth
BUXBAUM, then 46, guilty of first-degree
murder for arranging the 1984 contract killing of his wife and
business partner, Hanna.
He didn't just arrange the attack, but drove her to the scene
of the crime and watched her plead for her life before being
shot in the head. The murder took place at the side of a highway
near their home in Komoka, a small town outside London, Ontario
The couple and their 14-year-old nephew, Roy, stopped to help
the occupants of a car that appeared to have broken down. They
were immediately ambushed. When a gunman pulled Hanna out of
the car, the long-suffering wife of Helmuth
BUXBAUM looked at
him and said: "Please honey, no, not this way." She was 48.
"It was a big deal at the time; it was a huge story," said Heather
BIRD, who covered the trial for the Toronto Star and wrote a
book about the case, Conspiracy to Murder: The Helmuth Buxbaum
Trail. "It was also a really, really sad story and a very seedy
story."
Prominent Baptist
The▲ tawdry details that came out in Mr.
BUXBAUM's trial were
in stark contrast to his reputation: Successful businessman,
prominent Baptist, devoted family man. He and his wife had built
a business operating nursing homes that had made them millionaires,
while also raising six children, one of whom was an adopted daughter
from Costa Rica. "He was well-known in the community," recalled
Greg CALCOTT, the investigating officer in the case who recently
retired from the Ontario Provincial Police. "He was wealthy and
an absolute pillar in the church."
For her part, Mrs.
BUXBAUM was known for her extensive charity
work. "She was legitimately loved and respected in the community
as being the exemplar Christian woman," Mr.
CALCOTT said. "She
used to stop street people and buy them clothing.
"That, in contrast to his hypocrisy, brought a lot of interest"
to the case, he added.
The case may have been irresistible, with its sex, drugs, money
and religion, but Mr.
BUXBAUM wasn't. The man who was repeatedly
unfaithful to his wife almost from the start of their marriage
was anything but charming.
"There▲ was nothing charismatic about Mr.
BUXBAUM that I saw,"
Ms. BIRD said.
Mr. CALCOTT agreed. "He came across as arrogant, but he also
came across as very childlike - and I don't mean that in terms
of innocence. [He had] a kind of naive understanding of what
was happening."
That led to his being taken advantage of by the drug dealers
and prostitutes with whom he associated. "He liked the idea of
being a big-time operator," Mr.
CALCOTT said. "I know that Robert
BARRETT [who was convicted of conspiring to kill Mrs.
BUXBAUM
after testifying he hired the killers] used to get him $1,000
of cocaine and Mr.
BUXBAUM would pay him cash.
BARRETT would
get the cocaine and keep three-quarters of it and give the rest
to Helmuth, saying that's what $1,000 of cocaine would look like.
Of course, he had nothing to compare it to, so he took it on
faith.
"I think that everyone in that group who was dealing with him
was ripping him off one way or another," Mr.
CALCOTT said.
In 1982, after suffering a stroke, Mr.
BUXBAUM's behaviour spun
out of control.
By the end of the trial, the entire country knew all the sordid
details - that he had sexual relations with more than 100 prostitutes
(sometimes two or three at a time), that he wanted to have sex
with young girls and boys, and that he was a regular user of
cocaine which he injected into his ankle and even his penis.
The court heard, too, that he disparaged his wife to the prostitutes.
"Even though he did have all that money, there was nothing glamorous
about him or his story," Ms.
BIRD said.
Helmuth BUXBAUM grew up in Germany as the youngest in a family
of 10 children. At his trial, he recounted how his family spent
some time in refugee camps; when he came to Canada at 19, he
arrived with no money and only one pair of shoes.
He went to work and studied, part-time, for his Grade 13 diploma.
In 1960, he met Hanna
SCHMIDT, after being introduced by his
parents. They had a lot in common, especially their Baptist faith
and hard childhoods. Hanna, who was born in Poland, stopped her
formal education at 8, when she was sent to a Russian concentration
camp with her mother and brother. She was to spend five years
in camps, before being released and eventually reaching West
Germany, and later Canada. When Helmuth met her, she had already
spent seven years working at a meat-packing plant in Kitchener,
Ontario
They married in June, 1961, with dreams of becoming medical missionaries.
