B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOBKIN - All Categories in OGSPI
BOCCIA m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-09-11 published
BOCCIA,
Armand and Numisia -- Happy 60th Wedding Anniversary
September 11, 2003. Thanks Mom and Dad, Nonna and Nonno For all
your love and caring Love Joe, Robert, Louise, Jamie, Kristy
and Christopher
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOCCIA - All Categories in OGSPI
BODALY m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-03-11 published
BODALY,
Stan and Betty - 60th Anniversary
Goderich, Ontario
Married March 16th, 1946
Congratulations and Luv from your 4 daughters, their spouses,
11 grandchildren and 3 great grandchildren.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BODALY m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-07-08 published
BODALY,
Cathy and Kevin - 30 Years
July 10th, 1976-2006
Hope you have many more happy years together. We love you. Rebecca,
Jennifer, Ryan and Ella, Heather, Ryan and Caleb, Mom and Dad
Sprague.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BODALY - All Categories in OGSPI
BOER m@ca.on.grey_county.artemesia.flesherton.the_flesherton_advance 2007-05-30 published
BOER /
COOK -- Buck and Doe
Buck and Doe for Jamie
BOER and Cindy
COOK
Saturday June 2, 2007 Markdale Area 8 p.m.
$7/pp in advance, $10pp at the door.
Page 2
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOER - All Categories in OGSPI
BOERSMA m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2003-08-30 published
DE GROOT
BOERSMA /
LAPRISE
Monica and Daniel, together with their parents Fred and the late
Nellie DE GROOT
BOERSMA of London and Judith and Sylvia
LAPRISE
of Grande Pointe are pleased to announce the forthcoming marriage
wich will take place September 20th, at the First Christian Reformed
Church in London.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOERSMA - All Categories in OGSPI
BOGAERT m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2008-04-19 published
BOGAERT,
Theo and Irene - 50th Wedding Anniversary
Theo and Irene
BOGAERT and their family invite you to help celebrate
their 50th Wedding Anniversary on Saturday April 26, 2008 at
7: 30 p.m. at The Watford Centennial Hall. Best Wishes only please.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOGAERT - All Categories in OGSPI
BOGART m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2003-02-14 published
Engagement -
BAXTER /
BOGART
Mr. and Mrs. Brian
BAXTER and Mrs. Ruth
CHUTE, would like to
announce the engagement of Cindy
BAXTER and Tim
BOGART.
The wedding is to take place, June 14, 2003. We wish you all the happiness you deserve.
Love Mom and Dad.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOGART - All Categories in OGSPI
BOLAND m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2003-05-24 published
Wedding Announcement - Lindsay
BUTLER and Joe
BOLAND
Married in Edmonton, Alberta on January 3, 2003.
Their families join together to wish the couple happiness and
success in their future lives together.
We Love You!!
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOLAND - All Categories in OGSPI
BOLES m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-03-18 published
BOLES /
VARLEY -- Engagement
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOLES - All Categories in OGSPI
BOLEY m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2003-05-17 published
Happy 50th Anniversary Henry and Joyce
BOLEY
The family of Henry and Joyce would like to invite you to an
Open House Sunday, May 25th, from 1-3 p.m. at the Baldoon Golf
Club, 7018 Dufferin Ave., Wallaceburg.
Best wishes only please.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOLEY - All Categories in OGSPI
BOLSTER m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2005-01-01 published
JONES /
BOLSTER
Mr. and Mrs. Michael
JONES are pleased to announce the engagement
of their daughter Kristen Marie to Shane
BOLSTER,
son of Greg
BOLSTER and Maureen
EVANS.
A 2005 wedding is planned.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOLSTER - All Categories in OGSPI
BOLT m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-02-11 published
BOLT,
Henri and Frances - 50th Anniversary
Congratulations on 50 Golden Years
Love your sister, Ellen
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOLT - All Categories in OGSPI
BOLTON m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2005-02-19 published
BOLTON,
Fred and Betty - Happy 50th Anniversary
Congratulations!!!
February 19, 2005
Love from your family.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOLTON m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-04-22 published
BOLTON /
KOPCIC -- Engagement
Edwin and Michele
BOLTON, along with Dzafer and Jasminka
KOPCIC,
are pleased to announce the forthcoming marriage of their children
Amanda and Jazz. A ceremony in Canada will be celebrated in June 2007.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOLTON m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-10-14 published
BOLTON /
TUSTIN -- Forthcoming Marriage
It is with great pleasure that Connie
BOLTON, daughter of Fred
BOLTON and the late Janice
BOLTON, and Derek
TUSTIN, the son
of Vera CHURCH and step-son to Robert
CHURCH announce their forthcoming
marrige on Saturday, October 28, 2006 in Claremont. May they
have a lifetime of happiness together.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOLTON m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2005-12-17 published
Pamela Kaur
SINGH and Darren Graham Henry
STOKES -- Match
By Judith TENENBAUM,
Saturday,▼
December▼ 17, 2005, Page M5
Pamela SINGH and Darren
STOKES met in Charlottetown, so it isn't
surprising that this quote from Anne Shirley, in Anne of Avonlea,
seems so prophetic: "Romance may not come into one's life with
pomp and blare... perhaps it crept to one's side like an old
friend."
In May 1999, the two were attending Show Canada, the annual Canadian
motion picture industry convention, and film was their common
parlance. She was there to accept awards for excellence as a
Cineplex▼ theatre manager. He was representing his employer,
MIJO
Corp., a distributor of video, audio and print media.
When invited by a former employer to join some colleagues for
cocktails, he eased in beside Ms.
SINGH. "We clicked from the
get-go. He was funny, charming and smart," says Ms.
SINGH, who
found herself sharing every unscheduled moment at the convention
with Mr. STOKES, joking around and taking in island attractions
like Green Gables.
Appropriately, it was Confederation Bridge that brought the duo
together. Her reluctance to descend a rocky slope at the edge
of the bridge drew a challenge from Mr.
STOKES. "I was a phobia
queen, afraid of heights, dogs, the dark, bugs and water," she
confesses. "I said, 'I can't!' Darren said, 'You can!' He grabbed
my hand, I got to the bottom, and was screaming, ecstatic, hugged
him and said thank you." Back in Toronto, on a first date at
Just Desserts, they exchanged photos, reminisced and considered
the prospect of future nocturnal meetings, since Ms.
SINGH worked
most nights until 2 a.m.
Despite▼ the awkward schedule, Mr.
STOKES, a hopeless romantic
under his macho façade, could not resist -- coming to meet Ms.
SINGH for late-night coffee dates. Likewise, on her single day
off, she would get up after three hours of sleep and meet him
for breakfast.
Over▼ the next couple of years, Mr.
STOKES helped Ms.
SINGH grapple
with her demons: He converted her to snorkelling, tempered her
fear of dogs and the dark and introduced her to squash. "Darren
has been extremely supportive of my career and work ethic...
and showed me there is more to life than work," she asserts.
But Mr. STOKES is quick to return the compliments. Ms.
