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GODDARD,
Hanna▼ and Art - 25th Anniversary Celebration
Open House Saturday, September 20/03
2 until 8 p.m.at the home of Gina and Brian
KIRK
1030 Shelborne Place, London.
Best Wishes only.
Love your family.
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GODDARD,
Hanna▲ and Art - 25th Anniversary Celebration
Open House Saturday, September 20/03 2 until 8 p.m.at the home
of Gina and Brian
KIRK
1030 Shelborne Place, London.
Best Wishes only.
Love your family.
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GODEL m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-09-13 published
KUTTAS /
GODEL -- Sandra
KUTTAS is delighted to announce the
engagement of her daughter, Melissa to Lenny,
son of Deanna and
Sydney GODEL of Montreal. Melissa's late father, Morris
KUTTAS
is sadly missed at this time. A Summer 2004 wedding is planned.
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GODFREY m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2003-09-20 published
HALL /
GODFREY
Craig and Dianne
HALL of London, and Tom and Mary Jane
GODFREY
of Sault Ste. Marie, are happy to announce the marriage of their
children.
Julaine Marie
HALL and Brian James
GODFREY were married on Saturday,
September 13th, 2003. The ceremony took place at St. Aidan's
Anglican Church, London, followed by a reception at the Elmhurst
Inn, Ingersoll.
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GODWIN m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2008-07-12 published
GODWIN,
Bill and Linda - Happy 40th Anniversary
Open House July 19/ 08, 2-5 p.m. 223 Ardsley Cres., London, Ontario.
Best Wishes Only.
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GOERTZ m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2003-06-14 published
FINCH /
GOERTZ - Forthcoming Marriage
Ron and Pat
FINCH together with Herman and Elizabeth
GOERTZ are
happy to announce the marriage of their children, Krista and
Jeremy.
The wedding will take place, Saturday, July 5, 2003 at 3: 00 at
Byron Community Church, London.
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GOFF m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-07-21 published
GOFF,
Charles and Marg
(CARROLL) - 67th Wedding Anniversary
On July 21st, 2006
Love and best wishes from all your family.
May you have many more years with us.
Our love forever.
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GOGO m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-11-01 published
HOPKINS,
Bill and Nancy (née
GOGO) recently celebrated their
50th Wedding Anniversary in Langley, British Columbia with their
dear family. Many congratulations from family and Friends were
received.
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GOLBERG m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2002-12-14 published
GOLBERG /
COBURN -- Hersh and Bibi
GOLBERG, and Garry and beloved
Sue COBURN are pleased to announce the engagement of their children,
Beth and Brian. Proud grandparent are Roz and Maury
LEWIS,
Joe
and beloved Aida
GOLBERG,
Della and Arnold
COBURN, Mihaly and
beloved Margit
NAGY.
Proud siblings are Liana, Jared, and Michael.
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HARRISON-
GOLBERG -- Cameron
GOLBERG and Amy
HARRISON are thrilled
to announce that on January 5th 2003, Cam got down on bended
knee and made Amy cry. With joy. Wedding plans? No Date yet.
Until then, just the same old fun, adventure and laughter! Thank
you Cam, you have made me so complete.
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GOLD m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-01-04 published
KIRSCHNER/
RYBAK
Max and the late Janet
KIRSCHNER and Sandy
and Jack RYBAK announce the engagement of their children Heidi
and Brian. Thrilled grandparents are Sarah
GOLD,
Eva▼
WARHAFT
and Sarah and Maylech
RYBAK.
Excited▼ siblings are Robyn, Mitchell,
Jason, Lori and Lisa. Sadly missed at this time are Morris
GOLD,
Artur, Anna and Dora
KIRSCHNER and Hymie
WARHAFT.
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KIRSCHNER /
RYBAK -- Max and the late Janet
KIRSCHNER and Sandy
and Jack RYBAK announce the engagement of their children Heidi
and Brian. Thrilled grandparents are Sarah
GOLD,
Eva▲
WARHAFT
and Sarah and Maylech
RYBAK.
Excited▲ siblings are Robyn, Mitchell,
Jason, Lori and Lisa. Sadly missed at this time are Morris
GOLD,
Artur, Anna and Dora
KIRSCHNER and Hymie
WARHAFT.
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KAUFMAN /
GOLD
Ron and Cathy
KAUFMAN are pleased to announce the engagement
of their daughter Jodi to Steven,
son of Kayla Greenberg
VALLIERES
and Howard
GOLD of Montreal. Excited siblings are Robbie
KAUFMAN
and Randi GOLD.
Proud grandparents are Zita
KAUFMAN, Frances
LUSTHAUS and Laura and Irving
MESHWORK.
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GOLDBERG m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2005-10-01 published
Lucinda BINGHAM and Aaron
GOLDBERG -- Match
By Judith Tenenbaum, Saturday, October 1, 2005, Page M4
Lucinda BINGHAM and Aaron
GOLDBERG thought it would be great
while it lasted. But as it turned out, not even the Atlantic
Ocean could douse their sparks.
She was from the University of Sheffield and he from the University
of British Columbia when they met in September, 1998, as exchange
students at the University of California, Santa Barbara. In different
disciplines, they seemed unlikely to reconnect. But that November,
when Ms. BINGHAM was wending through the beachfront student housing
with its open keg parties, she drifted into Mr.
GOLDBERG's home.
"He was celebrating his birthday, didn't know why I was there,
but was happy I turned up," she recalls. The theme, "An Evening
at the Lab," had the boisterous gathering imbibing test-tube
shooters. Caught up in the festivities, Mr.
GOLDBERG affectionately
pinched Ms.
BINGHAM's cheek. After an instinctive retaliatory
slap, she apologetically offered her number when he asked for it.
They were soon an item, but romance was overshadowed by the reality
of each returning home. "We made it clear that we would enjoy
the time we had in California and not put pressure on each other,"
Ms. BINGHAM says.
Their year in the sun ended in June, 1999. As a last hurrah,
they motored up the coast to Vancouver, across Canada to Toronto
and down to Washington, where the Friends bid adieu.
The phone lines burned in the interval before each returned to
fourth-year university, but it was Mr.