Two years later their son Paul was born, and not long after that
Mr. BUXBAUM finished his diploma and decided it was time to go
to medical school. The family moved to London, where he enrolled
at the University of Western Ontario as a pre-med student. By
Christmas he had dropped out of the program, saying it was too
difficult. Instead, he pursued a bachelor of science degree,
which he received in 1967.
All that time he was supported by Hanna, who scrimped and saved
and managed to purchase a house, then a three-suite apartment
building and a farm. Eventually, the couple went into the nursing-home
business, where they made their millions.
They▲ raised six children, with Mrs.
BUXBAUM fighting to keep
the family together despite her husband's repeated romantic dalliances.
In June, 1984, he packed his bags but she persuaded him to stay.
A month later, on July 5, 1984, she was shot by the side of the
road.
A little more than two weeks later, on July 23, the police charged
Mr. BUXBAUM with murder.
Children Devastated
The shooting devastated his children. The older ones appeared
frequently at his trial, but weren't in court to hear the guilty
verdict. Their family friend and pastor, Rev. Douglas
DAKIN,
who was looking after the children during the trial, said at
the time that the children "didn't know what to say" about the
verdict. "They didn't know what to do if he got out, and they
didn't know what to do if he stays in." Reached this week at
his home in Komoka, Mr.
DAKIN refused comment on both his and
the children's behalf. "They all decided not to say anything."
After Mr. BUXBAUM's conviction on February 13, 1986, the case
became even more provocative. During the trial, he had not allowed
his first lawyer, Edward
GREENSPAN, to play up the fact that
he had suffered a stroke and how it had affected his ability
to reason. Later, he hired another legal heavyweight, Clayton
RUBY, who persuaded him to base his appeal on it. Mr.
RUBY argued
that Mr. BUXBAUM's stroke had rendered him mentally disabled,
and that he was insane when the murder occurred. The proof? Mr.
BUXBAUM's
refusal to allow an insanity defence to show that he was, in
fact, insane. The Supreme Court of Canada refused to hear the
case, which effectively ended Mr.
BUXBAUM's appeal options. Requests
to various justice ministers to review the conviction were denied.
Back In Court
There were other legal battles, too: He took on Mr.
GREENSPAN
to get back some of the $1-million-plus he had paid in legal
fees (which his lawyer James
CARTHY suggested were the highest
ever in Canada.) Mr.
BUXBAUM lost.
He was sued by his brother for involving his nephew in the shooting
scheme - and for the teen's "severe and traumatic mental and
emotional upset and nervous shock" after witnessing his aunt's
murder. The nephew won $400,000, which was reduced by $65,000
upon appeal.
Mr. BUXBAUM also fought for control of his wife's $2.8-million
estate, objecting to his children's plan to invest the money
in Florida real estate.
In the early 1990s, he gave a number of interviews from prison.
He complained he had not had a fair trial. He was pursuing yet
another attempt to get a justice minister to review his case.
He believed he should be the subject of a royal commission.
At Kingston Penitentiary, his prison job was to wash convicts'
underwear; when he moved to the medium-security Warkworth Institution,
he learned to use a computer and tutored illiterate prisoners.
He married again while in prison, but the marriage didn't last.
Not a lot was heard from Mr.
BUXBAUM until 1993, when papers
around the country ran a story about a personal ad in placed
in the Kingston Whig-Standard newspaper. The man who arranged
a hit on his wife, watched her get shot in the head, and shattered
his family of six kids in the process, was seeking a new companion.
Describing himself as "a Christian, generous, caring, loving
man," he was seeking someone who was pregnant or had a baby recently
but had no man in her life. He was willing to be "a supporting
father for your child and a husband-father for yourself."
It's not known whether there were any takers.
Helmuth BUXBAUM was born on March 19, 1939 in East Prussia, Germany.
