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SPANOS /
CHONG - Engagement Announcement
Jim and Dina
SPANOS and Ed and Janet
CHONG are pleased to announce
the engagement of their children Nikki
SPANOS and Norm
CHONG.
All our love. Congratulations Nikki and Norm!
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CHOWN m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2005-05-28 published
Jennifer KAPLAN and Philip
CHOWN -- Match
By Judith TENENBAUM,
Saturday,▼
May 28, 2005, Page M6
Jennifer Mia
KAPLAN didn't make it easy on Philip
CHOWN.
Having been married once already, she was happily ensconced in
2002 with the only man of the house she was interested in: her
son, Lucius, who lived with her in her landmark Ansonia condominium
in New York.
She was wary of any relationship that would affect her family-oriented
lifestyle, or her dedication to her career as a psychotherapist,
so she resisted her Toronto relatives' matchmaking efforts. "With
the aunties calling, and set-ups by cousins, I've had so many
blind dates a friend said I should get a seeing-eye dog for free,"
Ms. KAPLAN, 41, quips.
Originally from Toronto, she'd always had her eye on New York,
and in 1981 won a wager with her father, Robert
KAPLAN, solicitor-general
in the Trudeau era, by gaining admission to Grade 12 at the Dalton
School, a prestigious private academy in Manhattan.
She went on to graduate from Sarah Lawrence College and Columbia
University, where she obtained a merit scholarship, and settled
into life in the Big Apple. She married, gave birth to Lucius,
and became a U.S. citizen.
By 2002, she was single once again, and a prime target for her
relatives, who persevered in the Yiddish matchmaking tradition
despite her reluctance to date.
Mr. CHOWN, a graduate of the University of Victoria and director
of foundations and major gifts for the University of British
Columbia, was visiting his sister at her Toronto home when Ms.
KAPLAN's brother -- dispatched by his wife
Julie on a scouting
mission -- turned up. "Jennifer's brother John came by my sister's
house to meet me for 15 minutes... kind of an old-fashioned shtetl
[Jewish community] set-up, to make sure I wasn't sinister," he
says with a laugh.
The relatives approved, but when Mr.
CHOWN visited New York in
December of 2002, a contrary Ms.
KAPLAN refused an invitation
to dinner. "It seemed crazy to begin anything with someone across
the country, and in another," she says.
A year later, her family was still trying to promote Mr.
CHOWN.
"You mean he's still single?" chirped a sarcastic Ms.
KAPLAN
to her sister-in-law. Julie
KAPLAN upped the ante, drawing on
her 14 years of marriage to Ms.
KAPLAN's brother. "You know I've
never asked you for anything, have I?" she implored. "Well, I'm
asking."
Ms. KAPLAN finally gave in and agreed to a dinner date when Mr.
CHOWN visited New York at the end of 2003.
For his part, Mr.
CHOWN, 45, didn't have high expectations for
the rendezvous either. He remembers a casual conversation with
his dean at University of British Columbia, at which he expressed
satisfaction with bachelorhood. "I'm happily a professional single.
I've got my golf, yoga, a slate of nieces and nephews nicely
distributed geographically and a social life," he recalls saying,
never dreaming that only a couple of weeks later he would consider
changing his marital status.
He suggested meeting Ms.
KAPLAN on December 29 at Pastis, which
just happened to be her favourite haunt.
"I put on my French bistro dress, got there before Phil, and
waited at the bar," Ms.
KAPLAN recalls. "I had no idea who my
sister-in-law picked for me." She expected a serious, religious
type and was pleasantly surprised by a hip Mr.
CHOWN.
With a mutual affinity for Ashtanga yoga and their view of Judaism
somewhere between sacrosanct and secular, they agreed to another
date the next night. "That was the night I gave him the talk,"
Ms. KAPLAN says. "I was a serious person, knew about life and
didn't get involved in anything that wasn't going to last."
A beguiled Mr.
CHOWN didn't analyze or strategize. "I just accepted
her," he says. " I saw the possibility of my life shifting in
a huge way."
After only three dates, "I was making plans," Ms.
KAPLAN says,
"the very thing I said I'd never do. I thought, 'Either I'm having
a psychotic break, or I'm falling in love.' "
Their transcontinental romance flourished and during Passover
in April of 2004, Ms.
