SAMSTAG o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2003-03-26 published
GRENFELL,
Douglas
Paul
Our beloved Paul died peacefully, Sunday 23 March, 2003 at Toronto
Grace Hospital, in the loving setting of the Palliative Care
Unit, thus ending a two year adventure with a brain tumour. He
leaves a circle of constant Friends and a grieving family: mother
Gwendoline, wife
Sally, parents-in-law Richard and Kathleen
LITCH,
his children and Sally's, Jennifer and her husband Thomas and
their sons Ian and Daniel, Philip and his partner Albert Liu,
Lisa and her husband Nicholas
SAMSTAG,
Laura and her husband
Gabriel BINCIK and their daughters Hanna and Julia, Amelia
WALLNER
and her partner Todd
DYER,
Anna
WALLNER and her husband Blair
QUINN, the
LITCH and
MERCER families and cousins in England.
Predeceased by his father Harold. Also remembered by Molly
LOGAN.
Cremation. Service of Thanksgiving for Paul's life will be at
Timothy Eaton Memorial Church, 230 St. Clair Avenue West, M4V
1R5, (416) 925-5977, Monday 31 March at 11 a.m. with The Reverend
Dr. Andrew
STIRLING officiating. Kindnesses to others or gifts
to the Gerry and Nancy Pencer Centre for Brain Tumours, 610 University
Avenue, Toronto M5G 2M9 (416) 946-6560 or to Paul's Church would
honour his memory.
''...Sorrow and Love flow mingled down...''
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SAMUEL o@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2003-03-13 published
Christopher (Chris)
TAILOR/TAYLOR
By John SAMUEL
Thursday,
March 13, 2003 - Page A22
Innovative policy wonk, husband, father, son, brother. Born May
27, 1948, in Kitchener, Ontario Died September 1, 2002, in Vancouver,
of cancer, aged 54.
The late Chris
TAILOR/TAYLOR wrote his own poignant and potent eulogy
a few days before his departure due to cancer of the esophagus:
he became a lively presence at his own memorial service. He had
delivered eulogies before, and had decided, "If the opportunity
was ever given to me, I'd write my own. Well -- lucky me -- I
got the chance."
Chris was born in Kitchener, Ontario He graduated from Simon
Fraser University in 1969 and received his Massachusetts from
the University of Toronto. Before joining the federal government,
he taught at the University of Toronto.
The eulogy states: "I would like to believe that my main accomplishment
as a federal civil servant was [being] an effective team leader
so I worked extra hard at devising ways and...techniques to
support team culture, team development, and team spirit." He
dedicated himself to the task with unbridled energy, unstinting
enthusiasm and unquestionable integrity. He was a diplomat par
excellence in his single-minded pursuit of policy goals with
colleagues, superiors and subordinates: supremely fair-minded
and even handed.
After joining Immigration in 1981, his achievements marked a
new chapter in Ottawa in policy development based on research,
information and consultations with stakeholders -- not merely
based on feelings and instincts.
Academics from coast to coast were brought into the consultation
circle and were stimulated to respond to challenging policy questions,
both theoretical and practical. He was himself an academic in
his spare time, publishing policy-related papers with accomplished
academics from across Canada.
One of his Friends in academia, the well-known demographer Prof.
David FOOT of the University of Toronto, says: "He was a delight
to work with -- full of creativity, enthusiasm, integrity, and
also realism. He loved policy but understood implementation --
a rare combination. He could be convinced by good research but
never by power or influence. We have lost an amazing colleague.
The shock of his far-too-early departure is substantial and his
legacy reinforces the necessity to live every day to its fullest,
as Chris did."
Chris had a special interest in population policy from his days
as an Massachusetts student in geography. He was active in the
Canadian Population Society and helped it to become more relevant.
His love for policy and strategy did not stop him from having
a good work/life balance. He had a tremendous, absorbing interest
in music. Those who attended his memorial service each received
a Beach Boys Compact Disk to take home. He says in his eulogy:
"Not just because it happens to be the best pop Compact Disk
of the last century, but because in listening to Brian Wilson
and his mystical capacity to communicate via music, it also became
part of me."
Once Chris told me with boyish glee of the immense pleasure he
experienced in meeting, by chance, in a hotel, B. B. King, whose
concert we had attended together in New Orleans in the 1980s.
Chris was an avid and ardent record collector with thousands
of LPs and 45s collected at garage sales, junk stores and record
shops. In his eulogy he recollected: "I remember being at Uncle
Phil's funeral and going right after to a junk store to look
for records -- I knew he'd understand."
He concluded: "I carry with me 54 years of glorious life -- a
speck in the infinity of time -- but a speck that when connected
to all others sustains this chain that we are all part of. So
I look forward to seeing you again in some different manifestation
but for essentially the same purpose -- to love and support all
those we know."
John SAMUEL was Chris's colleague.
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