GOLDBERG who blinked first.
"I said, 'We'll be together until we are apart, until we decide
we'd rather be with someone else, or it's too heart-wrenching
to be together [but apart],' " he says. "But Friends calling
every day... it wasn't the right category."
The next couple of years included reciprocal visits, and both
became focused on pursuing their master's degrees. When Ms.
BINGHAM
completed her year of film Theory at the University of Nottingham,
she joined Mr.
GOLDBERG in Manhattan, where he was taking media
studies at N.Y.U. By August, 2001, they had their own apartment
in Brooklyn, but she had returned to England to obtain a U.S. working visa.
Suddenly,▼ on 9/11, as Mr.
GOLDBERG watched the maelstrom from
his rooftop, the couple rethought their priorities. "There was
no hesitation in my mind. I was going to New York on the next plane," Ms.
BINGHAM says.
Clearly, Mr.
GOLDBERG was overwhelmed by her courage and commitment.
"Lucinda made a big sacrifice coming, and not only the timing,
but because North America is my territory," he says.
By March 2003, they had relocated to Toronto, where he began
work for Brunico Communications, later moving to the ad agency
Axmith McIntyre Wicht. Ms.
BINGHAM, waiting for her permanent
residency, volunteered at the Paper Things boutique in support
of the National Ballet and for various film festivals. "I guess
when you are not able to work, you indulge yourself in the things
you enjoy," she says with a laugh.
Mr. GOLDBERG's quest for a unique proposal spot drew him to the
Ice Hotel near Quebec City. Not to everyone's taste or temperature,
it is rebuilt annually from 5,000 tons of ice, with 16-foot ceilings,
decor and furniture all fashioned from ice.
"It was freezing," Mr.
GOLDBERG admits, but "dogsledding and
dinner in the lodge were nicer than expected." On January 17,
2004, as they snuggled in sleeping bags on a mattress of deer
pelts, Mr.
GOLDBERG proffered his own piece of ice.
The proposal gave more than a passing nod to family tradition:
The ring had been his mother's, passed to her from his grandmother,
and it was presented in an original box from the jewellery store
his grandfather once owned.
Invitations to their London wedding specified cocktail attire
and dancing shoes. "Lucinda is a citizen of the world. Not only
did her bridesmaids live in different cities -- they lived in
different time zones," Mr.
GOLDBERG says.
"It was complicated," Ms.
BINGHAM says, "so I told them to wear
a little black Sex and the City dress, because everyone has a
little black favourite."
A convert to Judaism, she supplied the 109 attendees with a program
explaining the modified Jewish ceremony. Members of the wedding
party held the chuppah, designed by Mr.
GOLDBERG's aunt, Hong
Kong▼ artist Lori
ORMUT-
DURBIN.
The▼ couple were united by Rabbi
Laura JANNER-
KLAUSNER and co-officiant Rabbi Matthew
DURBIN,
Mr. GOLDBERG's cousin.
The reception patisserie had a Seventh Avenue flavour thanks
to friend and groomsman Barry
GOLDMAN, who toted the wedding
cake and four frozen cheesecakes from the Carnegie Deli in his
luggage.
Mrs. GOLDBERG, 28, a senior publicist at Allied Advertising,
works on their DreamWorks account, and Mr.
GOLDBERG, 27, inspired
by family success, has begun his own entrepreneurial pursuits.
"We reached the pivotal moment and then we figured out how we'd
be able to make it possible," he says. "Our relationship was
more maintaining what we had, instead of building what wasn't
there yet."
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BARATZ /
GOLDBERG -- Linda and Gary
GOLDBERG are pleased to announce
the engagement of their daughter, Orli, to Doctor Ari
BARATZ, son
of Carol and Mickey
BARATZ.
Proud grandparents are Karla and
David GOLDBERG and Zelda
KORENBLUM.
Dearly missed at this happy
time are Henry
KORENBLUM,
Sarah and Hershel
GREENSPAN and Luba
and Abraham
BARATZ. A June 2004 wedding is planned.
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GOLDBERG m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-06-21 published
GRIVER /
GOLDBERG,
Elaine and Dennis
GRIVER and Tertia and Dennis
GOLDBERG are thrilled to announce the engagement of thier children
Stephanie and Jeremy. Excited Granny Butsie
YAWITCH of Johannisburg.
Mazel Tov to all.
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GRIVER /
GOLDBERG -- Elaine and Dennis
GRIVER and Tertia and
Dennis GOLDBERG are thrilled to announce the engagement of their
children Stephanie and Jeremy. Excited Granny Butsie
YAWITCH
of Johannesburg. Mazel Tov to all!
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GOLDFARB m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2005-05-07 published
Robyn Michelle
KAISER and Eli Daniel
MOGIL -- Match:
By Judith TENENBAUM,
Saturday,
May 7, 2005, Page M4
Adventurers Robyn Michelle
KAISER and Eli Daniel
MOGIL have tested
their relationship in a variety of ways, from driving in the
Chilean desert to travelling in Thailand after the tsunami hit.
But it was a minor spill on a bicycle that convinced Ms.
KAISER
that she should marry Mr.
MOGIL.
The defining moment came in June of 2003 during a day trip to
the Niagara Escarpment, 27-year-old Ms.
KAISER recalls. "I had
slipped off my bike and Eli came to help me. I looked at him
and knew in my heart of hearts. You just know when it's the one."
Nearly a year earlier, in August of 2002, a mutual friend encouraged
them to meet. They rendezvoused at a College Street café, talked
until closing, then strolled near Christie Pits Park until 3
a.m. They discovered that their penchant for unconventional travel
and professional ambitions were in sync. Mr.
MOGIL, 28, compares
meeting Ms.
KAISER to seeing "a mirror image across the table."
He attended Cornell University in Ithaca, New York and worked
as a teacher in the Bronx for three years before changing direction
and returning home to study law at Osgoode Hall. There in 2003,
he won the J.S.D. Tory Prize in research and writing and is currently
articling with McCarthy Tétrault.
Similarly, Ms.