KAPLAN hosted a New York cocktail party
for Friends to introduce Mr.
CHOWN.
That afternoon, when supposedly shopping for a baking sheet,
he purchased a 300-year-old, pink sapphire engagement ring for
Ms. KAPLAN.
Unexpectedly, her intuitive father had flown in.
"As the party was spinning out, I asked for his blessing," says
Mr. CHOWN, who proposed after the guests left.
They set a wedding date for that November in Toronto, but had
to stop the printing of the invitations on the presses when revised
U.S. immigration laws scuttled their plans. If they married in
Toronto, "Phil would have to stay a full year in Canada after
the wedding," Ms.
KAPLAN says. "I was ready to run into a brick
wall if he couldn't come" to New York. Three lawyers and two
pounds of paperwork corroborating their romance later, the couple
got the go-ahead for a New York ceremony.
Ms. KAPLAN, who is passionate about grandiose, early 20th-century
architecture, booked the entire first floor of the Romanesque
revival Puck Building for her child-friendly, funky-formal wedding
for 300. Six nannies stood at the ready with art supplies and
pillows for forts for about 40 little ones. "I wanted people
to enjoy what they wore, a tuxedo and jeans," she says.
On May 8, Rabbi Chezi
ZION, who once declared with certitude
that his friend Mr.
CHOWN would never marry, wed the couple in
an Orthodox service. The bride made the chuppah, the traditional
Jewish wedding canopy, by hand out of violet silk chiffon, and
many guests carried through her colour theme in their gowns as
a surprise. Ms.
KAPLAN wore a crocheted Irish gown, more than
200 years old, that she bought when she was only 19 and had stored
since then in a silk pillowcase.
Mr. CHOWN continues his employment with University of British
Columbia, telecommuting from a New York office. He has received
the stamp of approval from Mrs.
CHOWN's son Lucius, now 8, who
confided to his uncle, "I want to thank you for introducing my
mother to Philip and making her so happy."
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CHRETIEN m@ca.on.grey_county.owen_sound.the_sun_times 2003-10-17 published
Long marriage follows accidental meeting
City couple celebrates diamond anniversary
By Jonathon
JACKSON,
Sun
Times
Staff, page A3
Helen VERMILYEA remembers telling the minister of her church
in Toronto that she had been married for six months and thinking
that was a long time
He said that was not a particularly long time, telling her he
had been married for 10 years.
That's not a long time either, at least not in the eyes of
VERMILYEA
and her husband Doug. Thursday was the Owen Sound couple's 60th
wedding anniversary.
They celebrated a few days early, with a party last Saturday
at Harrison Park. Most of their family was able to attend, filling
the community centre beyond capacity.
"Some had to eat outside at the picnic tables, (the hall) was
so full," Helen said.
Doug VERMILYEA and Helen
McGREGOR met entirely by chance in about
1940. Doug, a native of Regina, was in the Royal Canadian Air
Force. He was looking for a girl named Helen when he knocked
on his future wife's door, unaware the girl he was looking for
lived next door.
Helen, an Annan native who was working as a nurse at the Queen
Elizabeth Hospital, was captivated by the handsome serviceman.
He came back the next day to invite her to church and they married
about three years later near Annan, at the Johnson Presbyterian
Church, which is no longer standing.
After a honeymoon near Bracebridge, she went back to Toronto
and he went overseas. She came home after giving birth to the
first of their six children and they were reunited after he left
the air force in 1946.
"We bought a house from Helen's father and that's why we moved
from Toronto up to Owen Sound," Doug said.
In Owen Sound, the
VERMILYEAs owned Hatton Hall Catering for
33 years while Doug also worked at the
RCA plant. After the factory
closed in the mid-1970s, he went to work as a caretaker at the
Knox church in Owen Sound, finally retiring at age 77.
"The time goes, raising a family. It was time consuming," said
Doug, now 85. "You get old before you realize it, but we still
don't feel old."
"I don't know where the time has gone," said Helen, also 85.
"We've had a very very busy life."
It was during their career as caterers that they first heard
of a couple who had been married for as long as 50 years. As
she had done early in her marriage, Helen's commented it was
a long time for a couple to have been married.
"1 thought that was wonderful, to have a couple married that
long," she said.