SINGH
"has a wealth of knowledge," he says. "She meticulously plans
events and it's great to sit on the sidelines and watch."
On December 18, 2004, he booked a corner table at Thornhill's
Octagon Restaurant. Recuperating from her company Christmas party
and the stress of just beginning her holiday shopping, Ms.
SINGH
felt bedraggled. As they toasted his imminent promotion, she
wasn't prepared for what came next: "Sweetheart, I love you,"
he said, holding out a blue box. She didn't need to ask what
was inside.
The wedding took place outdoors on September 10 at the Richmond
Hill▼
Country▼
Club,▼ with pastor Dale
BOLTON officiating. The ceremony
melded the bride's Hindu and Sikh traditions, including the lighting
of a deeya [clay pot] in tribute to Lord Ganesh, with the groom's
Anglican background.
Today, Ms.
SINGH, 31, is a senior consultant with the
GCI
Group▼
and Mr. STOKES, 30, is a vice-president at
MIJO
Corp.▼
And,▼ according
to their friend Jason
BORK, they're the perfect Toronto couple:
"Each from different cultural backgrounds, they are social butterflies,
love Toronto, and most importantly love and are dedicated to
each other."
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOLTON - All Categories in OGSPI
BOMMEL m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2003-08-23 published
VAN
BOMMEL /
CHWIECKO
Joe and Joey
VAN
BOMMEL and Chester and Krystyna
CHWIECKO are
pleased to announce the marriage of their children Jennifer and
Mark. The wedding took place at St. George Catholic Church on
May 31, 2003.
Your family and Friends wish you the very best.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOMMEL - All Categories in OGSPI
BONA m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-10-04 published
BONA /
SOKOLSKY -- Tamara and Bruce
KOFFLER, Victor
BONA, Aviva
and Mel SOKOLSKY are very happy to announce the engagement of
their children Nicole
BONA and Matthew
SOKOLSKY.
Proud▼
Grandmothers▼
Susan SERMER and Mussia
WEREK share the happiness with brothers
Mark, Jamie and Hillel.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BONA m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-10-11 published
BONA /
SOKOLSKY -- Tamara and Bruce
KOFFLER, Victor
BONA, Aviva
and Mel SOKOLSKY are very happy to announce the engagement of
their children Nicole
BONA and Matthew
SOKOLSKY.
Proud▲
Grandmothers▲
Susan SERMER and Mussia
WEREK share the happiness with brothers
Mark, Jamie and Hillel.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BONA - All Categories in OGSPI
BONASIA m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2003-04-12 published
25th Anniversary, Renato and Rita
BONASIA
April 15, 1978 -2003
Today Our Love Is Greater Than Yesterday,
Less Than Tomorrow!
Love your children Joseph, Francesca, Cristina, Renata and David.
Congratulations from Mom and Dad; Joanne, Alfonso, Joseph and
Domenic.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BONASIA - All Categories in OGSPI
BOND m@ca.on.grey_county.artemesia.flesherton.the_flesherton_advance 2007-08-15 published
SEELEY /
SINGH
We would like to thank everyone who helped make our wedding day
a huge success. Thanks to our families and Friends for their
love and generosity, and for all their help in making the day
so memorable. A special thanks goes to James and Mary Elizabeth
BOND for providing their beautiful property for our pictures,
to the girls at the bar, Joanne and Sue, for making sure everyone
was well taken care of, and
to Daryl GORDAN for the amazing fireworks
display. Thank you to Rick
CLEMAS for chauffering our guests
home safely, to Peggy
LUXTON and Carol
BEATTY for their musical
accompaniment, and
to Peggy-Sue and April from Weddings 101 for
making the tent look more beautiful than we could have ever imagined.
We would also like to send a huge thank you to Neil
SEELEY, for
designing the most beautiful invitations we have ever seen and
for taking all of the fabulous pictures that we will treasure
forever. And finally to Gary and RuthAnn
VANALSTINE, for their
hospitality and for providing the perfect setting for our wedding,
we couldn't have done it without their help and hard work. Thank
you all.
- Vicki and Craig.
Page 3
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOND m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2008-06-14 published
BOND /
GRAY/GREY -- August Wedding
Todd BOND and Jen
GRAY/GREY
Dave and Eleanor
BOND want to wish our son Todd and Jen all the
luck and happiness on their special day. Love from our family
and all of Jen's family.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOND - All Categories in OGSPI
BONELLO m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2003-07-12 published
ARNOLD /
BONELLO
Mr. and Mrs. Don
ARNOLD are so happy to announce the forthcoming
marriage of their daughter Sarah Lynne to Carl Peter
BONELLO,
son of Mr. and Mrs. Charles
BONELLO.
The wedding will take place
at the Elm Hurst Inn, Ingersoll, Ontario August 16, 2003 at 3: 00pm.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BONELLO - All Categories in OGSPI
BONIA m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2005-12-24 published
Mark Andrew
SYKES and Marlene Marie Alicia
BONIA -- Match
By Judith TENENBAUM,
Saturday,▲▼
December▲▼ 24, 2005, Page M4
A focus on algebra and isosceles triangles shifted to a more
personal dimension when Marlene
BONIA and Mark
SYKES met in a
Grade 10 math class in 1998. "I noticed him because of his English
accent and because he was fresh in the country," she recalls.
A year and a half later, Friendship and casual dating had evolved
into a relationship reminiscent of those bobby-sox teen flicks
of the Sixties. Soon, love would trump logic when the teenagers
sealed their future with a secret engagement.
"We realized we had similar goals and beliefs," Ms.
BONIA explains.
"Mark said he wanted to get married, but our parents wouldn't
understand -- we were too young -- and he gave me a gold band
with a tiny row of little diamonds."
They would ensconce the secret in their hearts and minds for
almost four years. "It was something between an engagement and
a promise ring -- an equal commitment," says Mr.
SYKES, who was
raised near Bristol, England. "I know people who have found somebody
they really love, but they say they are too young, have too much
to do, and let them go. Down the line, they've grown up and realized
it's a big mistake."
Initially, the shy Mr.
SYKES had been intimidated by Ms.
BONIA's
home life, which bristled with inquisitive and energized siblings
and extended family. But after nearly two years, he started coming
around. "I loved her family and their taking me in," he says.
In June, 2003, Mr.
SYKES was a year from graduating in civil
engineering at Humber College and gaining full-time employment
with Shaheen and Peaker Ltd. when he decided to propose. "I think
Mark won us over when he invited my husband Jim and I for coffee
and asked our permission," says Ms.
BONIA's mother, Laura. "We
were pleased it would be a long engagement and they would both
finish school first."
Thus, up in cottage country, Mr.
SYKES, now 24, chose a picturesque
spot and made the engagement official. "I was really nervous
but happy it was final -- our Friends and family would know we
had made a commitment and were getting married."
Family describe them adoring and quietly devoted. "She does everything
for me; we're soul mates and best Friends," Mr.
SYKES says.