He died of undisclosed causes on November 1, 2007, at Kingston
Penitentiary regional hospital, in Kingston, after being transferred
there from Warkworth Institution, near Peterborough, Ontario
He was 68. He leaves six children, sons Paul, Mark, Phillip and
Daniel, and daughters Esther and Ruth.
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BARRETTE o@ca.on.simcoe_county.nottawasaga.collingwood.the_connection 2007-11-16 published
BRANGET,
Louis
Charles
Passed away peacefully on Wednesday October 31, 2007 at the Royal
Victoria Hospital in Barrie in his 53rd year. He dearly loved
his children Crystal, Echo, Nikki, Ernest and Minno and grandchildren
Kristen, Cole, Isaiah and Alexandra who all live in British Columbia.
Louis was the 5th of 15 children born to Joan
BRANGET and the
late Ernest
BRANGET. He was predeceased by brothers George and
John, and sister Mary. Surviving siblings are Diane
(McKAY,)
Bruce, Raymond, Daniel, Susan
(BAZANT), Armand "Joe", Gerald,
Joan (STROUD,)
Pamela
(PIERCE,) Margaret
(BARRETTE) and Michael.
Louis spent most of his life searching for relief from debilitating
emotional and physical pain. He coped by labouring long hours
with very little sleep while he did the work of two or three
men always in physically demanding situations. He loved a challenge
and was happiest doing demolition and salvage work that other
contractors would not even bid on. He was always creating something
functional or decorative from items that others had discarded.
A skilled taxidermist, Louis also enjoyed cooking, fishing, gardening,
music, and a good laugh. He loved nature and preferred to live
outdoors where he felt closest to God. Louis lived his last year
in the care of his sister Diane and her husband Brian who saw
that his complex health issues were correctly diagnosed and treated.
When he was not in hospital undergoing chemo, radiation or surgery
treatments for cancer, Louis could be found riding around Creemore
on his homemade scooter or his high-tech electric wheelchair.
He enjoyed spending time down at the Mad River checking out potential
fishing spots and he rarely missed a yard sale. Louis often commented
that he wanted to spend the rest of his life in Creemore as it
was the happiest and most peaceful period of his life. It was
his wish that his ashes be interred at the Creemore Union Cemetery
during a private memorial service in the summer of 2008 when
all his children can be present. Those who wish to remember Louis
in a special way are asked to make a donation to the Creemore
Tree Committee, Box 2073, Creemore, Ontario L0M 1G0.
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OLIVER,
Lise▼
Marie▼ (née
BARRETTE)
Of Norwood, Ontario. Serenely at Campbellford Memorial Hospital
on Sunday, July 29, 2007. Predeceased by her husband and friend
William OLIVER, parents Armand and Alice
BARRETTE, and siblings
Françoise, Jean and Lucien
BARRETTE. Survived by her loving children
Robin SCOTT (Peter), Brian
OLIVER (Nancy
PERKINS), cherished
grand_son Alex
SCOTT, and sisters-in-law, nieces and nephews in
Montreal, Toronto and Dartmouth. Donations to the Heart and Stroke
Foundation.
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OLIVER,
Lise▲
Marie▲ (née
BARRETTE)
De Norwood, Ontario. Nous a quitté sereinement CofE dimanche le
29 juillet à l'Hôpitale Campbellford Memorial. Prédécédé par
son époux et ami William
OLIVER, des ses parents Armand et Alice
BARRETTE, frères et soeurs, Françoise, Jean et Lucien
BARRETTE.
Elle laisse dans le deuil ses affectueux enfant Robin
SCOTT
(Peter,)
Brian OLIVER
(Nancy
PERKINS,) son petit fils chéri Alex
SCOTT,
ses belles soeurs, nièces et neveux de Montréal, Toronto et Dartmouth.
Donnation à la fondation des maladies du coeur seraient appréciées.