The VERMILYEAs, who have 12 grandchildren and six great-grandchildren,
are proud of the seven certificates they received in commemoration
of their milestone anniversary. They're from Owen Sound Mayor
Rick BEANEY, Bruce-Grey-Owen Sound Member of Provincial Parliament
Bill MURDOCH and Member of Parliament Ovid
JACKSON,
Premier
Ernie
EVES, Prime Minister Jean
CHRETIEN, Gov. Gen. Adrienne
CLARKSON
and Queen Elizabeth.
It's very special," Helen said.
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CHRÉTIEN m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2003-06-11 published
Gay marriage is legalized
Ontario appeal court rewrites law, says couples must be given
licences
Activists are ecstatic, Ottawa faces tight deadline to decide
on appeal
KLEIN rejects ruling, says he'll invoke notwithstanding clause
in Alberta
By Kirk MAKIN Justice Reporter; With reports from Mark
HUME in
Kelowna, and Canadian Press Wednesday, June 11, 2003 - Page A1
The exclusion of gays from the institution of marriage is illogical,
offensive and unjustifiable, the Ontario Court of Appeal said
yesterday in a historic judgment that makes same-sex marriages
legal for the first time in Canada.
The ruling took effect immediately in Ontario -- two gay men
were married yesterday in a Toronto court -- increasing the pressure
on the federal government to consider legislation on same-sex
unions or go to the Supreme Court. A decision on the latter option
must be made by June 30.
Alberta
Premier
Ralph
KLEIN boosted the stakes further, saying
his province is not about to recognize same-sex marriages as
legal, and will invoke the notwithstanding clause of the Constitution
to override any court ruling recognizing a right to such marriages.
"If there is any move to sanctify and legalize same-sex marriages,
we will use the notwithstanding clause, period, end of story,"
Mr. KLEIN said at the Western Premiers Conference in Kelowna,
B.C.
The Ontario court methodically dismantled every argument made
before it in support of heterosexual-only marriages. It refused
even to permit a grace period for Ontario to bring its laws into
conformity with the Charter of Rights and Freedoms. Courts in
British Columbia and Quebec have also struck down marriage laws,
but gave the governments time to rewrite their legislation.
The Ontario judges said denying same-sex marriage is tantamount
to declaring homosexuals a lesser order of being, helping to
perpetuate an impression that gays and lesbians are incapable
of forming loving relationships.
"A purpose that demeans the dignity of same-sex couples is contrary
to the values of a free and democratic society and cannot be
pressing and substantial," said Chief Justice Roy
McMURTRY,
Mr.
Justice James
MacPHERSON and Madam Justice Eileen
GILLESE.
"Same-sex couples are capable of forming long, lasting, loving
and intimate relationships. A law that prohibits same-sex couples
from marrying does not accord with the needs, capacities and
circumstances of same-sex couples."
The judges ordered Toronto's city clerk and the provincial registrar-general
to issue and accept marriage licences for two couples married
under the Christian tradition of publication of banns in 2001
-- Joe VARNELL and Kevin
BOURASSA; and Elaine and Anne
VAUTOUR
-- making them the first gay marriages in the country.
Henceforth, the court ordered the definition of marriage in Ontario
to be "the voluntary union for life of two persons to the exclusion
of all others."
The ruling was the culmination of decades of strategic prodding
by gay couples, associations and legal activists. All were ecstatic
yesterday over the strength of the Ontario ruling.
"This is why people come to Canada," said Michael
LESHNER, who
married his partner, Michael
STARK, within hours of the ruling.
"They marvel at our values. We have sent an unmistakable message
that love can conquer all."
"It's a momentous day," said Kyle
RAE, a gay Toronto city councillor.
"It is a great day for equality in Canada."
A lawyer for the couples, Martha
McCARTHY, predicted many more
marriages in the days ahead, while the federal government ponders
a possible appeal. "The more marriages we get, the more inevitable
this is," she said in an interview. "The time to be right is
ripe, as Martin Luther
KING would say."
Courts in Ontario, British Columbia and Quebec have now overturned
marriage laws. But the rulings in British Columbia and Quebec
did not take effect immediately because they allowed governments
until mid-2004 to redraft the laws.
A final clash is now possible before a Supreme Court of Canada
bench that has steadily established a reputation for defending
gay rights. The federal government has only until June 30 to
decide whether to appeal the British Columbia ruling. The Liberal
government is also expecting a report this week from a parliamentary
committee examining same-sex marriage.