"He's the most giving person I ever met. Caring, thoughtful and
always two steps ahead of me to make sure I'm looked after,"
says Ms. BONIA, now 23, an English graduate from York University
and a strategic assistant for Krcmar Surveyors Ltd.
Determined to pay for their own wedding, the couple enthusiastically
and successfully scrimped and saved for the elegant affair Ms.
BONIA had long envisioned. Thrift became their byword. "We both
lived with our parents through university and college saving
every penny for the wedding, and we didn't go away or even out
for dinner," Ms.
BONIA says.
The stately Graydon Hall Manor in Don Mills, a century-old mansion
with 11 fireplaces and expansive stone terrace, would house the
ceremony and reception.
On September 10, bridesmaids entered its chapel to strains of
Bach on violin and harp. Then, Pachelbel's Canon in D announced
the bride in a Maggie Sottero satin-and-lace creation, and Rev.
Tina GABRIEL performed the nuptials.
The newlyweds, who reside in Aurora, have laid out an ambitious
agenda: "Homeownership in five years, children in seven, and
lots of travel," says the new Mrs.
SYKES.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BONIA - All Categories in OGSPI
BONIFACE m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2003-09-15 published
BONIFACE,
Jim And Gwen - Happy 55th Anniversary
Love your family who are blessed to have you as their parents/grandparents.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BONIFACE - All Categories in OGSPI
BONNELL m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2006-04-08 published
Sherri Elizabeth
BURCH and Lee John
BONNELL -- Match:
By Judith TENENBAUM,
Page M6
Seated beside a platonic lady friend on a flight to Mexico in
February, 2005, Lee
BONNELL focused on a beguiling Sherri
BURCH,
sitting nearby, "talking up a storm" with her girlfriend.
"Lee's radar was always on the alert for the damsel of his dreams.
I knew he was on a mission after checking out Sherri on the plane,"
the friend recounts.
After they settled into their Huatulco resort, she continues,
"he sprang into action, helping himself to a seat at her breakfast
table," and hovering around her at the pool. "His persistence
drew curious reactions from guests who had seen Lee and me together.
They were scouting for scandal," she surmises.
Soon, the twosomes became a foursome, as they took in tourist
events, discovered a mutual Friendship and expounded on life.
"We had a great time. It was open and relaxed, and we talked
about everything," Mr.
BONNELL enthuses. Upon their departure,
a week later, he and Ms.
BURCH glowed, moonstruck, their approaches
to life seemingly a tailored fit. Each owned a century home,
hers in Fergus, his in West Toronto, and they shared a love of
antiques, tennis and dogs. Ms.
BURCH, however, was still "cautiously
optimistic. There was obviously an attraction, but when you get
home, it's different," she explains.
The next weekend, however, when Mr.
BONNELL drove to Fergus to
cook dinner for his new friend, he was certain, the moment he
saw her, that his ardour hadn't paled. "The resort thing was
the real deal. I just looked at Sherri and knew it was still
there.
"I was going to impress her by cooking lamb, but I burnt it silly,"
laughs the account manager at M-qube, who, along with his culinary
aspirations, has a master's of engineering and
an M.B.A. from
the University of Toronto.
Ms. BURCH, 36, a University of Guelph graduate and owner of Sage
Benefit Solutions, fared better with her cheesecake, until half
of it disappeared. The "usual suspects" included his dog, her
two dogs, a drop-in dog and three cats. The comic aspects of
the dinner notwithstanding, love flourished.
"Lee is the kindest person I know. When we were first together,
I had the red-pencil mentality, looking for something to be wrong.
There was no way he could be this fantastic," Ms.
BURCH recalls.
Over the following several months, it became obvious the couple's
next trip would be down the aisle. Late summer, they visited
his family in Edmonton, and
on September 1, 2005, after a perfunctory
gondola ride up Sulphur Mountain, they tore off to Canmore, where
they swooped, by helicopter, into backcountry -- along with a
guide. Midway through a three-hour trek, they paused for a gourmet
lunch, and on cue the guide took a hike on his own. Then Mr.
BONNELL,
now 44, produced a Tiffany box he had stashed with his extra
socks. "Sherri said yes, we toasted and kissed."
Their search for a century home mutually convenient to their
work seemed to be over when they found a Georgetown classic.
Other bidders jumped into the pool, but by midnight they were
the only ones still afloat. His home sold in a week, hers in
a day, and despite a drunk driver crashing into the side of Ms.
BURCH's
place before closing, everything turned out well.
Almost a year to the day they met, on the evening of February 25,
2006, in the candlelit music room of Hart House at the University
of Toronto, Ms.
BURCH's young nieces, Hanna and Claire
WILES,
walked her down the aisle; Mr.
BONNELL's nieces, Rhiannon and
Kristjaan BONNELL-
DAVIES, played Pachelbel's Canon in D on violins
as the register was signed before officiant Lawrence
BERNSTEIN.
A string trio took over as 105 guests mingled at a cocktail reception
in the Gallery Grill.
Mrs. BONNELL, who is on the board of directors of Groves Memorial
Community Hospital Foundation in Fergus and also sits on the
board of an agency dealing with street youth in Kitchener, reflects,
"I always say I lead a blessed life -- especially having met
Lee, who loves and cares for me."
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BONNELL - All Categories in OGSPI
BONNER m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-07-15 published
BONNER /
WHITWORTH -- Marriage Announcement
Bill and Avril
BONNER wish to announce the marriage of their
daughter Margaret to Doctor Steve
WHITWORTH,
son of Shirley Franks
and the late Bryan
WHITWORTH.
The wedding took place in Gibalter
on June 12, 2006. We wish them well in their new life in Brussels,
Belgium. From Mom, Dad, sisters Angela, Susan, Valerie and Rosemary
and all the family.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BONNER m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-12-09 published
BONNER,
Bill and Hilda - Happy 30th Anniversary
December 11, 2006 Love all the Kids and the Grandkids. "The goal
in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together."