KAISER switched careers after graduating from
Concordia University in business and sociology. Realizing film
was her passion, she became an assistant director on films such
as X-Men. She now works as senior publicist for Disney's Buena
Vista Pictures, travelling regularly to studios in New York and
Los Angeles.
They ventured into risky travel together in January of 2004.
She visited Mr.
MOGIL in Chile, where he was realizing his dream
of playing squash for Canada in the Pan Am Maccabiah Games, a
competition for young Jewish athletes from around the world.
After the games, they flew to Tierra del Fuego at the southern
tip of South America near Antarctica, where the Pacific and Atlantic
merge and penguins thrive. "We hiked through glaciers and mountains.
It looked like Lord of the Rings," Mr.
MOGIL says.
A week later, they headed north to tackle Chile's Atacama Desert,
one of the world's driest. In a "rent-a-wreck" they drove the
4,000-kilometre coast, frequently in desolate terrain. "At one
point, we didn't have any water," Ms.
KAISER says, "and stopped
at a gas station in the middle of the desert. They didn't have
water, just warm Sprite, but we made it through."
"Together for a month in a challenging environment at the bottom
of the world, frightened at times, that's when things crystallized
for us," says Mr.
MOGIL, who was convinced that after that test,
marriage would be easy.
"A cheap flight and the use of a friend's home" were the impetus
for an October of 2004 weekend getaway to Vancouver and Whistler,
Ms. KAISER says. But Mr.
MOGIL had an agenda and deftly packed
an engagement ring and her cocktail attire. Lest the ring box
be discovered by airport security, he had a note in his back
pocket ready to flash: "This is an engagement ring for my girlfriend.
Please do not open it and ruin my surprise."
His concern was unfounded, but his anxiety mounted as they toured
Vancouver. At 4 a.m., angst-ridden and unable to sleep, he booked
a boutique hotel and dinner reservations, stashing Ms.
KAISER's
finery with the spare tire of their rental car. As they drove
to Whistler and ascended the summit by cable car, the worldly
Mr. MOGIL trembled with sweaty palms until he was able to steer
Ms. KAISER to a secluded spot and propose. As they celebrated
that evening, he says, "everyone was a stranger, but everyone
was happy for us, and we came back home to four months of getting
ready, showers, and celebrating."
They turned a dreary March 6 into spring with red roses, red
tulips, bridesmaids in red and red up-lighting at the Liberty
Grand, where 215 guests watched Rabbi Edward
GOLDFARB perform
the nuptials.
Despite the cautions of well-intentioned advisers, the determined
couple stuck to their plan to honeymoon in tsunami-ravaged southern
Thailand.
"We didn't want to abandon the country because they had a terrible
natural disaster, to go seemed appropriate," Mr.
MOGIL says.
Sensitive to the plight of the Thai people, they kept a low profile
at their hotel. "We were conscious of tension and didn't wish
to act like Western tourists on a honeymoon when peoples' lives
had been ruined."
After nine days, they flew to Chiang Mai, the gateway to rugged
northern Thailand and renowned for deep-rooted culture. They
trekked and mountain biked, navigating their own route past indigenous
hill tribes and elephants, and risked bamboo rafting. "It was
a nice balance to come from a fancy resort and then to finally
get our feet into the country," Mr.
MOGIL says.
The couple hope their complementary styles will serve them well
in their marriage. "It's hard to predict life," Mr.
MOGIL says.
"We bring out the best in each other, the truth in ourselves."
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GOLDFARB m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-06-21 published
GOLDFARB /
WEXLER -- Becky and Martin
GOLDFARB are thrilled to
announce the engagement of their daughter Charlene to Robby,
son of proud parents Biby and Alex
WEXLER.
Mazel
Tov from both
families.
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EISEN,
Pam /
GOLDFARB, Shawn -- Joyce and Abe
EISEN and Becky and
Marty GOLDFARB are pleased to announce the engagement of their
children Pam
EISEN to Shawn
GOLDFARB.
Proud grandmother is Marilyn
BROWN.
Mazel
Tov from both families.
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GOLDMAN m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2005-10-01 published
Lucinda BINGHAM and Aaron
GOLDBERG -- Match
By Judith Tenenbaum, Saturday, October 1, 2005, Page M4
Lucinda BINGHAM and Aaron
GOLDBERG thought it would be great
while it lasted. But as it turned out, not even the Atlantic
Ocean could douse their sparks.
She was from the University of Sheffield and he from the University
of British Columbia when they met in September, 1998, as exchange
students at the University of California, Santa Barbara. In different
disciplines, they seemed unlikely to reconnect. But that November,
when Ms. BINGHAM was wending through the beachfront student housing
with its open keg parties, she drifted into Mr.
GOLDBERG's home.
"He was celebrating his birthday, didn't know why I was there,
but was happy I turned up," she recalls. The theme, "An Evening
at the Lab," had the boisterous gathering imbibing test-tube
shooters. Caught up in the festivities, Mr.
GOLDBERG affectionately
pinched Ms.
BINGHAM's cheek. After an instinctive retaliatory
slap, she apologetically offered her number when he asked for it.
They were soon an item, but romance was overshadowed by the reality
of each returning home. "We made it clear that we would enjoy
the time we had in California and not put pressure on each other,"
Ms. BINGHAM says.
Their year in the sun ended in June, 1999. As a last hurrah,
they motored up the coast to Vancouver, across Canada to Toronto
and down to Washington, where the Friends bid adieu.
The phone lines burned in the interval before each returned to
fourth-year university, but it was Mr.
GOLDBERG who blinked first.
"I said, 'We'll be together until we are apart, until we decide
we'd rather be with someone else, or it's too heart-wrenching
to be together [but apart],' " he says. "But Friends calling
every day... it wasn't the right category."
The next couple of years included reciprocal visits, and both
became focused on pursuing their master's degrees. When Ms.
BINGHAM
completed her year of film Theory at the University of Nottingham,
she joined Mr.
GOLDBERG in Manhattan, where he was taking media
studies at N.Y.U. By August, 2001, they had their own apartment
in Brooklyn, but she had returned to England to obtain a U.S. working visa.
Suddenly,▲ on 9/11, as Mr.