Prime
Minister
Jean
CHRÉTIEN said yesterday Justice Minister
Martin CAUCHON is looking at the judgment along with the other
rulings, and said it is too early to know whether it will be
appealed.
Mr. CAUCHON said Ottawa recognizes it must move quickly toward
a "national solution" to the same-sex debate.
"We see the direction that the courts are taking now," Mr.
CAUCHON
said after a cabinet meeting. "I'm asking for a little bit of
time to look at the decision and to come back with a statement."
The Ontario Court of Appeal was not in a mood for patience, and
it was not willing to run the risk that provincial legislators
would devise wording to circumvent their ruling.
"A temporary suspension allows a state of affairs that has been
found to violate standards embodied in the Charter to persist
for a time despite the violation," the court said.
It also pointed out that were it simply to render the entire
law invalid, gay people would be vulnerable to the wrath of heterosexuals
who found themselves temporarily denied the benefits of marriage.
The decision rested on the constitutional right to equality and
emphasized the "dignity" of individuals.
Launched by eight same-sex couples, the litigation had targeted
a common-law definition of marriage as a union between "one man
and one woman." The couples won their challenge in Ontario's
Divisional Court, but it, too, suspended its ruling for two years.
Yesterday, the Court of Appeal specifically rejected arguments
that procreation is an integral pillar of marriage.
"Same-sex couples can choose to have children through adoption,
surrogacy and donor insemination," the judges reasoned. "Importantly,
procreation and child-rearing are not the only purposes of marriage,
or the only reason why couples choose to marry. The opposite-sex
requirement in marriage is not rationally connected to the encouragement
of procreation and child-rearing."
They said government lawyers offered mere speculation instead
of proof to show why the exclusion of same-sex marriages was
a valid social objective -- and that the definition of marriage
was far from a minimal infringement.
What Canadian think about gay issues
The Ontario Court of Appeal ruled yesterday that the right to
marry should be extended to same-sex couples.
Recent surveys have produced the following results:
Do you support or oppose gay marriage?
Support Oppose
Males (18-34) 61.2% 33.9%
Females (18-34) 69.2% 22.2%
If the Supreme Court of Canada said that the federal government
had to give gays and lesbians the right to be married, do you
think that the government should or should not use its power
to overrule the court's decision?
Should Should not
The Charter of Rights and Freedoms guarantees equal rights for
women and ethnic and religious minorities and other groups. In
your opinion, should the Charter also guarantee rights for gays
and lesbians?
Yes No
Note: Graphic does not include respondents who did not know or
who refused to answer.
source: Centre For Research And Information On Canada
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Anna Ruth CHRISTIANSEN and Paul Charlton
DOUGLAS/DOUGLASS -- Match
By Judith TENENBAUM,
Page▼ M6
After hosting a pool party in the summer of 2003, Joanie
SKINNER
persistently nudged her divorced brother-in-law, Paul
DOUGLAS/DOUGLASS,
toward her neighbour, tall, blond, beautiful Anna
CHRISTIANSEN,
a divorcée who was happily raising daughters Corrine and Vanessa,
now 15 and 13. Ms.
SKINNER would invite Ms.
CHRISTIANSEN to her
soirees, then insist that a genial Mr.
DOUGLAS/DOUGLASS escort her on
the brief trek home. "Joanie wanted us to hook up, and it got
to the point where I was even checking out plumbing in Anna's
basement," he laughs.
When Ms. CHRISTIANSEN, who is now 44, downsized from an unmanageable
large home and was selling off her furniture, she recalls the
furtive glances they exchanged. "Paul came over, stood in the
doorway with his girlfriend -- and was uncomfortable because
dating wasn't an option at the time."
A year and a half later, free of other relationships, they finally
began to see each other, somehow avoiding Ms.
SKINNER's radar
until October, 2004, when their incandescent glow at the birthday
party of Mr.
DOUGLAS/DOUGLASS's niece provided evidence that the mission
had been accomplished. "Anna walks into a room, and lights up
the place. My Friends call her exotic. She has a great sense
of humour and is always smiling," a beaming Mr.