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COLMAN,
Marion
Helen
(BARRIE)
Helen COLMAN died peacefully on November 4, 2007 at Allendale
in Milton, Ontario. She was predeceased by her husband, Mac,
and her son, Bob. Helen is survived by her daughter, Patty
WILCOX
(John) and family: Kathleen White (Ken) Andrew; Timothy (Suzy)
Maggie and Claire; Elizabeth
TAILOR/TAYLOR
(Ryan;) and nephews, Donald
and Ken BARRIE, and Ian and Bruce
FOX, and their families. Helen
was born on December 6, 1909, in Davidson, Saskatchewan of parents
who had moved west from southern Ontario. With a B.A. degree
from the University of Toronto and an education degree from the
University of Saskatchewan, she spent her first year teaching
as Principal of a one room school in Coleville, Saskatchewan.
She then taught for seven years at the Llanarthney School for
Girls in Edmonton, Alberta. She maintained lasting Friendships
with many of her former senior students. Helen married Mac
COLMAN,
a mining engineer, and settled in Kirkland Lake in 1938. During
World War 2, Helen found herself raising two children on various
airforce bases in western Canada; finally in Winnipeg. Helen
was very active in community service there, serving as President
of the Home and School Association, the River Heights Community
Centre; and on the boards of the Winnipeg Girl Guides, the Winnipeg
Young Women's Christian Association and St. Andrews United Church.
The family extends a heartfelt thanks to all the staff at Allendale
(Petit House), who cared for Helen for the past eighteen months.
There will be no service in Milton but a private service will
be held in Winnipeg at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations
to the Willow Foundation of Halton Region 203 Georgian Drive,
Oakville, Ontario L6H 7H9 or a charity of your choice would be
appreciated. Funeral arrangements entrusted to the McKersie-Kocher
Funeral Home 114 Main St. Milton 905-878-4452. Letters of condolence
may be left for the family at www.mckersie-kocher.ca
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HUNTER,
Lorna
Alleyn
Traveller, art-lover, friend. Born January 30, 1925, in Toronto.
Died September 5 in Toronto following an aneurysm, aged 82.
By Shelagh
BARRINGTON,
Page L6
Lorna HUNTER was the third child of Annie
HART and Joseph
HUNTER,
Ontario, a barber. Lorna had two older siblings, Harry and Evelyn.
The HUNTERs moved into the Toronto neighbourhood of High Park
when Lorna was 3.
Lorna attended Runnymede Public School and Humberside Collegiate.
Soon after graduation, she began her career at Confederation
Life Insurance Company, where she worked until her retirement
in 1989. Lorna thoroughly enjoyed her contacts on Bay Street,
where she was respected for her common sense approach to business.
What endeared Lorna to many of us was the passion she brought
to her many interests. We would hear about the vexing complications
involved with renovating her historic home (where she lived throughout
her life and where she had lovingly cared for her parents). She
continually upgraded the property but Lorna did not rush: she
did the research, accumulated the cash and then bought the best.
As a young single woman, Lorna travelled to many exotic locales.
She dutifully sent cards regaling family and Friends with her
adventures in historic Europe or the Far East (where, as a young
person, she took responsibility for two foster children). But
it was the West Coast that monopolized her later travel, particularly
Seattle and her sister's place in Pender Harbour in B.C.
Lorna's cats were her companions. If she had two (and she often
did) they became her upstairs and her downstairs cats and were
spoiled.
Lorna loved art and her home was a mini gallery displaying a
wide variety of styles and artists. Her passion for flowers was
satisfied not just around her own beautifully landscaped home
but extended to the Humber Valley United Church where she was
a member.
Lorna was a stylish lady and prided herself in staying current
and elegant in the fashion world.
Yet, all these interests were second to what she loved best:
people. Once Lorna had checked you out and decided you were okay
you just became a friend.
There is no better testament to her Friendship than Lorna having
a friend from grade school step up to take responsibility for
Lorna's life after her incapacitating aneurysm. Friends, family
and a favourite godchild continued to visit and assist with her
care. Lorna greeted her visitors with a smile and they continued
to make her part of their lives, just as she would have if their
roles had been reversed.
Lorna's Friends love her because she always welcomed us and treated
us as she asked to be treated - with kindness and respect.
Shelagh BARRINGTON is Lorna's friend.