GOLDBERG watched the maelstrom from
his rooftop, the couple rethought their priorities. "There was
no hesitation in my mind. I was going to New York on the next plane," Ms.
BINGHAM says.
Clearly, Mr.
GOLDBERG was overwhelmed by her courage and commitment.
"Lucinda made a big sacrifice coming, and not only the timing,
but because North America is my territory," he says.
By March 2003, they had relocated to Toronto, where he began
work for Brunico Communications, later moving to the ad agency
Axmith McIntyre Wicht. Ms.
BINGHAM, waiting for her permanent
residency, volunteered at the Paper Things boutique in support
of the National Ballet and for various film festivals. "I guess
when you are not able to work, you indulge yourself in the things
you enjoy," she says with a laugh.
Mr. GOLDBERG's quest for a unique proposal spot drew him to the
Ice Hotel near Quebec City. Not to everyone's taste or temperature,
it is rebuilt annually from 5,000 tons of ice, with 16-foot ceilings,
decor and furniture all fashioned from ice.
"It was freezing," Mr.
GOLDBERG admits, but "dogsledding and
dinner in the lodge were nicer than expected." On January 17,
2004, as they snuggled in sleeping bags on a mattress of deer
pelts, Mr.
GOLDBERG proffered his own piece of ice.
The proposal gave more than a passing nod to family tradition:
The ring had been his mother's, passed to her from his grandmother,
and it was presented in an original box from the jewellery store
his grandfather once owned.
Invitations to their London wedding specified cocktail attire
and dancing shoes. "Lucinda is a citizen of the world. Not only
did her bridesmaids live in different cities -- they lived in
different time zones," Mr.
GOLDBERG says.
"It was complicated," Ms.
BINGHAM says, "so I told them to wear
a little black Sex and the City dress, because everyone has a
little black favourite."
A convert to Judaism, she supplied the 109 attendees with a program
explaining the modified Jewish ceremony. Members of the wedding
party held the chuppah, designed by Mr.
GOLDBERG's aunt, Hong
Kong▲ artist Lori
ORMUT-
DURBIN.
The▲ couple were united by Rabbi
Laura JANNER-
KLAUSNER and co-officiant Rabbi Matthew
DURBIN,
Mr. GOLDBERG's cousin.
The reception patisserie had a Seventh Avenue flavour thanks
to friend and groomsman Barry
GOLDMAN, who toted the wedding
cake and four frozen cheesecakes from the Carnegie Deli in his
luggage.
Mrs. GOLDBERG, 28, a senior publicist at Allied Advertising,
works on their DreamWorks account, and Mr.
GOLDBERG, 27, inspired
by family success, has begun his own entrepreneurial pursuits.
"We reached the pivotal moment and then we figured out how we'd
be able to make it possible," he says. "Our relationship was
more maintaining what we had, instead of building what wasn't
there yet."
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RUSKIN /
GOLDMAN
Marilyn and Ron
RUSKIN and Reba and Paul
GOLDMAN are thrilled to announce the engagement of their children
Danielle and Aaron. Ecstatic grandmothers are Rita
RUSKIN,
Bryna
ZAIDMAN and Clara
GOLDMAN.
Delighted siblings are Natalie, Joelle,
Jeremy and Adam. A spring 2004 wedding is planned.
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GOLDMAN m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-05-31 published
Howard And Joan
FREEDMAN are pleased to announce the engagement
of their daughter Alison Rebecca, to Michael Corey
GOLDMAN, son
of Bob and Ethel
GUEST.
Happy are grandparents Else
LANDAUER
and Fay FREEDMAN.
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GOLDSTEIN,
Renee and Darryl -- Mazel Tov Renee and Darryl
GOLDSTEIN
on your 30th anniversary, September 9, 1973. Love from Samantha,
Tanya and Warren.
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GOLLINGER /
SWAN -- Buck and Doe
Buck and Doe for Maegan
GOLLINGER and Matt
SWAN
Satuday April 26th, 8 p.m.-1 a.m. at the Lisle Legion
Tickets $10 before and $12 at the door
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GOLOVCHENKO m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2003-05-10 published
Happy 50th Anniversary, Tom and Jaye
McGARRY,
May 16, 1953 -2003
Mom and Dad, you gave selflessly, always with a generous heart,
sacrificing much to make our lives rich with happy memories.
Your strong faith blessed us and your steadfast love, by your
words, actions and priorties made us feel wanted, respected and
trusted. Thanks so much for the legacy of roots and the freedom
of wings. Enduring love, gratitude, admiration: Maureen
(SPENCER-
GOLOVCHENKO,)
Tom and Monica. Much love, daughter-in-law Dawn-Marie; grandchildren
Jennifer, Lisa, Rob and Ashley
McGARRY; son-in-law Phil
SPENCER
and grand_son Chris
GOLOVCHENKO.
Happy 80th Birthday Dad!
All welcome Saturday, May 17th at 3 p.m. Special Mass,
St. Joseph's Catholic Church, where they were married.
Sunday, May 25th, An Open House will be held at the Irish-Canadian
Club (Clarke Rd), 2-6 p.m. All Welcome.
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GOMES m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-04-22 published
GOMES /
WEDEMIRE -- Forthcoming Marriage
Raymond and Astrid
GOMES along with Cedric and Ray
WEDEMIRE are
happy to announce the forthcoming marriage of their children
Trishna and Ryan on June 3, 2006 in London.
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GONDOS m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2006-04-29 published
Jennifer Rebecca
HERBERTSON and Peter Raymond
GONDOS -- Match:
By Judith TENENBAUM,
Page M5
Even as social networking has yielded to the Net and a currency
of smiley faces has supplanted friendly cocktails, finding a
cyber soulmate remains as chancy as a roll of the dice. And yet,
Rebecca HERBERTSON and Peter
GONDOS came up winners.
"The older you are," Ms.
HERBERTSON believes, the less inclined
you become "to pick up anybody at a bar or club -- and dating
at work is not advisable." Her eventual solution was to dabble
at two dating sites for almost a year. "I dated a lot, one-night
dates, out for drinks, dinner, and nothing clicked. I saw a couple
of people a few times, but we were trying too hard."
In April, 2004, a forthright profile and e-smile from Mr.