DOUGLAS/DOUGLASS explains,
before going on to describe himself as "a 200-pound, 6-foot-2
inch guy who looks like a Mafia hit man."
Ms. CHRISTIANSEN, in contrast, characterizes Mr.
DOUGLAS/DOUGLASS, who
had no children of his own, as "gentle, kind-hearted and easygoing,"
and delights in the fact he has a great relationship with her
daughters. When the two girls chose to experience living with
their remarried father in his new home, Ms.
CHRISTIANSEN was
"crushed." But Mr.
DOUGLAS/DOUGLASS's support helped her adapt to weekend
parenting. "Now I know what it's like for a dad -- but I probably
see them more than I did, because it is every weekend. We go
shopping, have fun, and they enjoy fine dining," she explains.
An honours graduate of Halton Business Institute, and also a
graduate of design at Humber and Fanshawe Colleges, Ms.
CHRISTIANSEN
has interests that are more vroom than Vogue. "I was raised on
the water, always had a boat and can carry on a conversation
about cars and boat motors…" she notes. Employed in the family
business, Bronte Outer Harbour Marina, she was "tired of doing
the boy thing all my life," so in 2002 she took on supervisory
responsibilities at the marina's new conference centre.
A branch manager for Yellow Transportation, Mr.
DOUGLAS/DOUGLASS, 43,
shares her interest in all things automotive, and he is particularly
dazzled by the 1958 Biarritz convertible in her parents' collection
of 65 classic cars.
In March, 2005, still feeling the effects of an earlier car accident,
Ms. CHRISTIANSEN required spinal surgery. Mr.
DOUGLAS/DOUGLASS was panicked
by the attendant risk, but obliged her by going to work: "I called
the hospital every five seconds, until I was told not to call.
My heart was broken. I was on edge -- I thought what would I
do if I didn't have her?"
By September, he was determined to merge their destinies. Home
from work one day, she was greeted by her pug Lucy (who had a
diamond ring affixed to her dog collar), champagne on ice and
Mr. DOUGLAS/DOUGLASS, anxious to pledge his troth.
"We didn't want to put everyone through a second marriage and
thought we'd just elope," she says. But plans for a Vegas/Elvis
nuptial package were vetoed by elder daughter Corrine. "I've
been through seven years of your being divorced and dating, and
I want to be in your wedding!" she insisted.
At the Harbour Banquet and Conference Centre, on February 25,
in a candlelit ceremony before 90 formally attired guests, the
pair were married by Rev. Bethany
BEATTY-
CHIRE to the accompaniment
of a harp and violin quartet. With "feet on the ground," Mrs.
DOUGLAS/DOUGLASS
says, "we get it more than the younger ones do."
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SALOMAA /
CHRISTIE -- Engagement Announcement
Ivan and Jacquie
CHRISTIE are pleased to announce the engagement
of their son Warren to Sonya
SALOMAA, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.
R. SALOMAA, Calgary, Alberta. Love and Best Wishes from Mum and
Dad,▼ sister Jannine
JENKEN and her husband Dan. Niece Rachael,
nephews Cole and Matthew
JENKEN.
Also▼ sister Natalie and nephew Nicholas
DEANS.
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SALOMAA /
CHRISTIE -- Engagement Announcement
Ivan and Jacquie
CHRISTIE are pleased to announce the engagement
of their son Warren to Sonya
SALOMAA, daughter of Mr. and Mrs.
R. SALOMAA, Calgary, Alberta. Love and Best Wishes from Mum and
Dad,▲ sister Jannine
JENKEN and her husband Dan. Niece Rachael,
nephews Cole and Matthew
JENKEN.
Also▲ sister Natalie and nephew Nicholas
DEANS.
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CHUDY m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2005-08-27 published
Naomi Malka
SHUPAK and Mark
DRIMAN -- Match:
By Judith TENENBAUM,
Saturday,▲
August 27, 2005, Page M4
Born just nine days apart and together since they were teens,
the only thing Naomi Malka
SHUPAK and Mark
DRIMAN seem to be
at odds about is how they met. "I remember distinctly being introduced
to her on the beach my first year at [Timberlane] summer camp,"
Mr. DRIMAN says. Ms.
SHUPAK, on the other hand, says she didn't
notice her future husband until 10th grade at the Community Hebrew
Academy of Toronto.