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BARROW,
Teresa
(R.N. Wellesley Hospital)
Peacefully in her sleep at the Sunnybrook Health Science Centre,
on Saturday, December 30th, 2006. Teresa was predeceased by her
husband and friend Roy. A very special thank you to the Dr.'s
and staff at Sunnybrook and to the compassionate and caring staff
at Greenview Lodge. A Funeral Mass will be held at Blessed Sacrament
Church (Yonge Street, south of Lawrence Ave.) on Friday at 11: 00 a.m.
Cremation to follow. Teresa loved flowers and if desired, in
memoriam donations may be made to the "Out of Cold" Program,
c/o Blessed Sacrament Church. Arrangements under the direction
of the Trull Funeral Home "North Toronto Chapel" Funeral Home and
Cremation Centre 416-488-1101.
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BARRY o@ca.on.grey_county.owen_sound.the_sun_times 2007-09-12 published
BARRY,
Bruce
Leroy
It is with great sadness that Bruce's family announces his sudden
passing on Monday, September 10th 2007 at Grey Bruce Health Services
Owen
Sound.
Bruce Leroy
BARRY of Owen Sound in his 61st year.
Beloved husband and special friend for 37 years of Dianne. Wonderful
loving father of Debbie and Rob, of Toronto; Steven and Kristie,
and Lori and Len, all of Owen Sound. Proud grandpa of Amber,
Tyler and Jasmine. Dear brother of Rosalie, Marion, Joan, and
Donald. Cherished son of Albert and Irene
BARRY.
Sadly missed
by sister-in-law Carla, nieces, nephews and many Friends. Predeceased
by a brother, Wayne. Bruce taught for many years at the Owen
Sound Campus of Georgian College, and brought a smile to the
face of every customer he served owning Bruce Barry's Small Engine
Repair. Friends are invited to call at the Thomas C. Whitcroft
Funeral Home and Chapel, Sauble Beach (519) 422-0041 on Thursday,
September 13, 2007 from 2: 00-4:00 and 7:00-9:00 p.m. A Celebration
of Life service will be conducted from the chapel on Friday morning
at 11 o'clock. Padre Bob
BOUCHARD officiating. Cremation has
taken place. As an expression of sympathy, donations to the Heart
and Stroke Foundation or Arthritis Society would be appreciated.
In living memory of Bruce an Oak tree will be planted during
the service in the meadow by the Thomas C. Whitcroft Funeral
Home and Chapel. Condolences may be expressed on-line at www.whitcroftfuneralhome.com
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DOUGLAS/DOUGLASS,
Heather
Faith
Suddenly at Grey Bruce Health Services, Owen Sound on Saturday,
November 17, 2007. Heather
DOUGLAS/DOUGLASS of Owen Sound at the age of
8 years. Much loved and adored daughter of Al and Lynda
DOUGLAS/DOUGLASS.
Beloved sister of Cara. Dearest granddaughter of Ann
DAVIS and
the late Ray
DAVIS and Ella
DOUGLAS/DOUGLASS and the late Alan
DOUGLAS
sr. She will be very sadly missed by her aunts and uncles; Chris
DAVIS,
Tracey and her husband John
BARRY and Elaine
DOUGLAS/DOUGLASS,
her cousins Krista
DAVIS and Brett and Jake
BARRY.
She will be
forever fondly remembered by the many people she touched. Friends
are invited to the Tannahill Funeral Home 519-376-3710 for visiting
on Wednesday from 12 noon until service time. The funeral service
will be conducted in the chapel on Wednesday afternoon at 2 o'clock
with Doctor Brad
CLARK officiating. In lieu of flowers, memorial
donations to G.R.A.C.E., the Humane Society of Grey Bruce or
the Hospital for Sick Children would be appreciated. “Sunshine
makes happy horses” Heather
DOUGLAS/DOUGLASS
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LOPER,
The
Reverend
Brant
Phister
Died suddenly in his home on Tuesday May 29th 2007, at the age
of 77 years. Brant Phister
LOPER was born in Cincinnati, Ohio
on July 17th 1929. He was a graduate of Hanover College in Indiana,
and completed his theological studies at McCormick Seminary College
in Chicago in 1962, after which he served several pastorates
in Ohio. Brant was then program director at the Yokefellow Institute
in Richmond, Indiana. Brant and his family moved to Canada in
1975, where he served eleven years as the Parish Planner for
the Board of Congregational Life with The Presbyterian Church
of Canada. In 1989, Brant began his work with the United Church
of Canada. His pastorates in Ontario over the years included
Knob Hill United Church in Scarborough and Binkley United Church
in Hamilton. Rev.