GONDOS
piqued her interest, but a less-than-complimentary arm's-length
photo he had snapped of himself had her thinking twice. Two months
later, disillusioned by "all of the inappropriate men" she was
meeting and about to erase her bio, she noticed a familiar profile
while having a last glance at her second site. "I checked out
the picture, which had been updated, and it was indeed the same
person [Mr.
GONDOS]."
With her remaining credits, she clicked
hello.
For his part, the convivial Mr.
GONDOS was still reeling from
an encounter with someone else the previous week. He was stunned,
but all the same, he recalls, "I thought I would just keep trying."
New to e-dating, he had found personal encounters disappointing.
On-line profiles were often so embellished that they scarcely
resembled the individuals he'd meet.
After several e-mail messages and two long phone chats, wary
but ever optimistic, they met on June 8, 2004. Mr.
GONDOS bestowed
a huge hug and long-stemmed roses on his date. "We popped into
a local pub, held hands the entire evening, and it was like we
had been together for years," says Ms.
HERBERTSON, who is now
38. "When I met Peter, it was a coup de foudre, like a lightning
bolt."
"We just knew," Mr.
GONDOS adds, recalling the moment.
Over the next several months, the couple bonded with each other's
families, found they shared a sense of humour ("on the dark side"),
and enjoyed karaoke evenings at Mighty Mike's, a High Park pub
where he DJ'd part-time.
By December, 2004, Mr.
GONDOS, who is employed by Handyman Matters,
had reached a decision: "I liked to hang out with her a little
more than dating, so why not make it official?" On Christmas
Eve, with some anxiety, he offered her two small gift boxes,
both containing jewellery and one of them holding a diamond ring.
"That's as close as I could get to a proposal," he says.
At the time, Ms.
HERBERTSON, the office administrator for Fieldgate
Developments, was saddened by two family deaths and further unnerved
by a parent's illness, so she chose to delay a wedding. But then,
as skies brightened, she was ready to forge a plan.
The "freckly redheaded" couple's April 1 wedding invitations
whimsically proclaimed, "No more fooling around." Having first
found silver-filigreed, lavender silk shoes, the bride banked
on locating a matching gown, plus appropriate fabric for dresses
for nieces Samantha, Erika and Alexandra
SCHWAB, the flower girls.
The bridegroom sported a lavender shirt accented by a pewter-and-purple
tie.
Brother Mike, who built the wedding arch, was leery that an altar-shy
Mr. GONDOS, 41, would actually stand beneath it. But he was proved
wrong, and
so Rev. Tina
GABRIEL officiated before 51 Friends
and family members at the Delta East Toronto Hotel.
"The Net is a great way of meeting people," enthuses the new
Mrs. GONDOS. "And if you meet the man or woman of your dreams,
good for you!"
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GONSALVES m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-09-06 published
HULLEY /
GONSALVES -- John (and Barbara) and Lucy
HULLEY are
very pleased to announce the marriage of their son John Vernon
to Candice
LORETTA, daughter of Cajetan and Cecilia
GONSALVES
on September 5th, 2003 at Saint Thomas More Parish Church. A happy
event shared by many with the promise of a long and joyful union.
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GONYOU m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2005-12-24 published
GONYOU,
Gordon and Catherine - 65th Anniversary
Congratulations Gordon
GONYOU and Catherine
NEWKIRK were married
on December 25, 1940 at the bride's home in Sombra Twp. A family
celebration to honour 65 years together was held at the Seven
Dwarfs Restaurant. They attribute the marking of this great milestone
to patience, love, understanding and the Grace of God.
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GOOD m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-12-16 published
GOOD /
HAINSWORTH
The parents of Melinda
GOOD and Steven
HAINSWORTH are delighted
to announce their forthcoming marriage. Melinda is the daughter
of Jim and Nanette
GOOD of Towanda, Pennsylvania. Steven is the
son of Terry and Liz
HAINSWORTH of London, Ontario The wedding
will take place in May 2007 in beautiful Pennsylvania.
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GOOD m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-03-01 published
Congratulations Adam and Janine Together with our children, we
rejoice in their happiness. The parents of Janine Helen
GOOD
and Adam (Chuck)
THOBURN are delighted to announce their engagement.
The wedding is planned for May 2005. Our blessing and love for
your future happiness. Ron
GOOD,
Art and Joan
CRAWFORD, Luci and
Gord THOBURN
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GOODA m@ca.on.grey_county.artemesia.flesherton.the_flesherton_advance 2007-07-04 published
GOODA /
MCINNES/MCINNIS -- Buck and Doe
Ian GOODA and Jodie
MCINNES/MCINNIS
Saturday, July 21, 2007 7 p.m-1 p.m. Dundalk Arena
$10 in advance, $12 at the door
Tickets available from D and E Video, Dundalk
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GOODA /
MCINNES/MCINNIS -- Buck and Doe
Ian GOODA and Jodie
MCINNES/MCINNIS
Saturday, July 21, 2007, 7 p.m.-1 p.m. Dundalk Arena
$10 in advance, $12 at the door
Tickets available from D and E Video, Dundalk
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GOODBRAND m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2003-04-26 published
Forthcoming Marriage -
WAITE /
GOODBRAND
Jim and Janet
WAITE of R.R.#1 Thedford are pleased to announce
the forthcoming marriage of their son, Jim to Lauren, daughter
of Dr. David and Susan
GOODBRAND of London. The marriage will
take place May 10, 2003 at St. Jude's Church in London.
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GOODFELLOW m@ca.on.grey_county.artemesia.flesherton.the_flesherton_advance 2008-01-09 published
JEMMETT /
GOODFELLOW -- Forthcoming Marriage
Betty Louise
JEMMETT and Alex James
GOODFELLOW would like to announce
their forthcoming marriage on Saturday, April 19, 2008 in Holstein, Ontario.
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GOODFELLOW m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2005-07-02 published
GOODFELLOW,
Mel and Norine
(EATON) - 50th Anniversary
July 9, 1955
Open House at Chateau Gardens Nursing Home, 2000 Blackwater,
Adelaide Street North.
Saturday, July 9, 2 to 4 p.m. Best Wishes only.