But since the pair's first official outing -- to their Grade
10 prom -- they have been exclusive. "I don't really know anything
about dating, because I never really dated," admits Ms.
SHUPAK,
25. "But I don't feel at all like I'm missing out."
After graduating from Community Hebrew Academy of Toronto in
1998, he did a year at Thornlea Secondary School, while Ms.
SHUPAK
began studying at York University. The following year, they both
enrolled at the University of Western Ontario in London.
Mr. DRIMAN graduated with an honours degree in business administration
and was awarded the University of Western Ontario Scholarship
of Distinction in 2000. Ms.
SHUPAK completed first a B. Sc. in
psychology, then an M. Sc. in medical biophysics and won both
the University of Western Ontario Chancellor's Prize in Social
Science and the Natural Sciences and Engineering Research Council
Canada Graduate Scholarship in 2003, as well as several other
research awards.
Despite hard work at school, the couple did find time to spend
with Friends, attend charity balls and participate in a memorable,
and moving, tour called March of the Living, which brings Jewish
youth from all over the world to Auschwitz and Birkenau on Holocaust
Memorial Day and then to Israel for Independence Day.
Upon graduation, the couple were separated again when Mr.
DRIMAN
took a position as an investment banker at Canadian Imperial
Bank of Commerce in Toronto. On weekends, Ms.
SHUPAK, still at
University of Western Ontario, visited him, and he spared her
the lonely schlep home by accompanying her back to London on
Sunday evenings. On Monday, he would wake up early and whistle
back to the city on the train just in time for work.
On March 18, 2004, on the eve of Ms.
SHUPAK's master's dissertation,
Mr. DRIMAN made their separation that much easier -- by bringing
her an engagement ring. "I think we have known forever that we
wanted to get married," Mr.
DRIMAN says. "All the things that
happen in life, the big steps -- moving away to go to university,
going on your first trip without your parents, graduating, moving
out, milestones in one's life -- we've been through them together."
Mr. DRIMAN has been helping Ms.
SHUPAK with yet another milestone.
Following in the footsteps of her father, aunt and uncle, Ms.
SHUPAK is currently studying medicine at the University of Toronto.
To keep her at her best, Mr.
DRIMAN provides some "chicken soup
for the fiancée." Says Ms.
SHUPAK: "On many occasions, he'd come
from work to prepare a meal while I was studying for exams and
then return for what could result in extremely late nights for
him at the office."
The two were wed on July 10 at Adath Israel Congregation, with
Rabbi
David
C.
SEED officiating. Included in the wedding party
was four-month-old Madeline Anne, the bride's niece, who was
carried down the aisle by her parents Debbie and Marc
BAKER.
The bridesmaids held rose bouquets, each in a different hue of
pink. The bride wore a strapless dress adorned with crystals
and pearls, designed by Jim Helm, underneath a bolero jacket.
The celebration was not without some sadness. Ms.
SHUPAK's grandmother
passed away in January. "They had talked on the phone many times
a day," Mr.
DRIMAN says. In tribute, the ceremony was performed
with her wedding ring and the bride wore her heirloom pearl earrings,
complemented by a pearl necklace from the bridegroom's grandmother,
Ray CHUDY.
Under the chuppa, the bride symbolically circled her bridegroom
seven times. This tradition is said to represent creativity (the
earth being created in seven days) and a sevenfold bond between
the couple and their families. Now, the two just need to agree
on their own creation story.
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Christine CHO and Jamie
PARK -- Match:
By Judith TENENBAUM,
Page▲ M4
For Christine
CHO and Jamie
PARK a platonic test cruise soon
had their transmissions in overdrive.
They met at church, where she played softball on a co-ed team
that he coached. Eventually they became part of a group that
explored the Toronto scene.
On Valentine's Day, 2002, their paradigm tilted. "About four
of us were all single at the time and decided that we'd hang
out, have a nice dinner and enjoy each other's company," recalls
Ms. CHO.
The following day when the pair, who rarely chatted on
MSN, connected,
she confessed that as a girlfriend she would be difficult --
high maintenance, and with lofty expectations. Risking a wounded
ego but looking for validation, Mr.
PARK suggested a week-long
experiment, in which he "would play her boyfriend."
Despite misgivings about spoiling a great Friendship, Ms.