LOPER was most proud of his work with Saint_John's
United Church in Georgetown, and Glen Williams United Church,
where he served as Minister to both parishes simultaneously.
Brant always had a positive outlook on life, and attributed this
mentality to helping him beat cancer and remain cancer free.
In his retirement years, Brant was able to enjoy his many different
hobbies and interests. He was an avid supporter of the arts,
in particular the Kitchener-Waterloo Symphony Orchestra. He attended
his Sherlock Holmes group "The Main Street Irregular's", the
Halton-Peel Canadian Club, and was a member of the Ontario Black
History society with particular interest in the studies and education
of the Underground Railroad. He was a Minister Emeritus and a
member of the Glen Abbey United Church congregation from which
he drew much inspiration. Brant was proud to be a Canadian and
was an active member and supporter of the New Democratic Party.
A true "people person", Brant was always upbeat and was happiest
when surrounded by people where he could engage in stimulating
conversation and the sharing of ideas. Brant is survived by his
sons Christopher Brant
LOPER and his wife
Kylie and
John
Calvin
LOPER and his partner Katharine
BARTHEL.
Proud grandfather of
Noah William and Deacon James
LOPER.
Remembered by his former
wives; Chris and John's mother Arvone
LOPER and Janice
WAUD-
LOPER.
Predeceased by his parents Brant C.
LOPER and Ruth
LOPER nee:
BARRY. A memorial service will take place on Friday June 8th
at 2 p.m. at Saint John's United Church, 11 Guelph Street, Georgetown.
In lieu of flowers please send donations to Saint_John's United
Church or Glen Abbey United Church. To send expressions of sympathy
visit www.jsjonesandsonfuneralhome.com
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BARRY o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2007-08-21 published
BARRY,
Gloria
On Monday, August 20, 2007 at her home. Gloria
BARRY, beloved
wife of Jack. Loving mother and mother-in-law of Janice and Larry
BABINS, Melinda
BARRY and Raanan
MINTZ, and Jeremy
BARRY and
Linda STERN.
Devoted
Gran of Shira, Aviva, Josh, and Arielle.
At Benjamin's Park Memorial Chapel, 2401 Steeles Avenue West
(three lights west of Dufferin), for service on Tuesday, August
21st at 1: 00 p.m. Interment, Pardes Shalom Cemetery, Holy Blossom
Temple section. Memorial donations may be made to the Canadian
Cancer Society 1-888-939-3333.
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BARRY o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2007-11-10 published
BARRY,
Marion
Peacefully at home on Wednesday, November 7, 2007. Marion
BARRY,
wife of Bill
BARRY (W.F.H.
BARRY.)
Later-life of Claire
WALKER.
Mother of Elaine, Doug and Deborah. Mother-in-law to Mary
DELANEY.
Second
Mother to Marion (Bruce)
McLEOD.
Great-aunt to Andrew
(Florence) and William. Longtime friend of Eileen
STARKEY and
Blythe ROBERTS.
The family will receive Friends at the Tompkins
Funeral Home, 63 Garden Street, Gananoque on Wednesday, November 14
from 1-3 and 5-7 p.m. Funeral service will be held in St. Andrews
Presbyterian Church on Sunday, November 18 at 2: 00 p.m. As expressions
of sympathy, donations made to the Kingston General Hospital
Auxiliary (Gananoque Branch). Online condolences at www.tompkinsfuneralhome.ca
In the care of Tompkins Funeral Home, 63 Garden Street, Gananoque
K7G 2T8, (613-382-3088)
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