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GOODMAN m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-03-15 published
PALMER /
MYERS -- Elaine and Arnie
PALMER (of Kingston) and Marilyn
and Gerry MYERS are thrilled to announce the engagement of their
children, Bonnie to Richard. Proud grandfathers are Leo
GOODMAN
and Edward
SOHMER (of Montreal.)
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GOODMAN m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-08-23 published
GOODMAN /
ZHALOBA -- Sandy and Molly
GOODMAN and Mikhail and
Stella ZHALOBA are overjoyed to announce the engagement of their
children, Aaron to Natalie. Excited sisters and brother are Sari
and Alana GOODMAN and Steven
ZHALOBA.
Proud grandparents are
Harry (Goody)
GOODMAN and the late Becky
GOODMAN,
Mania
MILLER
and the late Ben
MILLER,
Shelly
KELBERT and the late David
KELBERT
and the late Ettie
ROSENSTEIN.
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GOODMAN m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-08-23 published
ROTMAN /
RUDBERG -- Linda and Ronnie
ROTMAN are thrilled to announce
the engagement of their son Corey Shawn to Kayla Lynn, daughter
of Barbara and Michael
RUDBERG.
Shepping nachas are proud Bubby
and Zaida, Pearl and Nat
GOODMAN, and Zaidy Max
PERELES.
Thrilled
siblings Jody and Cindy
ROTMAN,
Zena and Stephen
SHERECK, and
Carla RUDBERG join in wishing them Mazel Tov. Granparents remembered
at this happy time are Celia and Sam
ROTMAN,
Ruth
PERELES, Bessie
and Harry RUDBERG, O.B.M. Happy Birthday Corey!
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Andrea VETTOR and Peter
GOODRICH
Andrea VETTOR, daughter of Dino and Elizabeth
VETTOR of London
Ontario, and Petter
GOODRICH,
son of Walter
GOODRICH and Mary
HOOD of Kalamazoo Michigan, are planning to be married on June
4th, 2005 in Augusta Michigan. Peter and Andrea became engaged
to be married last October.
The bride-to-be holds a bachelor's degree in pharmaceutical science
from Ferris State University; and is a candidate for her doctorate
degree in pharmacy from Midwestern University. Andrea is currently
a hospital pharmacist.
The groom-to-be holds a bachelor's degree in business from Ferris
State University and is currently a pharmaceutical sales representative.
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Andrea VETTOR and Peter
GOODRICH
Andrea VETTOR, daughter of Dino and Elizabeth
VETTOR of London
Ontario, and Petter
GOODRICH,
son of Walter
GOODRICH and Mary
HOOD of Kalamazoo Michigan, are planning to be married on June
4th, 2005 in Augusta Michigan. Peter and Andrea became engaged
to be married last October.
The bride-to-be holds a bachelor's degree in pharmaceutical science
from Ferris State University; and is a candidate for her doctorate
degree in pharmacy from Midwestern University. Andrea is currently
a hospital pharmacist.
The groom-to-be holds a bachelor's degree in business from Ferris
State University and is currently a pharmaceutical sales representative.
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GOODWIN m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-05-14 published
Ted and Rosemary
GOODWIN and Carmel
BIELINSKI happily announce
the wedding of their children Geoff and Connie and their daughter
Tiffany on Saturday May 10, 2003.
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GOOSSENS m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2005-04-09 published
GOOSSENS,
Harry and Toos - Happy 50th Anniversary
The family of Harry and Toos
GOOSSENS invite family and Friends
to an Open House in
honour of their Golden Wedding Anniversary
Saturday, April 16, 2005, Dutch Canadian Club
1738 Gore Rd. London from 2-4 p.m.
Best wishes only.
Love from Maria and Gar and family, Harold and Irene and family and
Joe
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Peter and Mary
VAN
BEEK
Adrian and Johanna
GOOYERS
50th Wedding Anniversary
Open House
Welcome family, Friends and neighbours. Sunday May 4, 2003, 2: 30
- 4: 30 p.m. Belmont Community Centre Lion's Hall, 139 Main Street,
Belmont, Ontario
Best wishes only please.
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GORDAN m@ca.on.grey_county.artemesia.flesherton.the_flesherton_advance 2007-08-15 published
SEELEY /
SINGH
We would like to thank everyone who helped make our wedding day
a huge success. Thanks to our families and Friends for their
love and generosity, and for all their help in making the day
so memorable. A special thanks goes to James and Mary Elizabeth
BOND for providing their beautiful property for our pictures,
to the girls at the bar, Joanne and Sue, for making sure everyone
was well taken care of, and
to Daryl GORDAN for the amazing fireworks
display. Thank you to Rick
CLEMAS for chauffering our guests
home safely, to Peggy
LUXTON and Carol
BEATTY for their musical
accompaniment, and
to Peggy-Sue and April from Weddings 101 for
making the tent look more beautiful than we could have ever imagined.
We would also like to send a huge thank you to Neil
SEELEY, for
designing the most beautiful invitations we have ever seen and
for taking all of the fabulous pictures that we will treasure
forever. And finally to Gary and RuthAnn
VANALSTINE, for their
hospitality and for providing the perfect setting for our wedding,
we couldn't have done it without their help and hard work. Thank
you all.
- Vicki and Craig.
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GORDON m@ca.on.simcoe_county.nottawasaga.creemore.creemore_echo 2008-07-18 published
GORDON /
COUGHLIN
Donald and Joan
GORDON are pleased to announce the upcoming marriage
of their daughter Jennifer Joan to Mark Gregory
COUGHLIN son
of Gregory
COUGHLIN and James and Linda
GREGORY on Saturday, July 19th,
2008 at St. Patrick's Catholic Church in Phelpston.
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GORDON m@ca.on.simcoe_county.nottawasaga.stayner.stayner_sun 2006-06-21 published
WALKER,
Robert and Lois - 50th Wedding Anniversary
Robert and Lois
WALKER wish to thank their family, Friends and neighbours
for the wonderful time on their 50th Wedding Anniversary. It
was truly a day to remember, special thank you to John and Gayle
GORDON for the democrat ride to the arena. The Aarden family
for their generosity, our grandchildren for helping with the
tea, dinner and clean up and everyone else for their lovely gifts,
cards and best wishes.