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BONNER m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2008-03-15 published
READ /
WITT -- Forthcoming Marriage
Brent and Judi
BONNER are pleased to announce the forthcoming
marriage of their daughter, Diana
WITT to Michael
READ, son of
Frank and Brenda
READ of Princeton, Ontario. The wedding will
take place on June 21, 2008 at Saint Paul's Anglican Church in
London, Ontario.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BONNER - All Categories in OGSPI
BONNEY m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-12-11 published
BONNEY,
Martha and Ron -- On your 60th Anniversary Congratulations,
from your children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Love
always.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BONNEY - All Categories in OGSPI
BONNIE m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-06-26 published
Happy 60th Anniversary Len and Marg
(BONNIE)
NORDBY
June 26, 1943
Congratulations With much love - Lynda, Tanya, John, Cheryl,
Ashley, Sarah, Sandra and Sheena.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BONNIE - All Categories in OGSPI
BONTJE m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-06-17 published
BONTJE,
Mike and Connie - Happy 25th Anniversary
June 20, '81 - June 20, '06
Congratulations Mom and Dad from Erica, Micaela, Katelyn, Leah
and Lauren.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BONTJE - All Categories in OGSPI
BOOMEN m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2003-09-27 published
VAN
DEN
BOOMEN,
Tonny and Gerry - 50th Wedding Anniversary
In honour of their Golden Wedding Anniversary, the children and
grandchildren of Tonny and Gerry invite family, Friends and neighbours
to an Open House, Sun., October 5th, 2: 00-4:30pm, Parish Hall,
All Saints Church, 124 Front St. E., Strathroy. Best wishes only
please.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOOMEN - All Categories in OGSPI
BOOMHOWER m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2005-06-11 published
BRILLINGER /
BOOMHOWER
Stag and Doe - Bonnie
BRILLINGER and Ken
BOOMHOWER (aka Woody)
Friday June 17th at 8 p.m. Elephant and Castle Pub and Restaurant
(in the Galleria Mall). 355 Wellington Rd, London
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOOMHOWER - All Categories in OGSPI
BOON m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-03-23 published
BOON,
Graham and Betty - 50th Wedding Anniversary
March 24, 1956-2006
Help Graham and Betty celebrate their 50th at a reception being
held at Forest City National Golf Course, March 25, 1-3: 30 p.m.,
16540 Robins Hill Road, London. Best Wishes only.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOON - All Categories in OGSPI
BOONE m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2005-11-12 published
BOONE /
HARRIS
Finally!!! Gillian, Adam, Saxon and Madison are pleased to announce
that their dad (Geoff
HARRIS) and their mom (Lisa
BOONE) are
finally tying the knot! Congratulations and best wishes from
all of your family.
picture complements of Gillian
HARRIS
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOONE m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2008-05-24 published
BOONE,
Joan and Jim - 50th Wedding Anniversary
May 24, 2008 Congratulations Joan and Jim
BOONE
With much love
from Tom and Renee, Charlie and Erica, Peter and Amy, and all
the grandkids.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOONE - All Categories in OGSPI
BOOST m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2005-06-25 published
BOOST /
MUTCH -- Forthcoming Marriage
Dale and Patricia
BOOST together with Douglas and Catherine
MUTCH
are pleased to announce the forthcoming marriage of their children
Erin and Stuart.
The wedding will take place in July in London.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOOST - All Categories in OGSPI
BOOT m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-01-14 published
LAWRENCE /
BOOT -- Engagement
Wayne and Rose
LAWRENCE of London are pleased to announce the
engagement of their daughter Kerry
LAWRENCE to Jonathan
BOOT,
son of John and Betty
BOOT of Sarnia. Marriage to take place
in Sarnia on November 18, 2006.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOOT m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-01-14 published
LAWRENCE /
BOOT -- Engagement
Wayne and Rose
LAWRENCE of London are pleased to announce the
engagement of their daughter Kerry
LAWRENCE to Jonathan
BOOT,
son of John and Betty
BOOT of Sarnia. Marriage to take place in Sarnia on November 18, 2006.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOOT - All Categories in OGSPI
BOOY m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2005-09-24 published
BOOY,
Marinus and Marie - Celebrating 50 Years
October 1, 2005 With thanks to God, the family of Marinus and Marie
Booy invite family and Friends to an Open House on October 1,
2005 from 2-4 p.m. at the Aylmer C.R.C., corner of South Street
& Caverly Road, Aylmer, Ontario. Best Wishes only.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOOY - All Categories in OGSPI
BORDE m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-01-21 published
NUNES /
McKENZIE
Natasha NUNES, daughter of Brenda
BORDE-
ALI and the late Michael
NUNES and Brett
McKENZIE,
son of Esther and Dave
McKENZIE were
united in marriage on August 20, 2005 in Oakville, Ontario. After
a honeymoon in the Canary Islands, the newlyweds took up residence
in London, Ontario. Their families wish them love, health and
happiness in their future together.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BORDE m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-01-21 published
NUNES /
McKENZIE
Natasha NUNES, daughter of Brenda
BORDE-
ALI and the late Michael
NUNES and Brett
McKENZIE,
son of Esther and Dave
McKENZIE were
united in marriage on August 20, 2005 in Oakville, Ontario. After
a honeymoon in the Canary Islands, the newlyweds took up residence
in London, Ontario. Their families wish them love, health and happiness in their future together.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BORDE - All Categories in OGSPI
BORDIERI m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-11-01 published
NAGY /
BORDIERI -- Mr. and Mrs. John
NAGY announce the engagement
of their daughter, Elizabeth Katalina, to Frank V.
BORDIERI,
son of Mr. and Mrs. Vincent
BORDIERI.
The wedding will take place
in October 2004.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BORDIERI - All Categories in OGSPI
BOREAN m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-02-22 published
BOREAN /
McMILLAN -- Mr. Luciano (Lou)
BOREAN of Mississauga, Ontario
is proud and delighted to announce the engagement of his daughter,
Tanya, to Scott
McMILLAN,
son of Bob and Kerry
McMILLAN of Auckland,
New
Zealand.
Tanya is also the daughter of the late Brenda
BOREAN
and sister to Sarah. The
BOREAN family and Friends wish them
both a lifetime of love, laughter, and happiness. A wedding is
planned for late August, 2003 in Playa del Carmen, Mexico. Congratulatory
wishes can be emailed to: tanya-scott@sympatico.ca
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOREAN - All Categories in OGSPI
BORGES m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-05-24 published
BORGES -- Lilly and Bobby ''Finally Married'' Saturday, May 24,
2003. We would like to thank our parents, family, Friends and
co-workers for sharing our special day with us. -- Love, Lilly
and Bobby
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BORGES m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-06-07 published
Mr. and Mrs. Jack
DOLBY,
Toronto,
Ontario, wish to announce the
engagement of their daughter, Brenda Janine to Edward, son of
Mr. and Mrs. Duarte
BORGES,
Scarboro,
Ontario.
The wedding will
be held October 11th, 2003.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BORGES - All Categories in OGSPI
BORK m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2005-12-17 published
Pamela Kaur
SINGH and Darren Graham Henry
STOKES -- Match
By Judith TENENBAUM,
Saturday,▲▼
December▲ 17, 2005, Page M5
Pamela SINGH and Darren
STOKES met in Charlottetown, so it isn't
surprising that this quote from Anne Shirley, in Anne of Avonlea,
seems so prophetic: "Romance may not come into one's life with
pomp and blare... perhaps it crept to one's side like an old
friend."
In May 1999, the two were attending Show Canada, the annual Canadian
motion picture industry convention, and film was their common
parlance. She was there to accept awards for excellence as a
Cineplex▲ theatre manager. He was representing his employer,
MIJO
Corp., a distributor of video, audio and print media.
When invited by a former employer to join some colleagues for
cocktails, he eased in beside Ms.
SINGH. "We clicked from the
get-go. He was funny, charming and smart," says Ms.
SINGH, who
found herself sharing every unscheduled moment at the convention
with Mr. STOKES, joking around and taking in island attractions
like Green Gables.