CHO
agreed: "Both mature adults, we'd test the waters and wouldn't
tell any of our Friends. Because if we broke up they might feel
awkward having to choose sides."
Early that summer, Mr.
PARK recalls, "I meant to say I like you,"
but instead his heart spoke, "I love you." Two weeks of torment
ensued as Ms.
CHO pondered her response. "I didn't want to say
it unless I really meant it," she explains, adding, "Jamie was
extremely patient, understanding and concerned with my being
happy."
Born in Etobicoke, Ms.
CHO, who is a prodigious violinist with
virtuoso potential, exhibits many exceptional attributes. She
was Canada's representative in the Miss World competition in
2000, and as the first woman of Asian descent to win the Miss
Canada International title in 2001 she was feted here and in
Korea.
After an honours B.A. in English from the University of Toronto,
she considered a masters degree, but pursued a certificate to
teach English as a second language instead. "Teaching new adult
immigrants made me more appreciative of being Canadian and the
immigrant struggle."
Meanwhile, when her mother began O'Happy Day Daycare, Ms.
CHO
again switched direction and became its administrator. Accustomed
to rendering support to family enterprises, she observes: "You
plan your future, but you have to be flexible."
A financial planner at Scotia McLeod, born in Korea and with
a Bachelor degree in Science from York University, Mr.
PARK,
35, says, "I knew Christine before and after she ran for the
pageants. It was an accomplishment for her, her family and the
Korean community, but never a deciding issue as to why I was
attracted to her." Their philosophical interconnectedness includes
respect for their Korean heritage, faith as their bedrock and
volunteering at Mil Al Church and the Woodgreen Red Door Shelter.
Playing on her empathy for the underdog, Mr.
PARK concocted a
tale about sharing a lonely friend's birthday, luring Ms.
CHO
to a table set for four at the Fairmont Royal York's Epic restaurant
on June 10, 2005. Asked to critique the spelling on the birthday
card, which included the question "Will you marry me!," she noted
he'd used an exclamation mark in lieu of a question mark -- and
then accepted the proposal.
On May 20 at Garden Korean Church, personal vows were exchanged
before Rev. Danny
CHUNG. "It was a good exercise to think about
why you are marrying and what you promise. It wasn't just to
ourselves but to God, as well," says the bride, 27, who designed
her ivory lace gown and the yellow silk charmeuse bridesmaids
dresses.
After a luncheon at the Mandarin restaurant, dinner at Kleinberg's
Copper Creek Golf Club was revved up by the Lady Kane band and
surprise pyrotechnics. "Initially, we both thought that it wouldn't
work. But when a relationship is meant to be, a lot of things
just fall into the right place," says Mr.
PARK.
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BOLTON /
TUSTIN -- Forthcoming Marriage
It is with great pleasure that Connie
BOLTON, daughter of Fred
BOLTON and the late Janice
BOLTON, and Derek
TUSTIN, the son
of Vera CHURCH and step-son to Robert
CHURCH announce their forthcoming
marrige on Saturday, October 28, 2006 in Claremont. May they
have a lifetime of happiness together.
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Engagement -
BAXTER /
BOGART
Mr. and Mrs. Brian
BAXTER and Mrs. Ruth
CHUTE, would like to
announce the engagement of Cindy
BAXTER and Tim
BOGART.
The wedding is to take place, June 14, 2003. We wish you all the happiness you deserve.
Love Mom and Dad.
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Wladyslaw and Anastazja
CHWIECKO, 50th Anniversary
April 18th, 2003.
With Gods blessing, we celebrate this Golden Wedding Anniversary.
Congratulations and best wishes from all your Friends and family
including Richard and Lorraine, and Aleksy, Andrzej, Alyssa, and
Henry and Michelle, and Barbara and Arthur, and Adam, Brandon, Brittany,
Brianna.
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VAN
BOMMEL /
CHWIECKO
Joe and Joey
VAN
BOMMEL and Chester and Krystyna
CHWIECKO are
pleased to announce the marriage of their children Jennifer and
Mark. The wedding took place at St. George Catholic Church on
May 31, 2003.
Your family and Friends wish you the very best.
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CHWIECKO,
Chester and Krystyna - Happy 40th Anniversary
September 4th, 1965 Love Mark and Jennifer, Andrew and Linda,
Robert and Amanda, and your grandchildren.
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