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GORDON m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-01-04 published
ABBOTT/
KROWITZ
Adam KROWITZ is happy to announce the engagement
of his mom, Nicole
KROWITZ to Allen
ABBOTT.
Thrilled parents
are Elda and Ron
SPARAGA and Rose and Milton (Bucky)
ABBOTT.
Delighted
family includes Pauline, Steve and Jamie
TILL,
Natalie and Marc
GORDON,
Michelle, Adam and Jack
PERZOW,
Michelle,
Marvin and Ben
HOPPE, Raquel,
Alan, Jonah and Sloane
FELDBERG,
Alissa and Josh
HERNICK and Ethel
SPARAGA.
Special thanks to Lorne and Michelle
WEISS and Marni and Shawn
COHEN for thinking of us.
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GORDON m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-06-11 published
Gay couple married after ruling
Couple celebrates end of 20-year fight
Judges rewrite definition of marriage
Tracey TYLER and Tracy
HUFFMAN
Staff
Reporters
Two gay men said "I do" yesterday, after Ontario's highest court
said "they can."
Crown
Attorney
Michael
LESHNER and his long-time partner Michael
STARK were married by Mr. Justice John
HAMILTON in a hastily
arranged ceremony in the jury waiting room of a Toronto courthouse,
as a crowd that included everyone from judges to janitors looked
on.
Just hours before, the Ontario Court of Appeal rewrote the definition
of marriage to include same-sex couples, saying denying gays
and lesbians the ability to marry offends their dignity, discriminates
on the basis of sexual orientation and violates their equality
rights under the Charter of Rights and Freedoms.
A unanimous three-judge panel, made up of Chief Justice Roy
McMURTRY
and justices James
MacPHERSON and Eileen
GILLESE, then took the
issue further than any other court in the world.
Gay and lesbian marriage became legal in Ontario, effective immediately.
"Michael LESHNER, will you please repeat after me," said
HAMILTON,
as he began the short, civil ceremony. "I do solemnly declare
that I do not know of any lawful impediment why I may not be
joined in matrimony to Michael Clifford
STARK."
Both men repeated the declaration before pledging their vows.
"I Michael, take you Michael, to be my lawful wedded spouse,"
said LESHNER. "To have and to hold, from this day forward, whatever
circumstances or experiences life may hold for us."
HAMILTON, an Ontario Superior Court judge, asked both men to
place rings on each other's fingers, then made it official.
"By the power vested in me by the Marriage Act, I pronounce you
Michael, and you Michael -- affectionately known as 'the Michaels'
-- to be lawfully wedded spouses."
"You are now married," said
HAMILTON, who later said it was "an
honour" to perform the ceremony.
LESHNER, 55, and
STARK, 45, kissed and popped champagne.
Speaking to reporters,
LESHNER said he regards the court's judgment
as, "Day One for millions of gays and lesbians around the world"
and the culmination of a personal 20-year battle to end "legally
sanctioned homophobia."
"I wanted to put a stake through that sucker," he said.
His 90-year-old mother, Ethel, who beamed and sang in her wheelchair,
drew her satisfaction on a smaller scale.
"I feel wonderful, if he does. And I'm sure he does -- take a
look at his face," she said.
"I can't 'rah, rah, rah.' I'm not the type of person to do that,"
she said. "I'm just happy my son is happy -- I know he's getting
a nice guy."
While LESHNER and
STARK are believed to be the first gay couple
to wed after same-sex marriage became legal yesterday, they may
not be the first gay Ontario couple to be legally married. That
distinction appears to fall to two same-sex couples who were
married in a double ceremony at Toronto's Metropolitan Community
Church in January, 2001.
The appeal court ordered the province to register marriage certificates
issued to those couples, Kevin
BOURASSA and Joe
VARNELL and Elaine
and Anne VAUTOUR.
The judges also ordered the clerk of the City
of Toronto to issue marriage licences to
LESHNER and
STARK and
six other couples whose licence applications were held in abeyance
pending a ruling by the courts. The province and the city told
the judges during a hearing in April that they would abide by
whatever the appeal court decided.
Less clear is where the federal government stands.
Justice
Minister
Martin
CAUCHON told reporters yesterday he believes
Members of Parliament should have a say in the debate about same-sex
marriage, but the government also sees where courts across the country
are heading on the issue.
The British Columbia Court of Appeal and a Quebec Superior Court
judge have also ruled the common law definition of marriage violates
the Charter's equality provisions, but didn't go as far as Ontario
in immediately extending marriage to same-sex couples, preferring
instead to give Parliament until July, 2004 to change the law.
The Ontario Court of Appeal said there's no need to wait: Changing
the definition of marriage, effective immediately, won't create
any public harm.
Federal justice department spokesperson Dorette
POLLARD said
the government has until September 9 to decide whether to seek
leave to appeal the decision to the Supreme Court of Canada.
In the meantime, the government does not have the option of seeking
a court injunction to stop same-sex marriages from taking place,
she said.
If a further appeal to the Supreme Court is in the cards, it
could return to the Court of Appeal to ask for a stay of yesterday's
ruling, effectively putting it in suspension,
POLLARD said.
She was unable to say how that would affect same-sex marriages
that have already taken place.
Opponents of same-sex marriage, however, had no difficulty expressing
an opinion on yesterday's decision.
By reformulating the definition of marriage, the appeal court
ignored "centuries of precedent" and rendered "ordinary Canadians'
views irrelevant," said Derek
ROGUSKY, a vice-president of Focus
on the Family, whose interests were represented by The Association
for Marriage and the Family in Ontario, an intervenor in the
case.
In its decision yesterday, written not by one judge in particular
but collectively as "the court," the appeal panel changed the
definition of marriage from being "the voluntary union for life
of one man and one woman," to "the voluntary union for life of
two persons to the exclusion of all others."
A person's sense of dignity and self worth can only be enhanced
by the recognition that society gives to marriage and denying
people in same-sex relationships access to that most basic of
institutions violates their dignity, the court said.