Appropriately, it was Confederation Bridge that brought the duo
together. Her reluctance to descend a rocky slope at the edge
of the bridge drew a challenge from Mr.
STOKES. "I was a phobia
queen, afraid of heights, dogs, the dark, bugs and water," she
confesses. "I said, 'I can't!' Darren said, 'You can!' He grabbed
my hand, I got to the bottom, and was screaming, ecstatic, hugged
him and said thank you." Back in Toronto, on a first date at
Just Desserts, they exchanged photos, reminisced and considered
the prospect of future nocturnal meetings, since Ms.
SINGH worked
most nights until 2 a.m.
Despite▲ the awkward schedule, Mr.
STOKES, a hopeless romantic
under his macho façade, could not resist -- coming to meet Ms.
SINGH for late-night coffee dates. Likewise, on her single day
off, she would get up after three hours of sleep and meet him
for breakfast.
Over▲ the next couple of years, Mr.
STOKES helped Ms.
SINGH grapple
with her demons: He converted her to snorkelling, tempered her
fear of dogs and the dark and introduced her to squash. "Darren
has been extremely supportive of my career and work ethic...
and showed me there is more to life than work," she asserts.
But Mr. STOKES is quick to return the compliments. Ms.
SINGH
"has a wealth of knowledge," he says. "She meticulously plans
events and it's great to sit on the sidelines and watch."
On December 18, 2004, he booked a corner table at Thornhill's
Octagon Restaurant. Recuperating from her company Christmas party
and the stress of just beginning her holiday shopping, Ms.
SINGH
felt bedraggled. As they toasted his imminent promotion, she
wasn't prepared for what came next: "Sweetheart, I love you,"
he said, holding out a blue box. She didn't need to ask what
was inside.
The wedding took place outdoors on September 10 at the Richmond
Hill▲
Country▲
Club,▲ with pastor Dale
BOLTON officiating. The ceremony
melded the bride's Hindu and Sikh traditions, including the lighting
of a deeya [clay pot] in tribute to Lord Ganesh, with the groom's
Anglican background.
Today, Ms.
SINGH, 31, is a senior consultant with the
GCI
Group▲
and Mr. STOKES, 30, is a vice-president at
MIJO
Corp.▲
And,▲ according
to their friend Jason
BORK, they're the perfect Toronto couple:
"Each from different cultural backgrounds, they are social butterflies,
love Toronto, and most importantly love and are dedicated to
each other."
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BORK - All Categories in OGSPI
BORN m@ca.on.grey_county.artemesia.flesherton.the_flesherton_advance 2007-09-26 published
60th Anniversary Celebrated
Friends and neighbours attended an open house last Thursday on
the occasion of Andy and Trudy
WILHELM's 60th wedding anniversary.
Trudy's sister and brother-in-law, Inge and Klaus
BORN, are assisting
with the cutting of the cake.
Page 7
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BORN - All Categories in OGSPI
BORROWS m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2003-05-03 published
Ken and Cheryl
BORROWS, 25th Wedding Anniversary
May 6 1978 - May 6, 2003
Love Mike and Jeff
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BORROWS - All Categories in OGSPI
BORST m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-09-20 published
BORST /
WEINREB -- Ian and Judy
BORST are happy to announce the
engagement of their daughter Melanie, to Lorne
WEINREB, son of
Sonia. A March wedding is planned.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BORST - All Categories in OGSPI
BOS m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2003-06-28 published
50th Anniversary -
BOS
With gratitude to God. The family of Ralph and Jacoba
BOS (nee
PLUG) congratulate them on 50 years of marriage. Friends and
family are invited to an Open House Saturday, July 5 from 2-4: 30
pm at the Providence United Reformed Church, Second Street, Strathroy.
With love from your children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOTHAM m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2003-08-02 published
60th Anniversary, Wes and Vera
BOTHAM
Aug. 10, 1943 - 2003.
An Open House will be held on August 10, 2003, 1-4pm. in Dufferin
Hall at the Masonic Temple, 453 Dufferin Ave. Best Wishes only.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOTHAM - All Categories in OGSPI
BOTHWELL m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2003-09-13 published
BOTHWELL /
KUBARAKOS
Georgina KUBARAKOS and Ruth and Fred
BOTHWELL are delighted to
announce the marriage of Kathy
BOTHWELL and Peter
KUBARAKOS on
July 6, 2003 in Spartia, Greece.
Family and Friends shared this blessed occasion.
A Celebration honoring their marriage was held at Elsie Perrin
Estate in London on August 17.
Love and best wishes Kathy and Peter.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOTHWELL m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2005-12-03 published
MacKENZIE /
BOTHWELL -- Marriage Announcement
Michelle Rae
MacKENZIE and Christopher David Paul
BOTHWELL were
united in marriage November 22nd, 2005, in Punta Cana, Dominican
Republic, amongst family and Friends. Following their honeymoon
a reception will be held at Bellamere Winery. Congratulations
and best wishes.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOTHWELL - All Categories in OGSPI
BOTTE m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2006-01-07 published
Giulia FRISINA and John
PREINER -- Match:
By Judith TENENBAUM,
Saturday,▲
January 7, 2006, Page M4
John PREINER may have stumbled and fumbled in his ardent pursuit,
but he eventually swept Giulia
FRISINA off her feet. Fortunately,
she says, "A big part of John's personality is that he is persistent."
They had met at Roxy Blu, the now-defunct club on Brant Street,
in April, 2003, when Dr.
PREINER coaxed a phone number from a
starchy Ms.
FRISINA, memorized it and called the next day to
invite her to a party he was having. She and her girlfriends
arrived at his Beaches home to what seemed like pandemonium.
"I didn't see him because the entire city was at his party,"
she recalls with a laugh.
Hearing that Ms.
FRISINA was ready to drive off after 10 minutes,
Dr. PREINER, a urologist, dashed at breakneck speed to intercept
her. "She had obviously gone out of her way to come, and I had
invited her because I was interested," he says. "It turned out
we had been in the same circle for years, at the same events,
but never actually met."
Yet, barely registering a blip of interest, she left.
His call shortly thereafter, inquiring what she was doing that
evening, received the cool response that she and Friends would
be cheering the Leafs at Il Gato Nero on College Street. With
verbal swagger, he countered that he had a date with his ex-girlfriend,
but he breezed in later with yet another girl and 12 Friends
in tow. "He was trying to get to know me better, but we were
amongst 20 people, it was really awkward, and I was not impressed,"
recalls Ms.
FRISINA.
Should he call again, she decided, "I was
going to give him the boot."
His next call, however, changed her feelings; he offered to come
down and meet her one-on-one for a coffee. When, on the way,
he was forced to cancel and return to his Newmarket hospital
for an emergency, she empathized, and gave him the chance to
make it up on the next date: a 12-hour tour of College Street
bistros that began well and "got better from there."
Three months after meeting, the pair, both generous of spirit,
talked of marriage. "It wasn't like butterflies or lights going
off -- we just felt at ease, and comfortable," says Dr.
PREINER,
now 36, adding that they share similar values, including the
importance of Friends.
On Christmas Eve, 2004, he was summoned to perform an emergency
operation and she insisted on accompanying him. She waited for
him at the hospital until 2 a.m. "That really meant a lot," says
Dr. PREINER, "that someone would care that much and go out of
their way."
Similarly, he has been a wellspring of support through the early
travails of her owning and publishing Dining Out Magazine. Ms.
FRISINA, now 30, says: "I respected him more and more for the
person he was, the way he thought, the values he had. I could
just be myself."
The engagement six months later was hardly candlelight and roses.
Tired of his commute, Dr.
PREINER was finalizing the purchase
of a Don Mills home when he sensed some uneasiness on Ms.
FRISINA's
part. So he made a proposal that sounded like an apology. "I
spoke to your dad, talked to a diamond merchant, I bought a ring
and was going to propose when I took possession, but don't want
you to think I bought a house to have you move in."
Father Gregory
BOTTE wed the couple on September 17 at St. Francis'
Church, where both of their fathers had been altar boys. Afterward,
the celebrants marched in a procession through Little Italy to
lunch at Trattoria Giancarlo.
For Dr. PREINER, the highlight of their reception at Copper Creek
Golf Club in Kleinberg was their first dance: a Strauss waltz,
a tradition that honoured his Austrian heritage. After four months
of lessons marked by contusions, near spills and the instructor's
suggestion that they should consider an alternative, the dauntless
pair whirled to perfection, and the dancing sizzled until 2: 30
a.m.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOTTE - All Categories in OGSPI
BOUCHER m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2006-03-18 published
DOUGLAS/DOUGLASS /
BOUCHER -- Engagement
The families of Samantha
DOUGLAS/DOUGLASS and Jason
BOUCHER are pleased
to announce their engagement. Wedding will take place in September 2006.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOUCHER - All Categories in OGSPI
BOUDREAUX m@ca.on.manitoulin.howland.little_current.manitoulin_expositor 2004-09-22 published
Leo BEBONANG of M'Chigeeng and Katherine L.
BOUDREAUX of Richville (Saginaw) Michigan
are pleased to announce their marriage.
It took place at the Church of Sacred Heart in Caro, Michigan on September 11, 2004
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOUDREAUX - All Categories in OGSPI
BOULIANNE m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2003-08-16 published
BOULIANNE,
George▼ and Bea - Happy 50th Anniversary
With love from your whole family.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOULIANNE m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2003-08-23 published
BOULIANNE,
George▲ and Bea - Happy 50th Anniversary
August 15. 2003
With love from your whole family.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOULIANNE - All Categories in OGSPI
BOULTON m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2005-05-14 published
KEELEY,
Jill▼
{BOULTON} and Roger - Happy 50th Anniversary
May 17, 1965
Congratulations on 50 years of sharing life's ups and downs (thankfully
mainly "ups") with your gang of beauties - 5 kids and 7 grandkids.
Much love from twin brother Jack, big sister Ann and our families.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOULTON m@ca.on.middlesex_county.london.london_free_press 2005-05-14 published
KEELEY,
Jill▲
(BOULTON) and Roger - Happy 50th Anniversary
May 17, 1965
Congratulations on 50 years of sharing life's ups and downs (thankfully
mainly "ups") with your gang of beauties - 5 kids and 7 grandkids.
Much love from twin brother Jack, big sister Ann and our families.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOULTON - All Categories in OGSPI
BOURASSA m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2003-06-11 published
Gay marriage is legalized
Ontario appeal court rewrites law, says couples must be given
licences
Activists are ecstatic, Ottawa faces tight deadline to decide
on appeal
KLEIN rejects ruling, says he'll invoke notwithstanding clause
in Alberta
By Kirk MAKIN Justice Reporter; With reports from Mark
HUME in
Kelowna, and Canadian Press Wednesday, June 11, 2003 - Page A1
The exclusion of gays from the institution of marriage is illogical,
offensive and unjustifiable, the Ontario Court of Appeal said
yesterday in a historic judgment that makes same-sex marriages
legal for the first time in Canada.
The ruling took effect immediately in Ontario -- two gay men
were married yesterday in a Toronto court -- increasing the pressure
on the federal government to consider legislation on same-sex
unions or go to the Supreme Court. A decision on the latter option
must be made by June 30.
Alberta
Premier
Ralph
KLEIN boosted the stakes further, saying
his province is not about to recognize same-sex marriages as
legal, and will invoke the notwithstanding clause of the Constitution
to override any court ruling recognizing a right to such marriages.
"If there is any move to sanctify and legalize same-sex marriages,
we will use the notwithstanding clause, period, end of story,"
Mr. KLEIN said at the Western Premiers Conference in Kelowna,
B.C.
The Ontario court methodically dismantled every argument made
before it in support of heterosexual-only marriages. It refused
even to permit a grace period for Ontario to bring its laws into
conformity with the Charter of Rights and Freedoms. Courts in
British Columbia and Quebec have also struck down marriage laws,
but gave the governments time to rewrite their legislation.
The Ontario judges said denying same-sex marriage is tantamount
to declaring homosexuals a lesser order of being, helping to
perpetuate an impression that gays and lesbians are incapable
of forming loving relationships.
"A purpose that demeans the dignity of same-sex couples is contrary
to the values of a free and democratic society and cannot be
pressing and substantial," said Chief Justice Roy
McMURTRY,
Mr.
Justice James
MacPHERSON and Madam Justice Eileen
GILLESE.
"Same-sex couples are capable of forming long, lasting, loving
and intimate relationships. A law that prohibits same-sex couples
from marrying does not accord with the needs, capacities and
circumstances of same-sex couples."
The judges ordered Toronto's city clerk and the provincial registrar-general
to issue and accept marriage licences for two couples married
under the Christian tradition of publication of banns in 2001
-- Joe VARNELL and Kevin
BOURASSA; and Elaine and Anne
VAUTOUR
-- making them the first gay marriages in the country.
Henceforth, the court ordered the definition of marriage in Ontario
to be "the voluntary union for life of two persons to the exclusion
of all others."
The ruling was the culmination of decades of strategic prodding
by gay couples, associations and legal activists. All were ecstatic
yesterday over the strength of the Ontario ruling.
"This is why people come to Canada," said Michael
LESHNER, who
married his partner, Michael
STARK, within hours of the ruling.
"They marvel at our values. We have sent an unmistakable message
that love can conquer all."
"It's a momentous day," said Kyle
RAE, a gay Toronto city councillor.
"It is a great day for equality in Canada."
A lawyer for the couples, Martha
McCARTHY, predicted many more
marriages in the days ahead, while the federal government ponders
a possible appeal. "The more marriages we get, the more inevitable
this is," she said in an interview. "The time to be right is
ripe, as Martin Luther
KING would say."
Courts in Ontario, British Columbia and Quebec have now overturned
marriage laws. But the rulings in British Columbia and Quebec
did not take effect immediately because they allowed governments
until mid-2004 to redraft the laws.