"The ability to marry, and to thereby participate in this fundamental
societal institution, is something that most Canadians take for
granted. Same-sex couples do not; they are denied access to this
institution simply on the basis of their sexual orientation."
Preventing same-sex couples from marrying perpetuates the view
that they are not capable of forming loving and lasting relationships
and not worthy of the same respect and recognition as heterosexual
couples, the court added.
It was ruling on an appeal from an Ontario Divisional Court decision
last year. The Divisional Court said the common law definition
of marriage as an exclusively heterosexual union was unconstitutional,
but decided 2-1 to leave it up to Parliament to rewrite the law
by July, 2004.
The dissenting judge in that case, Mr. Justice Harry
LAFORME,
who would have changed the definition immediately, attended yesterday's
ceremony.
In its 60-page decision yesterday, the judges systematically
disposed of Ottawa's arguments for preserving marriage as a heterosexual
domain, saying they were filled with irrelevancies, stereotypes
and "circular reasoning."
The government argued that marriage has always been understood
as a special kind of monogamous institution that brings the sexes
together for the purposes of procreating, raising children and
companionship.
That isn't something that lawmakers dreamed up; it predates the
law, the government said.
Who invented the concept of marriage doesn't matter, the court
said; What does is how gays and lesbians fare under a legal regime
that excludes them from the institution.
The government was avoiding the main issue by arguing that marriage
"just is" heterosexual and benefits society as a whole, the court
said.
"The couples are not seeking to abolish the institution of marriage,"
wrote the judges. "They are seeking access to it."
With files from Mary
GORDON
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GORDON m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2006-10-02 published
65 years and counting
Two Toronto brothers, their little sister and their spouses celebrate
an incredible 65-plus years of marriage
By Andrea GORDON,
Family
Issues
Writer
Jennie GRUDI and her brothers Joseph and Harry
SPENCER have always
shared a lot. Their Ukrainian heritage, many a Christmas Eve
feast and a passion for music and dancing.
But how's this for a family tradition? As of last week, all three
have been married for 65 years.
For Jennie, 85, and her husband, it's actually been 66. Their
anniversary was two weeks ago. Then last Wednesday, Joseph, 89,
and his wife celebrated 65 years. Harry, 87, and his beloved
Margaret hit the 65-year mark in June.
"I think this is a pretty good story," Jennie says, smiling at
her husband Stephen, 90, as the six long-time love birds gathered
around the kitchen table in the
GRUDIs'
Etobicoke home.
No doubt about it. Why should celebrity breakups get all the
ink? Brad and Jennifer, Nicole and Tom indeed. Where are the
paparazzi when the really big marriage stories come along?
The
Queen sent a letter of congratulations to the
GRUDIs. So
did the Prime Minister, the Governor General and Ontario's premier.
The least they could do. It's not often you get to extend Happy
65th Anniversary wishes. You have to look long and hard to even
find a card for the occasion.
Between them, the three couples have almost 200 years of marriage.
Eight children, 21 grandchildren and 14 great-grandchildren.
In the period they've been married, Elizabeth Taylor has done
it eight times. Courtship has moved from the soda fountain to
the computer keyboard. Romance is more likely to blossom to the
strains of hip-hop than big band.
But the secrets to long, strong marriages endure.
"We could always go to each other and talk anything out," Margaret,
85, says of her connection to Harry. "And we never went to bed
mad."
"That's right," he adds, a twinkle in his eye. "She always had
to apologize first." (Clearly, a sense of humour is important,
too.)
A strong constitution helps. Joseph, who has been smitten with
Dorreen, 87, for almost as long as he can remember, cites his
mother's cooking. "Kapusta (cabbage soup) and borscht."
But their parents Victoria
BARON and William
CEPENDA, who were
born in Ukraine, met in Toronto and married in 1916, raised their
three kids on more than hearty soup. Love. Loyalty. Discipline.
A strong Baptist faith. The boys eventually anglicized their
last name to Spencer.
Their dad cried when the last child moved out of the west-Toronto
house where they all grew up. He died at 69, their mom at 82.
These couples don't say it in so many words, but their marriages
have flourished because of partners who are caring and generous.
And not just to each other.
Harry, who quit school at 12 and later worked in a foundry during
the war, has spent 60 years as a prison volunteer counselling
inmates.
At home in Orillia, where the couple moved from Toronto 17 years
ago, he often mows neighbours' lawn and clears their snow.
Steve, a long-time sheet metal worker, and Jennie, who just finished
harvesting a good crop from her vegetable garden, both volunteer
in their community, preparing food for other seniors and driving
them to appointments.
Joseph had a long teaching career at Central Technical School
and was honoured by the Governor General for his distinguished
volunteer service with Saint_John Ambulance.
He still teaches Sunday school.
Last week, there was romance in the air as the couples reminisced
about when their first sparks ignited.
Jennie remembers encountering Steve. "He met me and he said in
Ukrainian, 'Where have you been all my life?' He was with his
girlfriend."
Thank goodness the gal only spoke English. Eleven months later
they were married.
It was at summer camp in the late '30s that Joseph fell for Dorreen.
He found out where she attended church and one Sunday morning
took the streetcar across Toronto to greet her as she emerged.
They married in 1941 and a few months later he was overseas with
the air force. They wrote twice a week, still have the letters.
Harry and Margaret have Jennie to thank.
One day as a teenager, Margaret handed over her little autograph
book to Jennie, hoping her friend's older brother might pen something
memorable. He did. Then he returned the book in person. And the
rest is history.
The six have always been close. Every Christmas, Dorreen did
the turkey, Steve carved and Margaret made the dessert. "Squares,
all kinds," she says, reluctant to blow her own horn.
That's okay. The others will. They never stop singing each other's
praises, finishing each other's sentences and urging one another
to expound on their accomplishments.
"A big asset is being part of this family," says Dorreen.
She tries to explain further, but it's hard to talk when you're
all choked up.
No need to say more anyway. They all know.
Steve's wit takes a backseat, too, when it's his turn to reflect.
"I wish I could go for another 65 -- with the same woman."
He looks around the table, realizing he speaks for them all.
And really, what better anniversary gift could you get than that?
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