A final clash is now possible before a Supreme Court of Canada
bench that has steadily established a reputation for defending
gay rights. The federal government has only until June 30 to
decide whether to appeal the British Columbia ruling. The Liberal
government is also expecting a report this week from a parliamentary
committee examining same-sex marriage.
Prime
Minister
Jean
CHRÉTIEN said yesterday Justice Minister
Martin CAUCHON is looking at the judgment along with the other
rulings, and said it is too early to know whether it will be
appealed.
Mr. CAUCHON said Ottawa recognizes it must move quickly toward
a "national solution" to the same-sex debate.
"We see the direction that the courts are taking now," Mr.
CAUCHON
said after a cabinet meeting. "I'm asking for a little bit of
time to look at the decision and to come back with a statement."
The Ontario Court of Appeal was not in a mood for patience, and
it was not willing to run the risk that provincial legislators
would devise wording to circumvent their ruling.
"A temporary suspension allows a state of affairs that has been
found to violate standards embodied in the Charter to persist
for a time despite the violation," the court said.
It also pointed out that were it simply to render the entire
law invalid, gay people would be vulnerable to the wrath of heterosexuals
who found themselves temporarily denied the benefits of marriage.
The decision rested on the constitutional right to equality and
emphasized the "dignity" of individuals.
Launched by eight same-sex couples, the litigation had targeted
a common-law definition of marriage as a union between "one man
and one woman." The couples won their challenge in Ontario's
Divisional Court, but it, too, suspended its ruling for two years.
Yesterday, the Court of Appeal specifically rejected arguments
that procreation is an integral pillar of marriage.
"Same-sex couples can choose to have children through adoption,
surrogacy and donor insemination," the judges reasoned. "Importantly,
procreation and child-rearing are not the only purposes of marriage,
or the only reason why couples choose to marry. The opposite-sex
requirement in marriage is not rationally connected to the encouragement
of procreation and child-rearing."
They said government lawyers offered mere speculation instead
of proof to show why the exclusion of same-sex marriages was
a valid social objective -- and that the definition of marriage
was far from a minimal infringement.
What Canadian think about gay issues
The Ontario Court of Appeal ruled yesterday that the right to
marry should be extended to same-sex couples.
Recent surveys have produced the following results:
Do you support or oppose gay marriage?
Support Oppose
Males (18-34) 61.2% 33.9%
Females (18-34) 69.2% 22.2%
If the Supreme Court of Canada said that the federal government
had to give gays and lesbians the right to be married, do you
think that the government should or should not use its power
to overrule the court's decision?
Should Should not
The Charter of Rights and Freedoms guarantees equal rights for
women and ethnic and religious minorities and other groups. In
your opinion, should the Charter also guarantee rights for gays
and lesbians?
Yes No
Note: Graphic does not include respondents who did not know or
who refused to answer.
source: Centre For Research And Information On Canada
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOURASSA m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.globe_and_mail 2003-06-11 published
Same-sex married couples rejoice
Ruling recognizes union of couples married in 2001; others rush
to wed
By Estanislao
OZIEWICZ
Wednesday,
June 11, 2003 - Page A4
Toronto -- For Kevin
BOURASSA, 45, and Joe
VARNELL, 33, becoming
Canada's first same-sex married couple is bittersweet, even as
advocates call their union a world first.
"Gee, I wish my mom could have seen this," Mr.
VARNELL said.
"Because of what the court did in Ontario today no mother will
ever again not be able to dance at her son's wedding. That's
a wonderful thing."
With his "lawfully wedded husband" at his side, Mr.
VARNELL said
they planned to celebrate by going home, popping a bottle of
champagne and cuddling with their cat.
"If you forgive me, I never want to see any of you in my living
room again," he said.
The pioneering couple, who were wed on January 14, 2001, and
other same-sex couples seeking to be married in civil ceremonies
were speaking at a news conference after a historic Ontario Court
of Appeal ruling that they have a constitutional right to marriage.
"Canada gets the gold medal for same-sex marriage around the
world," said Trent
MORRIS, lawyer for the Metropolitan Community
Church of Toronto.
"I would like to congratulate them for being the first same-sex
couple married not only in Canada but, as Mr.
MORRIS indicated,
the first same-sex couple in the world," said Cynthia
PETERSON,
lawyer for Equality for Gays And Lesbians Everywhere, a national
advocacy organization for gays and lesbians.
The Netherlands became the first country in the world to legalize
marriage for gays and lesbians on April 1, 2001. This year, Belgium
became the second country to open marriage to same-sex couples.
Unlike its northern neighbour, Belgium did not allow such couples
to adopt children.
Mr. VARNELL, an e-commerce consultant, and Mr.
BOURASSA, a former
bank manager who is now a full-time advocate for marriage equality,
were wed at the Metropolitan Community Church before the Dutch
law was changed, using an ancient -- and legally valid -- Christian
tradition of publication of banns, which amount to a notice of
intent to marry. This allowed them to avoid having to get a marriage
licence issued by the city.
The hitch, however, has been that whether a marriage in Ontario
is preceded by civil licence or by banns, it has to be registered
by the province's registrar-general.
Yesterday's court ruling not only ordered the City of Toronto
to issue licences to same-sex couples but also told the province
to register same-sex marriages. The city complied immediately,
and by late yesterday morning had issued licences to several
couples, including Ontario Crown attorney Michael
LESHNER, 55,
who a few hours later married his partner of two decades, Michael
STARK, 45, in front of Mr. Justice John
HAMILTON of the Ontario
Superior Court.
"This is first and foremost a Canadian love story," said Mr.
LESHNER, who has been a thorn in the side of the Ontario government
for years.
"This is why people come to Canada, because they marvel at our
values, and we've sent an unmistakable message that love can
conquer all, the love of two good men can defeat everything....
It [homophobia] is dead legally as of today."
The joy and optimism of homosexual groups was tempered by the
Ontario government's reluctance to embrace the ruling immediately
without reservation.
Attorney-General Norman
STERLING told the legislature that he
was waiting to hear whether the federal government would appeal
the decision to the Supreme Court. Although municipalities and
provinces administer marriages, the federal government is responsible
for defining marriage.
"We will, of course, follow what the court says in the decision
and follow that to the letter of the law," Mr.
STERLING said.
Among those celebrating yesterday were Joyce
BARNETT and Alison
KEMPER, who also picked up their marriage licences at Toronto
City Hall and will marry in July, 2004. The women, both of whom
are ordained in the Anglican Church, have been together since
Their two children were delighted. "I knew that nobody could
say I didn't have a family," said Robbie, 11, who was born to
Ms. KEMPER. "
Canada has finally figured out it's unfair to deny
this to anybody."
His sister Hannah, 17, said she has grown up to find that she
is heterosexual. She said she is indebted to her parents for
bringing her up "where it's okay to be what you want to be."
The court ruling did not sit well with some religious organizations,
including the Evangelical Fellowship of Canada.
Evangelical
Fellowship of Canada president Bruce
CELEMENGER said
the court has fundamentally redefined marriage.
"It is not an appropriate use of the Charter to redefine pre-existing
social, cultural and religious institutions," he said.
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOURASSA m@ca.on.york_county.toronto.toronto_star 2003-06-11 published
Gay couple married after ruling
Couple celebrates end of 20-year fight
Judges rewrite definition of marriage
Tracey TYLER and Tracy
HUFFMAN
Staff
Reporters
Two gay men said "I do" yesterday, after Ontario's highest court
said "they can."
Crown
Attorney
Michael
LESHNER and his long-time partner Michael
STARK were married by Mr. Justice John
HAMILTON in a hastily
arranged ceremony in the jury waiting room of a Toronto courthouse,
as a crowd that included everyone from judges to janitors looked
on.
Just hours before, the Ontario Court of Appeal rewrote the definition
of marriage to include same-sex couples, saying denying gays
and lesbians the ability to marry offends their dignity, discriminates
on the basis of sexual orientation and violates their equality
rights under the Charter of Rights and Freedoms.
A unanimous three-judge panel, made up of Chief Justice Roy
McMURTRY
and justices James
MacPHERSON and Eileen
GILLESE, then took the
issue further than any other court in the world.
Gay and lesbian marriage became legal in Ontario, effective immediately.
"Michael LESHNER, will you please repeat after me," said
HAMILTON,
as he began the short, civil ceremony. "I do solemnly declare
that I do not know of any lawful impediment why I may not be
joined in matrimony to Michael Clifford
STARK."
Both men repeated the declaration before pledging their vows.
"I Michael, take you Michael, to be my lawful wedded spouse,"
said LESHNER. "To have and to hold, from this day forward, whatever
circumstances or experiences life may hold for us."
HAMILTON, an Ontario Superior Court judge, asked both men to
place rings on each other's fingers, then made it official.
"By the power vested in me by the Marriage Act, I pronounce you
Michael, and you Michael -- affectionately known as 'the Michaels'
-- to be lawfully wedded spouses."
"You are now married," said
HAMILTON, who later said it was "an
honour" to perform the ceremony.
LESHNER, 55, and
STARK, 45, kissed and popped champagne.
Speaking to reporters,
LESHNER said he regards the court's judgment
as, "Day One for millions of gays and lesbians around the world"
and the culmination of a personal 20-year battle to end "legally
sanctioned homophobia."
"I wanted to put a stake through that sucker," he said.
His 90-year-old mother, Ethel, who beamed and sang in her wheelchair,
drew her satisfaction on a smaller scale.
"I feel wonderful, if he does. And I'm sure he does -- take a
look at his face," she said.
"I can't 'rah, rah, rah.' I'm not the type of person to do that,"
she said. "I'm just happy my son is happy -- I know he's getting
a nice guy."
While LESHNER and
STARK are believed to be the first gay couple
to wed after same-sex marriage became legal yesterday, they may
not be the first gay Ontario couple to be legally married. That
distinction appears to fall to two same-sex couples who were
married in a double ceremony at Toronto's Metropolitan Community
Church in January, 2001.
The appeal court ordered the province to register marriage certificates
issued to those couples, Kevin
BOURASSA and Joe
VARNELL and Elaine
and Anne VAUTOUR.
The judges also ordered the clerk of the City
of Toronto to issue marriage licences to
LESHNER and
STARK and
six other couples whose licence applications were held in abeyance
pending a ruling by the courts. The province and the city told
the judges during a hearing in April that they would abide by
whatever the appeal court decided.
Less clear is where the federal government stands.
Justice
Minister
Martin
CAUCHON told reporters yesterday he believes
Members of Parliament should have a say in the debate about same-sex
marriage, but the government also sees where courts across the country
are heading on the issue.
The British Columbia Court of Appeal and a Quebec Superior Court
judge have also ruled the common law definition of marriage violates
the Charter's equality provisions, but didn't go as far as Ontario
in immediately extending marriage to same-sex couples, preferring
instead to give Parliament until July, 2004 to change the law.
The Ontario Court of Appeal said there's no need to wait: Changing
the definition of marriage, effective immediately, won't create
any public harm.
Federal justice department spokesperson Dorette
POLLARD said
the government has until September 9 to decide whether to seek
leave to appeal the decision to the Supreme Court of Canada.
In the meantime, the government does not have the option of seeking
a court injunction to stop same-sex marriages from taking place,
she said.
If a further appeal to the Supreme Court is in the cards, it
could return to the Court of Appeal to ask for a stay of yesterday's
ruling, effectively putting it in suspension,
POLLARD said.
She was unable to say how that would affect same-sex marriages
that have already taken place.
Opponents of same-sex marriage, however, had no difficulty expressing
an opinion on yesterday's decision.
By reformulating the definition of marriage, the appeal court
ignored "centuries of precedent" and rendered "ordinary Canadians'
views irrelevant," said Derek
ROGUSKY, a vice-president of Focus
on the Family, whose interests were represented by The Association
for Marriage and the Family in Ontario, an intervenor in the
case.
In its decision yesterday, written not by one judge in particular
but collectively as "the court," the appeal panel changed the
definition of marriage from being "the voluntary union for life
of one man and one woman," to "the voluntary union for life of
two persons to the exclusion of all others."
A person's sense of dignity and self worth can only be enhanced
by the recognition that society gives to marriage and denying
people in same-sex relationships access to that most basic of
institutions violates their dignity, the court said.
"The ability to marry, and to thereby participate in this fundamental
societal institution, is something that most Canadians take for
granted. Same-sex couples do not; they are denied access to this
institution simply on the basis of their sexual orientation."
Preventing same-sex couples from marrying perpetuates the view
that they are not capable of forming loving and lasting relationships
and not worthy of the same respect and recognition as heterosexual
couples, the court added.
It was ruling on an appeal from an Ontario Divisional Court decision
last year. The Divisional Court said the common law definition
of marriage as an exclusively heterosexual union was unconstitutional,
but decided 2-1 to leave it up to Parliament to rewrite the law
by July, 2004.
The dissenting judge in that case, Mr. Justice Harry
LAFORME,
who would have changed the definition immediately, attended yesterday's
ceremony.
In its 60-page decision yesterday, the judges systematically
disposed of Ottawa's arguments for preserving marriage as a heterosexual
domain, saying they were filled with irrelevancies, stereotypes
and "circular reasoning."
The government argued that marriage has always been understood
as a special kind of monogamous institution that brings the sexes
together for the purposes of procreating, raising children and
companionship.
That isn't something that lawmakers dreamed up; it predates the
law, the government said.
Who invented the concept of marriage doesn't matter, the court
said; What does is how gays and lesbians fare under a legal regime
that excludes them from the institution.
The government was avoiding the main issue by arguing that marriage
"just is" heterosexual and benefits society as a whole, the court
said.
"The couples are not seeking to abolish the institution of marriage,"
wrote the judges. "They are seeking access to it."
With files from Mary
GORDON
B... Names BO... Names Welcome Home
BOURASSA - All Categories in OGSPI
BO surnames continued to m200bo02.htm